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Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 5:39:57 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I mean no offense to other posters. If you're really into the 'deeper, better, more spiritual, sprinkle the fairy dust on' type of BDSM, seriously, more power to you.

While it *can* be that, I just wanted to say a word or two about the fact that it doesn't *have* to be that.

Do we ever just have fun anymore? Are people so caught up in analyzing WIITWD that we don't just kick back, relax, and enjoy ourselves?

You can scrutinize life, or you can live it.


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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 5:44:13 PM   
RemoteUser


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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 5:48:24 PM   
petitespot


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I mean no offense to other posters. If you're really into the 'deeper, better, more spiritual, sprinkle the fairy dust on' type of BDSM, seriously, more power to you.

While it *can* be that, I just wanted to say a word or two about the fact that it doesn't *have* to be that.

Do we ever just have fun anymore? Are people so caught up in analyzing WIITWD that we don't just kick back, relax, and enjoy ourselves?

You can scrutinize life, or you can live it.



That's what I never get...the overanalyzing. It's a fucking relationship. Some last an afternoon or evening. Some a lifetime. Just enjoy instead of trying to figure out why you are enjoying.


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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 5:52:10 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		If I didn't like it and have fun with it, I wouldn't do it.

I've done things like tell drinking jokes while spanking a woman OTK, and a local switchy woman is known for her sense of humor. Once, when I was topping her, she said to me through clenched teeth, "Sir, I wish you were a switch!"

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 6:01:03 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact


You can scrutinize life, or you can live it.



You're sounding frighteningly Gorean there.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 6:01:06 PM   
slaveluci


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

You can scrutinize life, or you can live it.


Or you can do both. I prefer not to scrutinize most things, especially the supposed "lifestyle" or WIITWD (ugh). As Aileen said, why not just enjoy it?

However, if that's all anyone did - and there was not scrutinizing - there wouldn't be forums like this with people such as your self with nearly 26,000 posts. Somebody's doin' some scrutinizin' somewhere. And that can be a good thing.........luci

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 6:15:47 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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As I said in another place...

I'm just here for the party and to live my life to the fullest. BDSM is what I love and its a part of who I am. I do what I love because it makes me happy. It is what it is and I'm along for the fan-fucking-tactic ride. No overanalysis necessary

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 6:17:40 PM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

Do we ever just have fun anymore? Are people so caught up in analyzing WIITWD that we don't just kick back, relax, and enjoy ourselves?


If you didnt scare me so much, I would take you up on that offer.

~smirks

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 6:25:25 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

Or you can do both. I prefer not to scrutinize most things, especially the supposed "lifestyle" or WIITWD (ugh). As Aileen said, why not just enjoy it?

However, if that's all anyone did - and there was not scrutinizing - there wouldn't be forums like this with people such as your self with nearly 26,000 posts. Somebody's doin' some scrutinizin' somewhere. And that can be a good thing.........luci

Sure. Both can be good. That's the point, it can be both. It isn't always serious or without joy.

How many of those 26,000 posts were just about fun and games?


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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 6:27:24 PM   
MrRodgers


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I mean no offense to other posters. If you're really into the 'deeper, better, more spiritual, sprinkle the fairy dust on' type of BDSM, seriously, more power to you.

While it *can* be that, I just wanted to say a word or two about the fact that it doesn't *have* to be that.

Do we ever just have fun anymore? Are people so caught up in analyzing WIITWD that we don't just kick back, relax, and enjoy ourselves?

You can scrutinize life, or you can live it.


No, if we are here just for the fun and not to mention the pleasures...we are players. Everybody knows nobody wants to meet just...a player. If we are honest, that is one answer.

I have repeatedly stressed taking this simple, slow and that we may savor our pleasures, all too often even if fairly rare...shot down as a HNG or player.

Strikingly hypocritical too when we ALL play and about as much as we can and we play on the way to any relationship.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 6:29:10 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Fairydust jello shots anyone?

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 9:27:01 PM   
SomethingCatchy


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Status: offline 		I've decided the best thing for me when it comes to WIITWD is to find a player. A HNG that has some common sense and the ability to be entertaining. At this point in my life I doubt that I can handle a full on secondary relationship. I don't really want to spend days, weeks, or months discussing the serious side of stuff. I just want to have fun and scratch that itch.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 9:32:01 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		I think we do a bit of both. It certainly has been fun.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 10:05:57 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact


..... You can scrutinize life, or you can live it.


Or can just do both!

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 11:09:22 PM   
SoulAlloy


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Status: offline 		I think we all get that burning curiosity sometimes of 'why'

"What if" and "How" sometimes wave at you distractingly too...

Where would we be without a little curiosity ;)

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/3/2013 11:32:01 PM   
MissToYouRedux


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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 1:01:46 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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Status: offline 		I just want to have fun and screw all the spiritual elevation stuff. Actually screw a lot of deeper thoughts about a lot of things.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 3:57:53 AM   
littleclip


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Status: offline 		like most oflife ther is more than just beatings there is the rest of life to enjoy and tend to like cooking and cleaning laundry and shoping i enjoy the D/s it grounds me. what more do i need to analize than that

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 5:51:32 AM   
Kana


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quote:

Do we ever just have fun anymore? Are people so caught up in analyzing WIITWD that we don't just kick back, relax, and enjoy ourselves?

This cat thinks they call it 'play" for a reason.
We've done all sorts of fun and silly stuff, from having her try to hum the Star Spangled Banner all the way through a blow job to incorporating games into play.
Good times.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 6:27:27 AM   
goodgirlmary


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Status: offline 		I guess Im too new to careabout the overanalyzers, and too inexperienced to understand what theyre babbling about usually. Most ofmy posts here are curiousities (what is that?) Or fun. Advice in ths beginning. I have far too many cat updates for my own good.
I think its fun here.

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