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RE: Non sexual relationships - 8/2/2013 1:26:50 PM

MsSylverdawn

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Dear web wanderer... Lookie is just jerking his chain.. he has a slightly twisted sense of humor...

Dear OP.. yes... I have friends who are Gay who have straight subs. They have a service relationship with their subs. These relationship is highly intimate but involves no intercourse. I know Straight Dominants who have gay subs. Its all about what your looking to get out of it. Some people need want desire a more traditionally structured sexual relationship others not so much. Heck one leather man I know who is gay has more females than males in his service...he grins and says a mouth is a mouth in the dark... he is happy they are happy...who am I to judge.

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RE: Non sexual relationships - 8/3/2013 6:29:16 PM

LookieNoNookie

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Can non sexual bdsm relationships exist? I mean no sex, or orgasms. But touching included, these relationships are normal right? By relationship I do mean dom/sub.

NO.

Why?

Because I said so.

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RE: Non sexual relationships - 8/8/2013 8:45:06 AM

MissJadeCrystal

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I find them to be doable and to happen quite often in the BDSM community's relationships. However I myself could not be in one since I prefer a relationship and sexual involvement too and am quite fond of that mixed with the emotional complexity of it.

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RE: Non sexual relationships - 8/10/2013 9:01:41 AM

Charles6682

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One thing I didn't realize is a few Dommes are seeking "service oriented" type of subs. I've done that before. Without actually calling it D/s. I had 2 Female roommates when I was living near the Beach. We had an usual agreement. I did the cleaning, run errands,etc, things like that. They knew I was submissive. It worked well. There was never any sex involved. They did view me as their "maid", which was kind of neat. I realized then that just being of service is a far greater reward for me than the sexual aspect to it. I benefitted from the arrangement too. I got rent knocked off and I was only living 2 blocks from the Gulf of Mexico. It was a win-win for everyone really. But I did prove to myself that this isn't about sex for me at all in the end.

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RE: Non sexual relationships - 8/15/2013 9:47:08 AM

MadamAva

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I for one do not participate in sexual relations with my subs. People view BDSM in many different ways and practice it in different ways. What works for one may not work for another. It is all about finding what is right for you and your partner.

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