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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:18:28 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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See, everything you all have said are things that I have thought of too. I just wanted to hear it from someone else.

I asked him "What is 'online training?' What do you want me to train you for??" He couldn't tell me what he thought online training was or what he wanted to be trained for. He said we'd figure that out together. Myself, I can't really think of anything I'd want to train someone for online rather than in real life.

I told him I wasn't about to do cyber-sex and I couldn't think of anything else online training would be. Even though he started out seeming nice enough, before long he was wanting me to show him parts of myself which, of course, I did not do. When I asked him how, IF we clicked on IM, we would go about meeting in real time, i.e. how we'd make that happen, all he would say is we'll work on that together. Every time I'd ask him a question that required more than a yes or no answer, all he would say is tell me how beautiful I am.

I also considered whether or not he might be married. He was always coming on late in the evening "to avoid the roommates" so I think he had something to hide or, at least, someone to hide it from besides "roommates." I mean, why would roommates care if he IMed someone? Another reason to not go there.

That's what I should do, ask him what he can do for me online and see what he comes up with that's NOT dick-centric. I think he's just a world-class bullshitter. I told him to give me the weekend and I'd get back to him on Monday with my answer. So, come Monday, I'm going to disappoint him I'm sure.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:20:50 PM

Rawni

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You are too nice darlin. Send him to me, I will eat him.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:26:17 PM

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Sounds to me... and Im hoping I am wrong... that he is into it for the play action. Want to know his true thoughts, take the play off the table for a while. No photos, no play... you can talk via cam, phone... but thats it, just conversation. See what happens.

And, definitely ask him what he means. if he is talking "training" yet cant tell you how he wants to "train" you, he already messed up.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:26:55 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Sometimes, I think I let my Nice side rule me too much. I need to let my Meanness out more often.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:28:25 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
if he is talking "training" yet cant tell you how he wants to "train" you, he already messed up.

See, he wouldn't be training me. He wants ME to train HIM. But he has no idea what FOR. hahahahaha

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:30:48 PM

Marini

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quote:

See, he wouldn't be training me. He wants ME to train HIM. But he has no idea what FOR. hahahahaha

Believe me, he has PLENTY of ideas.
Didn't you say he asked you to show him a body part?
lol

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:32:27 PM

Rawni

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Sometimes, I think I let my Nice side rule me too much. I need to let my Meanness out more often.

NBMG

Aww, you can still be nice... and you don't have to be mean. If mean, means calling a game or gamer when you see one, then I guess its mean, but I think it is being nice to us to call them on that and it can be fun too. They think they have you played and all but need the dunking and you trip them up. I do not tell them how they clued me into what blew their game either. Now that is mean.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:32:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
if he is talking "training" yet cant tell you how he wants to "train" you, he already messed up.

See, he wouldn't be training me. He wants ME to train HIM. But he has no idea what FOR. hahahahaha

NBMG

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... he wants you to train him. Then send him for belly dancing classes and cooking classes and arts and crafts and wine tasting courses... oh.. you could have fun with him! And imagine the abject humiliation of a man in a belly dancing class, then having to go on cam and show you what he learned!

~ok, i am getting too good at this

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:37:21 PM

Rawni

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Marni's got that right! Nail on the head. Which, kind of gives me an idea. Nice... remember my spanking thing? Rub it... rub it harder.. no! I said harder... now spray that sucker! At least you will get a laugh watching him dance.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:38:50 PM

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Spray brings up images of hoses.. and I thought we were getting away from the sex!

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:39:59 PM

Rawni

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You really should be in bed Tazzy.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:42:10 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
send him for belly dancing classes and cooking classes and arts and crafts and wine tasting courses... oh.. you could have fun with him! And imagine the abject humiliation of a man in a belly dancing class, then having to go on cam and show you what he learned!

~ok, i am getting too good at this

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rawni
remember my spanking thing? Rub it... rub it harder.. no! I said harder... now spray that sucker! At least you will get a laugh watching him dance.

OMG yes. I am all for a good laugh!! This sounds like almost too much fun!!!

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:43:09 PM

tazzygirl

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Not enough room between the man and three cats for me to slide in.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:43:20 PM

Rawni

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I promise you, neither of you will ever forget it! ROFL!

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:44:08 PM

tazzygirl

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Wait.. didnt you do that one night to some fella on cam?

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:44:30 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Marini

quote:

See, he wouldn't be training me. He wants ME to train HIM. But he has no idea what FOR. hahahahaha

Believe me, he has PLENTY of ideas.
Didn't you say he asked you to show him a body part?
lol

Yes I did. And I told him no, that he didn't get to see it because I'm the Domme. He seemed a little taken aback by my answer. lol

NBMG

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:46:14 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Oopsie, accidental double posting.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/5/2013 11:46:43 PM

Rawni

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Not enough room between the man and three cats for me to slide in.

What? You're allowed to sleep in the bed? Whoa! Get yourself to the end of the bed or the floor like a good lil slave girl.

With that... I am going to my nice memory foam. I have men coming over tomorrow.

Not for me of course... I should be so lucky, but I can watch them as they work. Have I mentioned my new guy around the house, J, is really cute. Hugs me a lot and doesn't believe I am my... real age. Gotta like a guy that can fix things that talks like that.

Good night.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/6/2013 4:19:33 AM

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Well, were I you, I would have him log his bedtimes and awake times. His meals. Make him take a complete physical, and let me know. And then see if he needs his diet changed to reduce carbs, to have more salads. Impose an exercise regimen on him. Somewhere along the way, he would realize that doing what someone ELSE says, may not be what YOU want. And he'd get a bit healthier as well.

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RE: Is there *really* such a thing as "online trai... - 7/6/2013 6:27:43 AM

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I suppose you could teach somebody protocol and such, if that was your gig, but why would you want to invest yourself typing all of that out? Why put that much time into someone for so little return?

I don't mean any offense to anybody who is in a long distance relationship that's worth more than words typed up on a screen, but frankly NBMG, you know the answer to this already. Unless you can come up with a reason that this situation is beneficial to you, what would be the point? There's nothing that somebody can do for you online that you can't find right in your own backyard AND the benefits of a real life play partner far exceed what somebody can do via the computer.

Come on. You are way smarter than this.

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