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goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:17:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Rawni

Guess you missed the post before her edit that said something about why she wants an experienced submissive and where she spoke as if she were the original poster. Changed it pretty quick and then changed the words and posted again and then changed it again. [:D] I saw that and had to go to the profiles, where I found the same words and different heights and weights.

i saw that but thenthought they were just similar thinkers lol smh. Sheesh.



Rawni -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:24:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary


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ORIGINAL: Rawni

Guess you missed the post before her edit that said something about why she wants an experienced submissive and where she spoke as if she were the original poster. Changed it pretty quick and then changed the words and posted again and then changed it again. [:D] I saw that and had to go to the profiles, where I found the same words and different heights and weights.

i saw that but thenthought they were just similar thinkers lol smh. Sheesh.


LOL, I was going to post agreeing with some of it, defending her in some ways and then my head started spinning, my eyes started doing something weird and I thought... I better diagnose these symptoms. It was kind of funny.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:27:27 AM)

MissReddy, I too have gotten multiple cmails from guys wanting online only AND for me to put them under consideration or collar them right away. Online is not my thing at all.

Rawni, are you referring to MissReddy and PamelaDx maybe being the same person? I tried to look at PamelaDx's profile and it's hidden. She must have done that after she was caught.

Ah, the drama of collarme. [8|]

NBMG



goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:32:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL:

LOL, I was going to post agreeing with some of it, defending her in some ways and then my head started spinning, my eyes started doing something weird and I thought... I better diagnose these symptoms. It was kind of funny.

Thinking seems dangerous lol,soo glad I dont do it hahaha



Rawni -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:33:31 AM)

LOL Figures.

Still the topic can be a decent one, as well as what came as a result of some of the post about a dominant changing a submissives weight and lifestyle habits, but is a completely different topic.

Whether in what we do or in vanilla... quite often people just want the fun and not the other stuff that comes with real life. If people are putting out, why deal with the ukky parts of life? There are serious people that want more, but they are harder to find. [:D]



Rawni -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:35:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary


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LOL, I was going to post agreeing with some of it, defending her in some ways and then my head started spinning, my eyes started doing something weird and I thought... I better diagnose these symptoms. It was kind of funny.

Thinking seems dangerous lol,soo glad I dont do it hahaha


I try to do it at least once a day. The rest of the day I spend in recovery. I guess this day is blown... I may go back to bed.



goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 8:37:31 AM)

I liked where this topic went too.especially the molding your slave physically posts.there are some of us who really benefit from strong ownership and see molding as care.







Hahaha at rawni. Im tired too,maybe its sympathy exhaustion for your thought lol



PamelaDx -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:03:14 AM)

Original post: Sorry my phone bugged out and kept glitching.....

I don't want to 'make' a slave from scratch, I need experience..
Gym fit does not mean ripped and cut, but as exercise is a big vanilla interest of Mine I feel it should be part of my package.
If I liked to discuss movies as I was a buff, I would ask for that!

I think the point was, why be on a site to be owned if you have no intention to be?
I have found this too..

Also my profile has been hidden today as I may have found someone! :-)



Charles6682 -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:04:38 AM)

Anytime I see a grown Adult Lady say she only weighs about 50 lbs and from Ghana, I can pretty much tell that profile is a fake. I don't even consider "Collarme" as a dating site anymore because it is so overwhelmed with scammers. That's both guys and girls. The Fin-Ducks who like their middle finger so much and well,can't say I am looking for guys except for friendship, so that doesn't even bother me. Still,I just ignore all the fraudsters because there are just too many on the other "side".

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The personals side of this site is mostly scammers. Evert day we get more 5' tall 50lb women



ARIES83 -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:12:23 AM)

I would copyright the term "Fin-Ducks" if I were you... It's catchy.



Charles6682 -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:14:12 AM)

I can't. Someone else already beat me to it. But Fin-Duck does have a appeal to it.
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ORIGINAL: ARIES83

I would copyright the term "Fin-Ducks" if I were you... It's catchy.




chemeli -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:15:31 AM)


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ORIGINAL: hrxxx

I have seen your profile. BDSM dating is not as venilla dating, you can not search the same way.
But I do not understand why must your slave be in fit gym form? I think, if you are Mistress and he is a slave, can not you train him to go to the gym everyday and so he can be fit gym form, well it was just a thought



Even if in the end, the style of Relationship is not the same, you both have to find out if your vanilla interests fits and if both of the person, as chemistry goes, fits as well. So as far as when you choose to establish what kind of Relationship you do want, that is very much different from vanilla yes, but the search itself? I do not find it so different then the vanilla. or hey, maybe i am doing something wrong ;) but that's my view on it.



Rawni -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:17:48 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PamelaDx

Original post: Sorry my phone bugged out and kept glitching.....

I don't want to 'make' a slave from scratch, I need experience..
Gym fit does not mean ripped and cut, but as exercise is a big vanilla interest of Mine I feel it should be part of my package.
If I liked to discuss movies as I was a buff, I would ask for that!

I think the point was, why be on a site to be owned if you have no intention to be?
I have found this too..

Also my profile has been hidden today as I may have found someone! :-)



That was the second post. The first one included, something you said as the op. Your second says... I would ask for that! The first said... thats what you asked for... as if you were the op. Then your profile before you instantly found someone and hid the profile, said the same thing as the op's profile, about the gym. Same words and everything.

Good try.

Sorry about that.. um... phone.



goodgirlmary -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:24:39 AM)

Hehehe.



punisher440 -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:33:48 AM)

[8D]

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MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:47:18 AM)

Ah, FinDuck. Twas my clever brain that coined that :D Rather proud of it, really.



searching4mysir -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:52:50 AM)

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I think the point was, why be on a site to be owned if you have no intention to be?



Because not everyone is looking to be owned. Yes, the site is called "Collar Me" but it touts itself as a community, not really a dating site. Some are just looking for friends and some are just here for the forums.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 9:55:19 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

Ah, FinDuck. Twas my clever brain that coined that :D Rather proud of it, really.

It has a nice ring to it. [:D]

NBMG



LittleGirlHeart -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 10:13:58 AM)

Do you realize how potentially hard it is to take someone who's not in the kind of  shape you wany and break all their bad habits or get them under control and then, after all that work, they may not even be able to have the kind of body you want and desire?


If you want a peak psychical fit specimen I see nothing wrong with not giving those who aren't but maybe could be one day a chance.

And I disagree that you can't hunt the same way for for bdsm as vanilla, because to some extent you can. The terminology might be a bit diferent than vanilla, but good picking skills are good picking skills vanilla, bdsm or purple alien.
quote:

ORIGINAL: hrxxx

I have seen your profile. BDSM dating is not as venilla dating, you can not search the same way.
But I do not understand why must your slave be in fit gym form? I think, if you are Mistress and he is a slave, can not you train him to go to the gym everyday and so he can be fit gym form, well it was just a thought



Rawni -> RE: Online only? (6/28/2013 10:22:33 AM)

Weight happens for different reasons. Some are just a way of life and adjustments could be made, that a dominant could assist a person with. Some are very different situations that come with some deeply rooted emotional issues that could have been a lifelong problem. You can modify, you can change, but those issues must be dealt with. Your average dominant doesn't have the skill set to deal with these issues.

Losing a lot of weight requires in my opinion, a focus that reaches into most aspects of your life. That would/could seriously change the dynamics of the relationship. Some might see that as no problem and some would. It would for me.

I have been with very large men. Not that I would be attracted to any large man, but I was with these men for a few reasons or I saw something in them that was worth some real effort and focus on my part, but I found this little flaw within myself. I started watching things around me to see if this was just my experience or if there was more to it. I still could have been running into people similar and it wasn't the case with all, but I concluded that my little flaw had some merit if I catered to my flaw... and I will. [:D]

I sat and watched a large man eat three ice creams and a bag of pop corn in four minutes. Yes, I timed him. I saw him choke from putting it all in so fast and as he was choking, he was still poppin the pop corn in. Some of the eating habits are more than shoveling food in and include shoveling... literally, the food in and my flaw is, I can't stand to watch it, be seen with it and hear it. So sue me. lol



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