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Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 10:23:20 AM

Ravensnake

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I'll try and write this like it doesn't look like I'm spamming.
I'm a post op trans with a few medical problems and I'm not young or pretty though my body is ok.
For my sins, I'm a nympho who's very much into sex and submission, rape play, rough sex etc. Vanilla sex leaves me cold.
Basically I'm looking for a real time naturally dominant Master/Dom who has a high sex drive and is into rough sex and treating me like a whore, rather than doing things to please me.
In short, I'd like to have a Master who treats me in all the ways you're not supposed to treat a woman which may, in itself be the problem especially for those men brought up to respect women.
Or maybe I'm just a little too extreme in my sexual desires. Besides being post op trans and not young.
Apologies if this sounds like an advertisement. Any ideas/thoughts welcome.

< Message edited by Ravensnake -- 7/5/2013 10:36:37 AM >

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 10:39:04 AM

chemeli

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I'm not a Master....but if this isnt an advertisement, then i do not know what it is.

Good luck what you're looking for though.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 11:00:06 AM

Kana

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ravensnake

I'll try and write this like it doesn't look like I'm spamming.
I'm a post op trans with a few medical problems and I'm not young or pretty though my body is ok.
For my sins, I'm a nympho who's very much into sex and submission, rape play, rough sex etc. Vanilla sex leaves me cold.
Basically I'm looking for a real time naturally dominant Master/Dom who has a high sex drive and is into rough sex and treating me like a whore, rather than doing things to please me.
In short, I'd like to have a Master who treats me in all the ways you're not supposed to treat a woman which may, in itself be the problem especially for those men brought up to respect women.
Or maybe I'm just a little too extreme in my sexual desires. Besides being post op trans and not young.
Apologies if this sounds like an advertisement. Any ideals personally, but as/thoughts welcome.

Not into T-gals personally, but there are lots and lots of guys who want to/love to treat gals ways opposite to that which is commonly expected by society.
And this is just an observation from lots of years in the scene, but it seems to me that lots of peeps who play with Trannies are further out there in areas like edge play, hard core slavery, humiliation, degradation and the like.
I'm not saying that's an accurate assessment, just something I've watched over the years

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 11:00:14 AM

OsideGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ravensnake

In short, I'd like to have a Master who treats me in all the ways you're not supposed to treat a woman which may, in itself be the problem especially for those men brought up to respect women.

I take issue with this statement. Regardless of any of our activities or our power dynamic....he still respects me.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 11:06:17 AM

Ravensnake

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I'm not a 'trannie' I'm post op transsexual (all woman but wasn't born female) but thanks for your thoughts.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ravensnake

I'll try and write this like it doesn't look like I'm spamming.
I'm a post op trans with a few medical problems and I'm not young or pretty though my body is ok.
For my sins, I'm a nympho who's very much into sex and submission, rape play, rough sex etc. Vanilla sex leaves me cold.
Basically I'm looking for a real time naturally dominant Master/Dom who has a high sex drive and is into rough sex and treating me like a whore, rather than doing things to please me.
In short, I'd like to have a Master who treats me in all the ways you're not supposed to treat a woman which may, in itself be the problem especially for those men brought up to respect women.
Or maybe I'm just a little too extreme in my sexual desires. Besides being post op trans and not young.
Apologies if this sounds like an advertisement. Any ideals personally, but as/thoughts welcome.

Not into T-gals personally, but there are lots and lots of guys who want to/love to treat gals ways opposite to that which is commonly expected by society.
And this is just an observation from lots of years in the scene, but it seems to me that lots of peeps who play with Trannies are further out there in areas like edge play, hard core slavery, humiliation, degradation and the like.
I'm not saying that's an accurate assessment, just something I've watched over the years

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 11:08:48 AM

Ravensnake

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I agree with you. The sexual activity between partners doesn't preclude respect for one another. I wasn't very clear. My apologies

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ravensnake

In short, I'd like to have a Master who treats me in all the ways you're not supposed to treat a woman which may, in itself be the problem especially for those men brought up to respect women.

I take issue with this statement. Regardless of any of our activities or our power dynamic....he still respects me.

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Dont rattle your sabres at me as an introduction. Be polite and I'll respond in kind.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 11:10:41 AM

Ravensnake

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Apologies. I couldn't think of how else to put it apart from asking people to look at my profile which would be advertising.

quote:

ORIGINAL: chemeli

I'm not a Master....but if this isnt an advertisement, then i do not know what it is.

Good luck what you're looking for though.

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Dont rattle your sabres at me as an introduction. Be polite and I'll respond in kind.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 11:10:44 AM

Kana

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ravensnake

I'm not a 'trannie' I'm post op transsexual (all woman but wasn't born female) but thanks for your thoughts.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ravensnake

I'll try and write this like it doesn't look like I'm spamming.
I'm a post op trans with a few medical problems and I'm not young or pretty though my body is ok.
For my sins, I'm a nympho who's very much into sex and submission, rape play, rough sex etc. Vanilla sex leaves me cold.
Basically I'm looking for a real time naturally dominant Master/Dom who has a high sex drive and is into rough sex and treating me like a whore, rather than doing things to please me.
In short, I'd like to have a Master who treats me in all the ways you're not supposed to treat a woman which may, in itself be the problem especially for those men brought up to respect women.
Or maybe I'm just a little too extreme in my sexual desires. Besides being post op trans and not young.
Apologies if this sounds like an advertisement. Any ideals personally, but as/thoughts welcome.

Not into T-gals personally, but there are lots and lots of guys who want to/love to treat gals ways opposite to that which is commonly expected by society.
And this is just an observation from lots of years in the scene, but it seems to me that lots of peeps who play with Trannies are further out there in areas like edge play, hard core slavery, humiliation, degradation and the like.
I'm not saying that's an accurate assessment, just something I've watched over the years

Sorry-wasn't trying to be disrespectful. I kinda tuck the whole kit n kaboodle under one big mental umbrella, didn't know there was a strong sense of separation within the sub-culture

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HST

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 11:13:40 AM

Ravensnake

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No worries. I'm not one for labels and only use them on here because I don't like to deceive people.

I'm just a regular, somewhat kinky woman who happened to be born into the wrong body.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ravensnake

I'm not a 'trannie' I'm post op transsexual (all woman but wasn't born female) but thanks for your thoughts.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ravensnake

I'll try and write this like it doesn't look like I'm spamming.
I'm a post op trans with a few medical problems and I'm not young or pretty though my body is ok.
For my sins, I'm a nympho who's very much into sex and submission, rape play, rough sex etc. Vanilla sex leaves me cold.
Basically I'm looking for a real time naturally dominant Master/Dom who has a high sex drive and is into rough sex and treating me like a whore, rather than doing things to please me.
In short, I'd like to have a Master who treats me in all the ways you're not supposed to treat a woman which may, in itself be the problem especially for those men brought up to respect women.
Or maybe I'm just a little too extreme in my sexual desires. Besides being post op trans and not young.
Apologies if this sounds like an advertisement. Any ideals personally, but as/thoughts welcome.

Not into T-gals personally, but there are lots and lots of guys who want to/love to treat gals ways opposite to that which is commonly expected by society.
And this is just an observation from lots of years in the scene, but it seems to me that lots of peeps who play with Trannies are further out there in areas like edge play, hard core slavery, humiliation, degradation and the like.
I'm not saying that's an accurate assessment, just something I've watched over the years

Sorry-wasn't trying to be disrespectful. I kinda tuck the whole kit n kaboodle under one big mental umbrella, didn't know there was a strong sense of separation within the sub-culture

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Dont rattle your sabres at me as an introduction. Be polite and I'll respond in kind.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 1:27:42 PM

DesFIP

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Have you joined your local community to meet people?

But asking a strange man to treat you in ways that could get him arrested may be part of the problem. He doesn't know you well enough to be sure you won't wake up with buyer's remorse.

Why not start as friends and grow a relationship that fulfills both of you. And that's the other part of the problem, you're clear about what you want done to you and how, but not about what you're willing to do to please him. Relationships are made of two people, not just one.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 1:45:43 PM

littlewonder

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so basically you're having the same problem everyone has on here and every other dating site which is why they are on it in the first place.....

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 2:00:30 PM

Ravensnake

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Thank you,

Basically we'd start out as play partners and see how it went but in order to start out as play partners you have to be on a similar wavelength and be interested in the same fetishes, albeit on different sides. I wasn't planning on going straight into what, on the face of it looks likes an abusive relationship. Obviously you have to play a little and talk a lot before deciding if you are compatible. I've met and played with plenty of Dominants but none who wish to take it into something longer term.
As to what I can offer; if a potential Master wants the same kind of relationship as I do and enjoys the same fetishes, there shouldn't be a problem. I'm not asking anyone to change but I'm more than prepared to accommodate his fetishes along with mine.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Have you joined your local community to meet people?

But asking a strange man to treat you in ways that could get him arrested may be part of the problem. He doesn't know you well enough to be sure you won't wake up with buyer's remorse.

Why not start as friends and grow a relationship that fulfills both of you. And that's the other part of the problem, you're clear about what you want done to you and how, but not about what you're willing to do to please him. Relationships are made of two people, not just one.

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Dont rattle your sabres at me as an introduction. Be polite and I'll respond in kind.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 3:52:45 PM

DarkSteven

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I'm sorry, but I don't really know what you're seeking.

Your profile says you live in London and Rome. So I don't even know what geography you're looking in.

In the Denver scene, I know several MtFs, some pre and some post-op. Almost all of them are in relationships.

Most of those relationships are poly. Some are with women, some with men, some with both.

Aside from a male Dom, what do you want? Poly/mono? Age requirement? Will you serve sexually and domestically? What, aside from sex, do you bring to the table? What must he bring? Would you serve a woman instead? What location(s) will you consider?

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 4:43:58 PM

Ravensnake

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Ok,
I live in London, travel to Rome. Maybe I should be more specific on my profile. I was trying to convey that I could live in either city but it can be confusing.
Not looking for poly. Prefer mono but I've has a Master in the past who shared me with his friends.
Male Dom or 2 male Doms. Age 40+ Any race. I wouldn't serve a woman.
Prefer a Dom in uk. I have failing eyesight and need to be here for continuing treatment.
Serve sexually of course. Over and above that, we'd have to discuss but I'm willing to accept most of what is laid on me. I would put my Dom first, do his bidding, put his needs before mine...but I'm not a doormat. I am a slave/submissive but I have a mind of my own.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm sorry, but I don't really know what you're seeking.

Your profile says you live in London and Rome. So I don't even know what geography you're looking in.

In the Denver scene, I know several MtFs, some pre and some post-op. Almost all of them are in relationships.

Most of those relationships are poly. Some are with women, some with men, some with both.

Aside from a male Dom, what do you want? Poly/mono? Age requirement? Will you serve sexually and domestically? What, aside from sex, do you bring to the table? What must he bring? Would you serve a woman instead? What location(s) will you consider?

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Dont rattle your sabres at me as an introduction. Be polite and I'll respond in kind.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/5/2013 7:36:31 PM

DesFIP

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There's a flourishing community in London. Have you met anyone in it?

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/6/2013 1:00:05 AM

Ravensnake

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Yes, I have. Been in the scene a while. I met a lot of people in the clubs and professionally (I was a pro submissive)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

There's a flourishing community in London. Have you met anyone in it?

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/6/2013 6:49:07 AM

SimplyMichael

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This forum will not work well for you, you need to find either a gay one or one that focuses on tv and tg girls.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/6/2013 7:21:17 AM

DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

This forum will not work well for you, you need to find either a gay one or one that focuses on tv and tg girls.

Um. Why the blazes did you suggest a gay forum?!!?? A post-op MtF will not satisfy anyone, straight female or gay man, looking for a man.

And I dunno how it is in SF, but here in Colorado, there is one Dom who seems to prefer TGs and CDs, and more who are accepting of females whether they were born or transitioned to it.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/6/2013 9:20:40 AM

SimplyMichael

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Because being in a city like SF that has a few gays, I know a few things.

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RE: Difficult to find. - 7/6/2013 10:13:30 AM

DarkSteven

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Well, I live in a city that has a few transgenders. And I know some MtFs that would deck you for your premise that transitioning accomplishes nothing, and sexual reassignment surgery and hormones don't matter. They consider themselves female, and get offended when others don't.

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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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