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MsWillAdore -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 6:59:52 PM)
LOL... I posted this morning and forgot to add this... remember I am overweight, BBW, fat ass... whatever you want to call it... but I am chipping in a nickel to add to the 2 cents I posted this morning... Here are just a few of the rude fat comments I've heard in the past few months, and some of the responses I've tried. "You're fat!" Yes I am -- thanks for noticing! Is THAT what this stuff on my hips is? Who knew? Damn, you're perceptive. Did you figure that out by yourself, or did someone help you with that? "You really should lose weight." You really should mind your own business. As long as my doctor says I'm healthy, I'm fine. Thanks, I'll take that into consideration. (this gets rid of them quickly) "You don't need to eat that." Maybe not, but you sure need to learn some manners! I may not NEED to, but I WANT to. I decide what I eat and when. Thanks anyhow. "If you lost some weight, you'd (insert unrealistic promise)." If I lost weight, I'd lose my cleavage. If you had a brain, you'd realize how stupid that sounded. If I was a guy, we wouldn't be having this conversation. "My, you've put on weight!" And I see you haven't changed a bit. My, how rude you've gotten! Are you always this complimentary, or is this a special occasion? "Look at yourself!" Why? Do I have food stuck in my teeth? When was the last time YOU looked in the mirror? With that cheap toupee (weave, mustache, face, etc.), you're telling ME to look at myself? "Fat pig ." Do you talk to your mother with that mouth? Do you practice every day, or were you born this tacky? You must be mistaken. The last time I looked, I didn't have a tail. "If you didn't eat so much, you wouldn't be so fat." Are you the food police? Most large people don't eat any differently than thin people. If you didn't talk so much, you wouldn't be so stupid. Have you been looking in my windows and watching me eat again? "Maybe if you got a little exercise, you wouldn't be so fat." How often do YOU work out? Contrary to popular belief, you CAN be fit and fat. Maybe if you learned some manners, you wouldn't be so rude. A few all-purpose respsonses to fat remarks: Damn, how RUDE! Go pick on someone your own size. I'm big -- there's more of me to love! My mama taught me better manners than that. Remember, you don't have to make excuses or explanations for your weight. People who make insulting remarks about your body are just plain rude! It's time to start sticking up for ourselves, and pointing the finger back at the fools who try to put us down.

MsWillAdore -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 7:02:01 PM)
Hope everyone enjoys my cocky attitude... it's as large as my ass! Wait... cocky? as large as my ass? Now THAT would be a well hung gentleman!!! LOL

MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 7:18:30 PM)
quote: Man Iv only been posting a little over a month and this has to be at least the 6th thread about a guy whineing about why there are so many over waight people in BDSM I didnt see his post as whining at all.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 7:33:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin quote: ORIGINAL: enigmabrat But honestly how can someone think they can make a statement about something that is to many a personal and touchy subject and not expect some emotional replies??? Because honestly....he didn't make a statement of any kind....he simply asked a question. He didn't say "There are too many overweight women at bdsm events". He didn't say "I don't like overweight women". He didn't say "Women at bdsm events should all be forced to diet". Those would be statements. He simply asked a question. People allowed their own sensitivities to come into play. He is not responsible for that. His question was generic....and people chose to personalize it. Enigmabrat, I agree with Erin. Stop personalizing it. No one said YOU are fat. No one said that YOU need to lose weight. Why are YOU so offended by this? Relax, calm down and think straight. This isnt about YOU.

Invictus754 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 7:36:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sixstrokes Why does bdsm appear to attract far more than its' fair share of overweight women? Ahh, sixstrokes [ and by the way... just exactly to what does your name refer? Hopefully not your sexual prowess! Unless you consider six strokes more than a woman's fair share, of course.] ... for professing to have a 'reasonable build' you don't do us the favor of pasting your picture on the web. Offering the lame excuse that collarme wouldn't accept your photos is pretty funny. I would guess that this is a posting of a man who can't attract the "skinny" girls he can abuse, and certainly would be scared of trying to dom some of the larger women who might just kick your dumb ass if you asked that question of them directly. If you were truly a dom, you wouldn't be asking this question. IMHO, of course. P.S.: Learn how to use an apostrophe. Maybe if you had a command of the English language, you would be in command of more thin girls.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 7:47:15 PM)
quote: yes the op isnt reponsable for how people feel twords what he said.... but was it something that needed to be said... Is it something that needs to be pointed out... we are adults we dont need to say every little thing we observe aspecialy if it may be hurtfull to people... not that he ment to be hurtfulll.... anyway you know what I mean I have noticed several times during this thread thin people being called "bag o bones" and "no cushion for the pushin'" and I have yet to see any skinny girls coming forward and defending themselves or their skinniness. Could it be that they just didnt take offense to those terms? Who knows, but the point is, there is no reason to take his question so personally. As you can clearly see, I am an overweight woman. Notice that I did not say I am a BBW? I don't use that term because I dont feel that I am beautiful. I am a big woman with pretty eyes lol I suppose I could be called BPEW lol (Big Pretty Eyed Woman). Edited to add: I have seen the OP flamed more by the very folks who claim that he is offending, then I have seen him flame anyone. Interesting.

litleone8620 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 7:51:51 PM)
I consider myself a BBW simply because i find myself beautiful. Not everyone will agree with me, obviously. But i don't care anymore. A person can't live their lives to the fullest caring what other people think; and letting them dictate what they think about themselves. I've always said: if you don't like what you see, then stop looking.

mistoferin -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 7:57:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa I have noticed several times during this thread thin people being called "bag o bones" and "no cushion for the pushin'" and I have yet to see any skinny girls coming forward and defending themselves or their skinniness. Could it be that they just didnt take offense to those terms? Who knows, but the point is, there is no reason to take his question so personally. As you can clearly see, I am an overweight woman. Notice that I did not say I am a BBW? I don't use that term because I dont feel that I am beautiful. I am a big woman with pretty eyes lol I suppose I could be called BPEW lol (Big Pretty Eyed Woman). MistressofGa, There is another thread on the board about underweight subs and slaves. I find it very interesting that none of the behavior that has occurred on this thread can be found on that one. I'd also like to say that I think that you are indeed a beautiful lady...with a wonderful mind also [:)]

litleone8620 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:02:34 PM)
You know, Erin, i was just reading that thread, and noticed that myself. It's funny, isn't it?

thisishis -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:03:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa I have noticed several times during this thread thin people being called "bag o bones" and "no cushion for the pushin'" and I have yet to see any skinny girls coming forward and defending themselves or their skinniness. Could it be that they just didnt take offense to those terms? Who knows, but the point is, there is no reason to take his question so personally. As you can clearly see, I am an overweight woman. Notice that I did not say I am a BBW? I don't use that term because I dont feel that I am beautiful. I am a big woman with pretty eyes lol I suppose I could be called BPEW lol (Big Pretty Eyed Woman). Edited to add: I have seen the OP flamed more by the very folks who claim that he is offending, then I have seen him flame anyone. Interesting. i've commented ... yet i'm one of those skinnies who hasn't stepped forward in defense of my skinniness. i haven't felt any real need to. i haven't been offended. i haven't been because i don't place much weight with the opinion of those who would make such statements and also because i'm not selfconcious about being extremely thin, and so i refuse to allow myself to take the statements personally. i used to be selfconcious because i used to allow others the power to make me feel that way about myself. i hope that is expressed clearly enough as it's the closest i can get to explaining where i am at with my feelings regarding the subject on a personal level. i like the your attitude regarding this topic of discussion. If you can be a BPEW ... i'll think about being the PSSS (petite/silky/skinned/slave). Disclaimer: First person who mispronounces it as 'piss' is going to get beat hard over the head with a very skinny size 4 flip flop.

Caretakr -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:08:13 PM)
The levels of negativity in this thread have dropped to astounding levels. If this is what can be expected from so many overweight people, I can understand why you remain alone. And it's not about how you look.[8D]

Invictus754 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:15:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin MistressofGa, There is another thread on the board about underweight subs and slaves. I find it very interesting that none of the behavior that has occurred on this thread can be found on that one. The reason for the differences in behavior most likely stems from the public treatment. Thin women are not treated as poorly as larger women in public. Society commands us to be thin or be ostracized; everyone who can watch TV only sees thin actors (unless you watch Univision - then you just see cleavage [:D]). No one says "I want to be FAT!", but you hear many say, "I want to be THIN!". If we could all turn off our damn TVs, we would be much happier. IMHO, again.

litleone8620 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:22:24 PM)
Ahhhhhhhh, but Invictus, it's not just tv that's telling us to be thin. It's apparent in everyday life. You go to a party, and who is the one surrounded by the guys? The pretty, thin girl. It's never going to go away.

kc692 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:25:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zenofeller idiots, short people, overweight people and so forth tend to gather in those places that their respective shortcomings are least a hindrance. as long as you can reach the keyboard, you can still post no matter how short you are. as long as you can bash your head on a keyboard, you can still post, no matter how dumb you are. and as long as you can find your fingers, you can still post, no matter how fat you are. real life things, even simple ones like walking down the street, put a higher entry barrier in front of idiots, fatties and so forth than the most demanding internet forum. Raises hand Check your profile for typos , if you are truly 6'5" and 150 pounds you better worry about real life things like strong winds..........jmho.

doll -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:37:19 PM)
Do not make me come back to Georgia and smack you K. You are a very beautiful woman..inside and out... and I am not just saying that because you are my best friend. Smiles.... remember I know things that I cannot speak of...waggles eyebrows.

subgreg -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:39:18 PM)
I'd like to know what you consider overweight. At 6 ft tall, the weight charts start are 149-160 for a small frame male, 157-170 for a medium frame male and 164-188 a large frame male. Unless you have a large frame, meaning your elbow is wider than 3 3/18ths inches, you yourself are at least ten pounds overweight. (You can determine your frame size by using the directions on this website http://www.healthchecksystems.com/heightweightchart.htm#frame ) Just thought I'd point that out. Now.. why exactly did you feel the need to mention anyone's body size? If they aren't your preference, move on. You want a certain body type, buy her. There are quite a few women out there who are for sale. Don't whine about it in a forum unless you're trying to make sure we all realize that you are a fat bigot. Personally, I don't feel looks, age, body size, breast size or penis size have a thing to do with the ability to submit deeply and beautifully. Perhaps when you actually do some more growing you'll realize that.

doll -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:41:09 PM)
I can honestly say I don't say "I want to be thin"...I am happy being me just the way I am and I have no trouble finding men who find me attractive. Yes...the media does tend to put too much into the whole "thin is in" thing...but I don't watch much t.v. and when I do....the cartoons could careless if I am fat or not.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:49:22 PM)
quote: MistressofGa, There is another thread on the board about underweight subs and slaves. I find it very interesting that none of the behavior that has occurred on this thread can be found on that one. I'd also like to say that I think that you are indeed a beautiful lady...with a wonderful mind also [:)] quote: I like the your attitude regarding this topic of discussion. If you can be a BPEW ... i'll think about being the PSSS (petite/silky/skinned/slave). quote: Do not make me come back to Georgia and smack you K. You are a very beautiful woman..inside and out... and I am not just saying that because you are my best friend. Smiles.... remember I know things that I cannot speak of...waggles eyebrows Well gee! lol I didnt go fishing, but look what I caught! lol Thank you for the compliments <s> A, if it gets you back to Georgia, then I will continue to slam myself lol and yes, I am well aware of things that you know <s> But..I know just as much about YOU lol

litleone8620 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:50:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subgreg I'd like to know what you consider overweight. At 6 ft tall, the weight charts start are 149-160 for a small frame male, 157-170 for a medium frame male and 164-188 a large frame male. Unless you have a large frame, meaning your elbow is wider than 3 3/18ths inches, you yourself are at least ten pounds overweight. (You can determine your frame size by using the directions on this website http://www.healthchecksystems.com/heightweightchart.htm#frame ) Just thought I'd point that out. Now.. why exactly did you feel the need to mention anyone's body size? If they aren't your preference, move on. You want a certain body type, buy her. There are quite a few women out there who are for sale. Don't whine about it in a forum unless you're trying to make sure we all realize that you are a fat bigot. Personally, I don't feel looks, age, body size, breast size or penis size have a thing to do with the ability to submit deeply and beautifully. Perhaps when you actually do some more growing you'll realize that. I think you need to go back and read the entire thread. Answer me this: where in the OP does it say he doesn't like overweight women?

MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:54:23 PM)
quote: You go to a party, and who is the one surrounded by the guys? The pretty, thin girl. You have obviously never hung out with Doll and her twin sister. They are the ones who are surrounded by men. EVERYTIME, and neither one of them are thin, pretty yes, but thin? No.

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