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Did You Ever Notice? - 6/27/2006 6:30:31 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		That people that are attracted to you, you have no interest in... Why is this?  Things that make ya go Hmmmm...LOL

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/27/2006 6:36:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have noticed that.  It's not always the case, but it happens frustratingly often.  It's even more frustrating when they lose interest in you and you suddenly gain interest in them.

It goes hand-in-hand with people being attracted to you when/because you're attached, especially if it's someone you would definitely consider were you single.

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/27/2006 9:41:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		yes it is very odd.....but what can you do??

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/27/2006 9:43:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		What about people you're attracted to, but they're not attracted to you. What happens then?

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/28/2006 12:17:28 PM   
ta2dqt


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Status: offline 		I have noticed...............when I am very attracted to some one....................and I Try very hard for them to like me..................its ONLY when i STOP trying so hard............and give up on them........that they FINALLY come around and start liking me....................BUT the BAD thing is...........by then..............I have TRIED sooooo hard.........................that i finnally give up and move on......................WHY IS THAT???  :(



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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/28/2006 12:19:00 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		It's a mystery to me .....................as is so much lol

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/28/2006 12:21:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		It must be one of those damned little Murphy's Law things..........

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/28/2006 12:21:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		i think it is just another one of God's cruel jokes....

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/28/2006 12:35:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ta2dqt

I have noticed...............when I am very attracted to some one....................and I Try very hard for them to like me..................its ONLY when i STOP trying so hard............and give up on them........that they FINALLY come around and start liking me....................BUT the BAD thing is...........by then..............I have TRIED sooooo hard.........................that i finnally give up and move on......................WHY IS THAT???  :(


I've noticed that, too.  I used to have a serious case of "Try to Impress", and only when I let that down did the men I wanted want me back.  I analyzed it a little, and I think it's simply because I was trying too hard.  Don't try to impress.  Give them a, "This is me.  Take it or leave it, and if you leave it it's your loss," attitude and they'll come running.  So I guess just be yourself (not that you're not being yourself. You're just being, well... more of yourself than you really are in those kind of scenarios).  That's what ultimately helped me. 

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/28/2006 5:25:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		This OP reminds me of the toast my g/f's and I used to do back in college:

"Here's to the men that we love
Here's to the men that love us
But the men that we love aren't the ones who love us
So fuck'em and here's to us!"

It's more effective when you're drunk and trying to say it real fast.

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/28/2006 5:48:37 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		I like that toast!!!  It seems to fit my life..lol

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RE: Did You Ever Notice? - 6/28/2006 5:59:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ta2dqt

I have noticed...............when I am very attracted to some one....................and I Try very hard for them to like me..................its ONLY when i STOP trying so hard............and give up on them........that they FINALLY come around and start liking me....................BUT the BAD thing is...........by then..............I have TRIED sooooo hard.........................that i finnally give up and move on......................WHY IS THAT???  :(




It falls under "The Rules of Attraction."
 
People who have choices in potential mates don't want those that are too easy. They want challenges, whether or not they are even consciously aware of it.  

Those who have choices in potential mates can also smell desperation a mile away.

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