nephandi
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Joined: 9/23/2005 From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen! Status: offline
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Greetings quote:
Yeah, I read one woman talking about it. She was terrified of what her husband would do to her when he found out she made a 20 dollar mistake in the checkbook since she was in pain for days when she did not have the house spotless when he got home from work a few days ago. That woman's story seemed more abusive to me. Being afraid of punishment do not mean that something is abusive. I know quite a few Gorean slaves who are pretty frightened to be punished by their Masters but they still want to be slaves and in a TPE Master/slave relationship. Now either this woman is not happy in her relationship and since it is based on both parties being consensual she should tell her husband okey enough we are done with this and if he is not willing to stop she should leave him, or she is still consensual and then even if she is afraid of the consequences of breaking his rules she still want that kind of relationship in which case she is there of her own free will and the relationship is nto abusive. I wish you well
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