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QuietDom -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:54:23 PM)
Just because of an unbearable urge to be the devil's advocate, I'm going to put myself squarely in the path of vilification, here. (And I don't know whether this counts as sadism or masochism. Probably both.) I Prefer Thin Subs!!! Now that I've outed myself as a loathsome bigot, and the flamethrowers are being set to 'full power,' I'll use my few last words to explain my thoughts; First, I myself am rail-thin. Nearly skeletal. And it's very hard to feel powerful and imposing when your sub has forearms thicker than your own thighs. Second, I enjoy being able to pick a sub up and carry her around. It makes me feel very strong and in charge. And there are physical limits to how much I can lift. That's all. Let the flames fly.

doll -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:55:02 PM)
I will take a redeye flight from Cali to Ga and show up on your doorstep and you will see lol. I wasn't talking about what you knew about me lol....that subject will stay closed. <giggles>

doll -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:57:12 PM)
I personally won't flame you. It is ok to have preferences. I prefer tall men with nice eyes and a nice smile...but I don't delittle men who are short and so on.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:58:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: QuietDom Just because of an unbearable urge to be the devil's advocate, I'm going to put myself squarely in the path of vilification, here. (And I don't know whether this counts as sadism or masochism. Probably both.) I Prefer Thin Subs!!! Now that I've outed myself as a loathsome bigot, and the flamethrowers are being set to 'full power,' I'll use my few last words to explain my thoughts; First, I myself am rail-thin. Nearly skeletal. And it's very hard to feel powerful and imposing when your sub has forearms thicker than your own thighs. Second, I enjoy being able to pick a sub up and carry her around. It makes me feel very strong and in charge. And there are physical limits to how much I can lift. That's all. Let the flames fly. Hi QD, I understand completely. You have very valid reasons for not wanting a heavy sub, but you really owed us no explaination. You have every right to feel the way you feel and no one should "flame" you for it. Welcome to the forums :)

litleone8620 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 8:58:18 PM)
Hmmmmmm, maybe i should.

marieToo -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:01:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: QuietDom Just because of an unbearable urge to be the devil's advocate, I'm going to put myself squarely in the path of vilification, here. (And I don't know whether this counts as sadism or masochism. Probably both.) I Prefer Thin Subs!!! Now that I've outed myself as a loathsome bigot, and the flamethrowers are being set to 'full power,' I'll use my few last words to explain my thoughts; First, I myself am rail-thin. Nearly skeletal. And it's very hard to feel powerful and imposing when your sub has forearms thicker than your own thighs. Second, I enjoy being able to pick a sub up and carry her around. It makes me feel very strong and in charge. And there are physical limits to how much I can lift. That's all. Let the flames fly. No one flames when a man posts that he prefers a bbw. I personally dont see that as any different than someone posting that they like thin girls. But rest assured, someone will come along who does.

litleone8620 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:05:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: QuietDom Just because of an unbearable urge to be the devil's advocate, I'm going to put myself squarely in the path of vilification, here. (And I don't know whether this counts as sadism or masochism. Probably both.) I Prefer Thin Subs!!! Now that I've outed myself as a loathsome bigot, and the flamethrowers are being set to 'full power,' I'll use my few last words to explain my thoughts; First, I myself am rail-thin. Nearly skeletal. And it's very hard to feel powerful and imposing when your sub has forearms thicker than your own thighs. Second, I enjoy being able to pick a sub up and carry her around. It makes me feel very strong and in charge. And there are physical limits to how much I can lift. That's all. Let the flames fly. It makes me sad that you felt the need to explain yourself. you're allowed your opinions, and people who flame you for it are only ignorant, should be avoided at all costs. Your POV is completely understandable. I myself am a BBW, and it would feel strange for me to submit to a man i myself could pick up and carry around. I prefer a man with a sense of humor, and some modicum of intelligence. Where are the flamethrowers now? Why is it that just because someone has an opinion that is PERCIEVED as negative, they get flamed for it?

TeeGO -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:09:23 PM)
It's all about the mind, it's all about the heart. The flesh is really meaningless. But that is my opinion. Being alone is what's bad.

kc692 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:14:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44 quote: ORIGINAL: six strokes I am the op - censorship has kicked in already I have been warned by the moderator that my stay on here will be short if i continue to post as i have done - if someone can point out something nasty i have said please do so it is a pity that free speech is not allowed in a forum such as this it is my theory that people get involved in bdsm ( and i include myself here) because they do have issues about themselves - whether or not those issues are valid is a different question i have NEVER said anything disparaging about overweight people this may be last post as it is likely i will now be removed from Collar Me for my comments i have more concern over another thread where the writer moans that she cannot find someone to kick the hell out of and a reply comes back to the effect that another likes their sub to resemble a hamburger after a beating You got a warning too, huh? Seems the mod takes this thread kind of personally. For the record you didn't make any disparaging remarks that I saw. And it's funny that you're question and my statement get warnings (my statement got pulled) but jackass statements like post 8 and 9 stay in the thread. Interesting. I haven't read through the rest of the pages, but I imagine the warning was the disparagement of other threads and the attitude that those threads were of any less value than this one. Everyone has an opinion, as is evidenced by the fact we have discussion forums at all, and none of the remarks as of post 150 have been flaming(I am responding as I am reading them) with the exception of the this one concerning certain posts from you and posts concerning other threads from the OP. I also want to point out to you, it is very plain that there is more than one mod, so "the mod" taking this thread personally doesn't even make sense. The mods review all the threads, not just the certain ones you happen to answer to or follow to be able to make that statement. They do an awesome job here, and should be appreciated. Will we always agree? NO, and that is what makes up the spice of life and WIITWD. Should we be respectful of each other, HELL YES. After all, don't we all have enough problems with vanilla accepting our various individualities without attacking each other? And for the record, OP, I am looking at this very late in the evening, and you are still a member of Collarme, so the offhand statement of free speech not being allowed has been disproved. One of the ideals of this site was to become a community, therefore everyone should be treated with respect, and the site tries to show respect for every legal kink that I can think of, and some I've never seen before. I think what they do expect is respect for the others opinions. Some responses have been very emotional, they have not however, been flaming or disparaging as some of yours were, about other threads. Of course, this is only my opinion again, but I bet I'm correct on most of their viewpoints, as I think respect for others kinks was a cornerstone of founding this community. Gets off her soapbox and goes back to reading

MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:15:13 PM)
quote: Being alone is what's bad. TeeGo, You just said a mouthful, or in this case, you just typed a handful.

kc692 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:17:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol I would be interested to hear of whom else got a warning on this thread. WHY DOES IT MATTER?

doll -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:20:00 PM)
lol K...not everytime. I admit that I think a lot of it has more to do with our personalities then anything...

joyinslavery -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:20:00 PM)
Somebody...PLEASE...for the love of GOD!...put this thing out of it's misery (and all of us). Can someone please post what is commonly referred to as "an ender"? I don't possess the intelligence nor the strength (after keeping up with this damned thing). Your actions would not be viewed as criminal but rather, as a mercy killing in the truest sense. Please?

thisishis -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:26:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: litleone8620 Ahhhhhhhh, but Invictus, it's not just tv that's telling us to be thin. It's apparent in everyday life. You go to a party, and who is the one surrounded by the guys? The pretty, thin girl. It's never going to go away. Food for thought: 1.Is it acceptable to assume that thin girls at parties who are surrounded by guys, have nothing else to offer nor be credited for other than their thin bodies and pretty appearances? 2. Is it acceptable to assume that guys at parties who surround the pretty thin girls are only interested in them because they are pretty and thin? It's not acceptable to me. What do people expect the thin pretty girls to do? Suddenly become not thin and not pretty so that anyone else who is not thin and not feeling pretty will feel better? Or feel that life is fair? Or believe that those girls surrounded by the guys actually may have something to offer of substance which is not tied to their looks? Besides ... i don't know if i'd been at different types of parties in my lifetime. Of those which i attended i always noticed that some of the guys surrounded the loud girls who always seemed to be the life of the party, laughing and joking. Many of the guys flocked to the girls who were confident enough to snag their attention through good old fashioned flirtatious body language and/or conversation. Sometimes some of them surrounded the girls who had big boobs. Sometimes more than a few of them surrounded the girls with the big booties. And MOST of the time, the guys at parties which i attended mostly surrounded the keg in the bathtub. Nothing personal and these are just thoughts which entered my mind when i read your post litleone8620.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:30:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: doll lol K...not everytime. I admit that I think a lot of it has more to do with our personalities then anything... It is the combination of your looks and your personalities. I have a great personality but I dont see the men flocking to me like they do you and M. I am not complaining, mind you. I have had to put a few of them in their places lol but it is a sight to see when they are drooling. The point is, if we all were thin, fat, short hair, long hair or basically the SAME, what a boring, truly vanilla world this would be. Lessons to be learned on this thread, we all react to different key words, but please everyone do try to remember that if something offends you, first look inside your own soul to find out if maybe it is just you or if the OP really intended to hurt anyone's feelings.

DominaBBW -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:30:15 PM)
I posted this comment before on a similar thread, so I'll post it again as an "ENDER" just for joyinslavery's sanity. "The wild, wonderful world that is BDSM is a melting pot of very "unique" individuals. There are those who who seek to morph their sex, modify their bodies, or become their canine/feline alter-ego. There are blacks, whites, asians, gays, straights, lesbians and every variance on the spectrum in between. Some are entralled by older gay males in full leather, while others like young boy toys with hard bodies in g-strings. There are those who dream of a waif-like Asian Domme strung into a tight latex corset and those who are overcome with joy as seeing a full-figured black Domme in a Goddess robe. People just are what they are....it's just a matter of finding someone who appreciates it. So if someone doesn't enjoy your size, shape, color, fashion sense etc, perhaps you won't enjoy their preference for coating their genitals in tapioca pudding while wearing a beret. It all works out in the end. In this lifestyle we should celebrate differences. After all, our differences are what seperates us from the vanilla world."

joyinslavery -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:32:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DominaBBW I posted this comment before on a similar thread, so I'll post it again as an "ENDER" just for joyinslavery's sanity. "The wild, wonderful world that is BDSM is a melting pot of very "unique" individuals. There are those who who seek to morph their sex, modify their bodies, or become their canine/feline alter-ego. There are blacks, whites, asians, gays, straights, lesbians and every variance on the spectrum in between. Some are entralled by older gay males in full leather, while others like young boy toys with hard bodies in g-strings. There are those who dream of a waif-like Asian Domme strung into a tight latex corset and those who are overcome with joy as seeing a full-figured black Domme in a Goddess robe. People just are what they are....it's just a matter of finding someone who appreciates it. So if someone doesn't enjoy your size, shape, color, fashion sense etc, perhaps you won't enjoy their preference for coating their genitals in tapioca pudding while wearing a beret. It all works out in the end. In this lifestyle we should celebrate differences. After all, our differences are what seperates us from the vanilla world." Very well said Domina! Thank You! THE END ...roll credits Mod...(for those art house-type filmgoers that love to stay all the way through the closing credits, it may take a while).

kc692 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:39:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr The levels of negativity in this thread have dropped to astounding levels. If this is what can be expected from so many overweight people, I can understand why you remain alone. And it's not about how you look.[8D] May I ask you to clarify who you are addressing when you say " I can understand why you remain alone"? Did I miss something?

kc692 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:47:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: joyinslavery quote: ORIGINAL: DominaBBW I posted this comment before on a similar thread, so I'll post it again as an "ENDER" just for joyinslavery's sanity. "The wild, wonderful world that is BDSM is a melting pot of very "unique" individuals. There are those who who seek to morph their sex, modify their bodies, or become their canine/feline alter-ego. There are blacks, whites, asians, gays, straights, lesbians and every variance on the spectrum in between. Some are entralled by older gay males in full leather, while others like young boy toys with hard bodies in g-strings. There are those who dream of a waif-like Asian Domme strung into a tight latex corset and those who are overcome with joy as seeing a full-figured black Domme in a Goddess robe. People just are what they are....it's just a matter of finding someone who appreciates it. So if someone doesn't enjoy your size, shape, color, fashion sense etc, perhaps you won't enjoy their preference for coating their genitals in tapioca pudding while wearing a beret. It all works out in the end. In this lifestyle we should celebrate differences. After all, our differences are what seperates us from the vanilla world." Very well said Domina! Thank You! THE END ...roll credits Mod...(for those art house-type filmgoers that love to stay all the way through the closing credits, it may take a while). I agree to the end, smiles, I was way behind in reading the posts, sorry, it is best this one should die, but the activityin one day,,,,wow!!! me leaves quietly too

Caretakr -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/27/2006 9:52:29 PM)
I'd have the same attitude towards anyone who expressed as much bitterness. If I am going to eat drano-I prefer not to have it second hand.

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