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hrxxx -> BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 6:23:13 AM)

Describe yourself in four words. I made a little word play, and may help to understand the subtle differences in BDSM, word game is simple the only four words are to describe yourself with is Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism,
And you have to tell what role you have in BDSM way to describe itself, Sexual Drive, Love That, Like That and Not So Much.
Sexual Drive I think about if you take three word away, and can only choose one word your BDSM sexuality, same as you know you are gay, lesbian, trans, stright, bisexual. or whatever

I do not like to be called Dom, so my role is Trainer my sexual drive is Sadism because I enjoy inflict pain. I love Bondag because I also like to tie up. I enjoy Discipline for I will also teach my child anything. preferably not Masochism I do not like pain so much. So my BDSM looks like this SBDM

A few examples of what mean.

A mistress who gets her sexual drive from dominating a slave, she loves bondage and she enjoys sadism, do not like masochisme her BDSM will look like this DBSM.

A master who gets her sexule drive from bondage, love sadism, enjoying discipline, and do not like masochisme looks like this BSDM

A slave who gets her sexual drive from bondage and loves masochisme, enjoys discipline, and do not like sadism looks like this BMDS

All the examples use the same BDSM equipment, but there is a big difference how it is used because the sexual drive is not the same.

You can try playing the game, and see which combination you end up with.




tazzygirl -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 6:29:33 AM)

YM,NM




hrxxx -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 6:32:50 AM)


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

YM,NM


It was not quite what I meant, but ok I take it as outside the category lol




tazzygirl -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 6:34:48 AM)

For me, what else is there? I can describe myself any ole way I want, but, in the end, the only description of me that matters is the one he gives me.




hrxxx -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 6:44:59 AM)

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discipline


That was easy :) Discipline i guess notthing else matters




hrxxx -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 6:48:44 AM)

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outside the category


I guess you are outside the category




SimplyMichael -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 7:02:25 AM)

D U M B




SwitchNSpanky -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 7:52:51 AM)

Sex, love, worship, emotion.

Four words that describe my game and me.

For me. BDSM is real sex

My partner and I worship one another

Sex without love is a tad hollow

Without emotions such as love the act loses impact.





SeekingTrinity -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 11:15:55 AM)

~FRing it~

I must have not had enough coffee this morning yet...because this topic makes absolutely no fucking sense whatsoever.




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 11:56:41 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

~FRing it~

I must have not had enough coffee this morning yet...because this topic makes absolutely no fucking sense whatsoever.

I don't think there is enough coffee in the world to fix this.




DesFIP -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 12:05:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2


quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

~FRing it~

I must have not had enough coffee this morning yet...because this topic makes absolutely no fucking sense whatsoever.

I don't think there is enough coffee in the world to fix this.



QFT




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 12:07:40 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

~FRing it~

I must have not had enough coffee this morning yet...because this topic makes absolutely no fucking sense whatsoever.


I think he wants you to arrange the initials in 'BDSM' in the order of their appeal to you.

I also suspect there's some translation issues.




myotherself -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 12:15:22 PM)

pain in the ass


(in all meanings of the phrase at one time or another [8D])




SeekingTrinity -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 2:14:12 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I think he wants you to arrange the initials in 'BDSM' in the order of their appeal to you.

I also suspect there's some translation issues.


Ah, ok. Makes more sense now. Kept asking myself what the hell I was reading. Read it again. Still asking WTF. And finally just said fuck it and suffered a trip instead to the 7th circle of hell...a.k.a grocery shopping.

Rearranging BDSM still doesn't make sense to me, OP. BDSM is a universally understood concept (or misunderstood depending on whether or not someone is into it), whereas if I say Im into DBMS, MDSB, or whatever other combinations there are of these 4 letters...it's likely Im going to be asked what the fuck Im talking about. If it ain't broke, don't fix it

But I will say I do like DMB...but that's Dave Matthews Band




SimplyMichael -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 2:25:23 PM)

Why isnt this moved to gor or the stupid posts section?




SoulAlloy -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 2:53:21 PM)

tis just a game (the thread that is), albeit a bit hard to follow. Personally I'd be MBDS if I followed it correctly, though that'd change periodically with my mood, though M or B would always be one of the first two letters.




SimplyMichael -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 3:03:23 PM)

no, this just shows how low the bar has been set, sad really.




kalikshama -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 4:19:09 PM)

BMD




littlewonder -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 4:31:24 PM)

none of the above

4 words even




CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: BDSM in four words (6/25/2013 5:17:02 PM)

Since BDSM doesn't just stand for four words...

Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/submission, Sex/Mmmm [;)] , and Sadism/Masochism. Did I miss anything?

...For myself, I'd have to say Master/slave (D/s) tops everything else. The rest are a jumble and I have no way of putting them into any kind of order (bondage, sadism, discipline).

These past two months I've had my hands tied as far as enjoying toying with bo. His first surgery went wrong (a rare complication happened) and he was bad off that entire time. Today was his second surgery and I'm about to drive over there tonight (3 hour drive that sometimes takes longer). Nothing can happen other than caretaking and enjoying his company. Both of us are missing bondage, floggings, and "torture"...oh yeah, and strapon sex.




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