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Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:20:18 AM   
beautifulself


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Status: offline 		As I am looking for my true Master I have happily came across 2, after hearing and dealing with over 100 want-to-bes users and predators. (just in my first month here!). I just want to say thank you for the True and Honest who have found me, engauged me in an honest sincere way and have given advisement that quite possbly saved my green sweet ass. Opening doors of so many possiblities. I want others to know that the real and sincere Are very much out here, If we choose to see it. We just need to take the time to respond with dignity and honesy, showing the upmost respect as they well deserve. to those who may find us. You never know who your writing to, or who you may meet as a submissive. When respect is given, it is returned. The true Mastrs find you, usually in the first few days of arriving, and for this I am forever grateful and deeply humbled by thier expertise, honor, gallant nature, and expression of deep beauty through sinerity. I believe with my heart that they will help on your path, even they are not the Master for you, giving of thier time and advisement thier stories and thoughts and even teaching you about thier toys and what you can expect. They explain things to you when you have no one else to ask. They show and guide you. The most important lesson I have learned through them are 1: I am worthy of great love and respect. 2: the submissive picks her Master. I cannot be more thankful and so very lucky that I have now found not one but two lifelong friends that I out of deepest respect, humbly and willingly call Sir. And it is my Honor and Privledge. I think I am one of the lucky ones who dared to take the chance, my life forever profoundly changed. A Master will talk and get to know you needs, they sit and talk, they invite without pressing themselves onto you, openminded and fair, loving and truthful. And interesting enough caring for the highest good of all, regaurdless of what they get out of it. A Master doesnt threaten, yell, stomp about and use is whip without purpose. He is mindful and cautious. He is a pinnicle of love and truth, He is kind and a guide. He speaks with intelligence and strength. To be respected and Loved in return. Many women do not give the chance, perhaps ( at least me being new) I was afraid of them. Silly now as i look back. A True Master willingly is chivelrous, and kind with deep lessons to share IF we are wiling to open up at least bit, to ovecome our own fears and inhibitions. i am most grateful, to them i sing "Good Morning, chivelrous Sirs' i am forever in your debt! And i am thankful for you evey day!" You know who you are. I smile warmly as you know. I know you smile back." I love the Master that you Are, this is True"
With gratitude that fills my soul almost to suffocation of self,
beautifulself- a submissive on her way to find her Master, with the help and advisement of True Masters, again I thank you, my head down in deepest Respect. for i Am Humbled.

< Message edited by beautifulself -- 7/10/2013 4:26:25 AM >
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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:28:18 AM   
beautifulself


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Status: offline 		Thank you.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:37:38 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I'm glad they're guiding you. However, be careful - Doms who guide and train you while at the same time play with you, can sometimes be in it for themselves. They get free play without the requirements of a relationship.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:42:51 AM   
tazzygirl


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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:47:38 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Wow, is this a commercial? JK.

So you know these wonderful men in real life? What are they getting from you in return for all this amazing teaching that is going on?

On a side note, is there another Castle Realm replacement out there somewhere lurking in the shadows?

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:49:20 AM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		I cant seem to get past the "true" part.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:49:38 AM   
beautifulself


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Status: offline 		I appreciate your advisement. I am one of the Lucky ones. Non sexual relations with both. expect nothing, just respect given, and shared. I am extremely selective and am getting to know the real fom the fake and deceptive very quickly. I feel that if we are honest and my intention shows through it touches anothers soul in a profound way. I beleive for the most part what we give is exactly what we get. Although extremely cautious. I thank you for your time and kind words, be careful yourself, my friend. The spirit is a terrible thing to waste. I smile, carry on and good luck and love to us both.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 7:49:54 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		I'm going to give you some advice.

1) Just because someone doesn't meet what you want out of a relationship doesn't mean that there isn't someone out there that will be exceedingly happy with them. So, your use of the term wannabe shows your lack of understanding.

2) Lose the word true. What's true for me, may not be true for you. See #1.

3) The bit about love: there are people that engage in D/s and M/s where it is simply a service contract. No relationship at all beyond the power dynamic.

4) The bit about chivalry: It entirely depends on what people want. If someone wants a relationship about objectification or humiliation, who are you to tell them they're wrong?

5) You're new and you're spouting "one true way-isms" to a bunch of people that are in long term successful relationships. (Some of which fall outside of what you call true). I suggest rather than trying to lecture us, you go out read and learn about other people's dynamics before declaring to the world how it is supposed to be.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 7/10/2013 7:54:29 AM >

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 9:36:21 AM   
UllrsIshtar


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Status: offline 		I thought the 1990s where over and we got passed all that flowery poetry crap?

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I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner
And your whore
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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 9:37:12 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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Is it just me...or did anyone else have a CastleRealm flashback while reading this?

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 9:41:03 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Ok....I did not see a question in all that.

I only saw someone in the throes of submissive idealism.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 9:42:26 AM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		Dont make me dig up that CR link again.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 9:46:16 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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Status: offline 		Mother of God! That is a scary thought

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 10:22:51 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

I thought the 1990s where over and we got passed all that flowery poetry crap?

quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

~FRing it~

Is it just me...or did anyone else have a CastleRealm flashback while reading this?

Oh, God, yes!

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Ok....I did not see a question in all that.

I only saw someone in the throes of submissive idealism.
Yup. We're all doing it wrong. What I've always found ironic is that the majority of people that I've seen spout idealism, are often the people that don't succeed at having a relationship.



quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Dont make me dig up that CR link again.
Don't you dare. I will hunt you down and spank you.

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Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 10:31:29 AM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

Don't you dare. I will hunt you down and spank you.


Ya know, threatening me with a good time may not be a wise course of action.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 1:22:45 PM   
lilcracker


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Status: offline 		OMG this so sounds like the 'True Master' I met eons ago and the only thing true about him was being honest was a hard limit for him.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 1:41:30 PM   
Rawni


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Status: offline 		Lifetime gratitude in a month? Well, holy shit! That there is some awesome uber dom meat!

Really OP? Really?

Good powers that be some of this stuff lately is amazin!

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 2:17:17 PM   
LanceHughes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: beautifulself
...snipped...
(just in my first month here!)
...lots snipped

and nobody mentioned "sub-frenzy"?

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:21:10 PM   
Apocalypso


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There's no "s", it's the Book of Revelation,
As revealed to Saint John the Divine.

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RE: Gratitude to Masters - 7/10/2013 4:24:49 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Apocalypso

I've never quite Understood the Random capitalisation of Words.

They are a Must for expressing your true Inner Mastery. I'm sure there's some deep, meaningful adage that says so.

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Welcome to PoliticSpace! If you came here expecting meaningful BDSM discussions, boy are you in the wrong place.

"Hypocrisy has consequences"

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