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hrxxx -> RE: Online only? (6/30/2013 1:57:47 AM)
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Allow me to put something in perspective for you:
We are submissive females. You are looking for a submissive female.
We have just told you our perspective. And rather than attempting to understand your target audience, you're busy telling us we're wrong.
We're in successful, happy relationships.
So, perhaps rather than arguing with us, you should re-think your approach.
Since you have stated that you are submissive, here is my view of submissive vs. slave
and I do not understand you can say I'm wrong, when it is so clearly you are mistaken
Yes i know you are submissive, I have been living with a submissive girl for four years, and finally I believed that I was falling asleep. she was a natural submissive,
she cleaned everyday
she made food everyday
she welcomed me everyday when I came home
she wash my clothes everyday
she never said no to sex, or give me blowjob
she regretted never, of dirty underwear on the floor
And we lived with all the normal things you do in a venilla relationship, and she was an independent girl with all the social, things like girls have, but that she was submissive did not make her to a slavegirl!
And that she was submissive did not make our relationship to a BDSM relationship, and if I had brought BDSM into our relationship, she would have left me, sometimes I could bring a whip and a pair of handcuffs in to bed as an extra kink, but it was not BDSM.
A submissive girl like her can live her entire life happily without any kind of BDSM.
But if she was to enter in a BDSM lifestyle, then the most natural for her to be a D/S relationship where she can keep her social thing, and she can still be independent with friends, job, family, etc. And she will find a Dom that she has the common interests of candlelit dinner, moonlight walks, movies, music, etc,
And they will have a common Interest in BDSM.
Their BDSM can contain ments from M/S as slave training and they can also use the same titles as the M/S
But their relationship is and will always be only a D/S. If the Dom is trying to change or mold her too much and get too far away from their common BDSM, then she packs her things and leaves him because a submissive girl has rights! And she is NOT obedient but submissive! and M/S is just a game in their D/S relationship, and she obeys her dominant because she is submissive, not because she is obedient!
When a slave girl becomes a slave, and stands naked as when she was born in front of her trainer, then she gives up all her rights!
No matter how simple a right you can think of, she gives it up!
The right to food, right to water (only a imbecile trainer will not give his slave food and water), the right to an independent life, friends, family, etc.
Everything she was before she became a slave she loses. And if she is or was submissive before she became slave is unimportant, because now she's a slave and it is up to her trainer to mold her into what he wants her to be.
If she weighs too much or too little, he will train her to she is as he wants.
If she is not submissive enough, he will train her for that.
Will he have deep long conversations with her, he will train her for that.
And she will let. her self. train. NOT because she is submsissive but because she is obedient. And everything she was before she became a slave, no longer exists.
(cooments It is up to each trainer how he rewards his slave, as I see it, a slave obtain certain rights, through hard work and training)
So when a slave girl looking for a trainer then his BDSM criteria or kink list, is the most important thing she is looking at whether he is to moonlight walks or candlelight dinner, is unimportant for all she know part of her could very well end up as dinner.
Not every trainer are the same, and a slave girl looking at the trainers limits if his limits do not exceed her limits, she can safely engage in 24/7 M/S slavery relationship
A submissive girl seeking a Dom, she can go after the things they have in common as candlelit dinner, moonlight walks when she finds her Dom, and she steps into a 24/7 D/S. relationship with M/S titles, then she still has her rights (and maybe even a safe word) if the Dom exceeds her limits, over and over again her limits, she will leave him.
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