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Rawni -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 12:34:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Rawni


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ORIGINAL: hrxxx


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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

OP, I really think you need to get off the one trick pony you are currently riding and branch out into other subjects. You do realize that any potential can click a link on the other side and see what you post over here, right? I myself am not into financial stuff and I wouldn't want to spend all my time listening to someone else bitch about it all the time either.



I disagree with you. When a girl is younger than me, she is a girl. A girl becomes only a woman when she's older than me.


ROFLMAO! Everyone is entitled to their opinion. I must laugh at this one. god.


Wait... I changed my mind.

Boy... I like the way you think.

Signed.. the older domina




stef -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 12:51:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Slaveboytoy2

I am new to this lifestyle and everything but it seems to me that there is a line between controling me and being a usless bloodsucker.

The whine is strong in you.




OrionTheWolf -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 1:07:58 PM)

Not very PC here. I use girl, and chick often. I don't view roles online as then that comes across as some type of RP. I think terms are only seen as degrading when there is no doubt that they are meant that way, otherwise it is just a term. From what I gathered the OP was referring to the younger females he has been contacted by or is contacting.

Is protocol actually expected? I mean we used to get told all the time in another section that maintaining protocol was an unreasonable expectation.


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ORIGINAL: Rawni

Girl is only complimentary when it is the right man, calling you girl. Come on guys... this guy is just offensive in his role. [:D] I have even allowed some men to call me girl and laughed about it or at least smiled. When someone is trying to be offensive and degrades women often... even good girls... wanna be bad.





OrionTheWolf -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 1:12:43 PM)

I don't see where it really played a part in it. I see instead some that took offense to something really minor. This is not in the "Ask a Mistress" section, so I see over reaction to the use of something really minor at best.

My personal opinion is that his post comes across whinny and shows a lack of how to express himself in a way that he is understood. To jump on the "girl" term seems kind of petty when there is other major issues coming across.

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

While I get your point Orion, given the site and your lifestyle. The OP is looking for a Dominant woman, not a "girl in the sub/slave/kajira" sense.






splatterpunk -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 3:29:50 PM)

i want your mom and your mom wants me lolol




Lucylastic -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 4:21:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

I don't see where it really played a part in it. I see instead some that took offense to something really minor. This is not in the "Ask a Mistress" section, so I see over reaction to the use of something really minor at best.

My personal opinion is that his post comes across whinny and shows a lack of how to express himself in a way that he is understood. To jump on the "girl" term seems kind of petty when there is other major issues coming across.

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

While I get your point Orion, given the site and your lifestyle. The OP is looking for a Dominant woman, not a "girl in the sub/slave/kajira" sense.




I responded to the OP regarding the other issues as I saw them.[:)]

For me personally I would no more think of calling you or any Dom/Gorean or Regular Master/Sir/Lord/ as a "boy" if he was younger than me(as the other poster suggested) unless it was a condescending comment. And I do them quite well without resorting to that. I tend not to use a term to denigrate anyones "orientation" within the BDSM arena.

Im neither insulted or offended, by the term girl, chick, broad. etc. If its meant as a slight towards me, that just says more about their lack of couth than mine.
While I dont read everything you write in the Gorean fora, Ive never seen you refer to a freewoman as a freegirl.
It wasnt the OP I was responding to anyway, but rather Myos response to the other poster, that you responded to:) If that makes sense.








Lucylastic -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 4:23:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: splatterpunk

i want your mom and your mom wants me lolol

If this was aimed at me.... I will send her your number, shes in pretty good shape for 80, you sure you are up for it???
[:D][:D]




OrionTheWolf -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 4:34:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

For me personally I would no more think of calling you or any Dom/Gorean or Regular Master/Sir/Lord/ as a "boy" if he was younger than me(as the other poster suggested) unless it was a condescending comment. And I do them quite well without resorting to that. I tend not to use a term to denigrate anyones "orientation" within the BDSM arena.


Used in general, similar to "boys will be boys" when referring to males above the age of 18, I see no harm in it. If we were in a protocol zone, then that would be different.

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Im neither insulted or offended, by the term girl, chick, broad. etc. If its meant as a slight towards me, that just says more about their lack of couth than mine.


If it is meant as an intentional slight, I would agree that it is incorrect to use it then, but that is not apparent to me.

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While I dont read everything you write in the Gorean fora, Ive never seen you refer to a freewoman as a freegirl.


Free Woman is a specific term, and used in specific area. Apples and oranges there. I have referred to a group of females as "girls" when they have been mixed personality types. It is not meant as a slight, and none took it that way.

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It wasnt the OP I was responding to anyway, but rather Myos response to the other poster, that you responded to:) If that makes sense.



Makes sense, my assessment still stands though.

On a separate topic, you need to start a "nice ass" avatar group. I now enjoy seeing yours and Tazzy's avatars and think there should be many more ;)




Lucylastic -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 4:40:25 PM)

I can see your points :) to a point..[;)]
regarding the ass avs :) watch the space[:D]




stef -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 4:41:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: splatterpunk

i want your mom and your mom wants me lolol

Hope you brought a shovel, loverboy.




Rawni -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 4:49:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

Not very PC here. I use girl, and chick often. I don't view roles online as then that comes across as some type of RP. I think terms are only seen as degrading when there is no doubt that they are meant that way, otherwise it is just a term. From what I gathered the OP was referring to the younger females he has been contacted by or is contacting.

Is protocol actually expected? I mean we used to get told all the time in another section that maintaining protocol was an unreasonable expectation.


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ORIGINAL: Rawni

Girl is only complimentary when it is the right man, calling you girl. Come on guys... this guy is just offensive in his role. [:D] I have even allowed some men to call me girl and laughed about it or at least smiled. When someone is trying to be offensive and degrades women often... even good girls... wanna be bad.




I agree with you. However, I joined in as a response to someone other than the OP and can't explain myself without breaking TOS. [:D] I tried three times. It's not going to work.

I need coffee and a nap. [;)]




SeekingTrinity -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 5:44:26 PM)


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ORIGINAL: hrxxx

For me, a girl who is younger than me, will always be just a girl


Well, you and I happen to be the same age currently. So Id have to know when you are going to hit the big 40 in relation to when I will so I can know whether to refer to you as a "boy" or a "man." Perhaps those of us born in the same year should have hybrid names?

Ban?
Moy?
Giman?
Worl?




hrxxx -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 6:32:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Rawni


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ORIGINAL: Rawni


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ORIGINAL: hrxxx


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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

OP, I really think you need to get off the one trick pony you are currently riding and branch out into other subjects. You do realize that any potential can click a link on the other side and see what you post over here, right? I myself am not into financial stuff and I wouldn't want to spend all my time listening to someone else bitch about it all the time either.



I disagree with you. When a girl is younger than me, she is a girl. A girl becomes only a woman when she's older than me.


ROFLMAO! Everyone is entitled to their opinion. I must laugh at this one. god.


Wait... I changed my mind.

Boy... I like the way you think.

Signed.. the older domina




You can call me whatever you want, as long as you do not call me up early in the morning.




hrxxx -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 8:19:26 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity


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ORIGINAL: hrxxx

For me, a girl who is younger than me, will always be just a girl


Well, you and I happen to be the same age currently. So Id have to know when you are going to hit the big 40 in relation to when I will so I can know whether to refer to you as a "boy" or a "man." Perhaps those of us born in the same year should have hybrid names?

Ban?
Moy?
Giman?
Worl?



well I'm not sure. Do you go around and say Hey Man? Is Giman not FBI? It is my experience that when girls not farther will tell or talk about their real age, then they are womens, so it's hard to put a number on




petitespot -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 8:25:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Slaveboytoy2

I am new to this lifestyle and everything but it seems to me that there is a line between controling me and being a usless bloodsucker.

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I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why?


Yes, we only want your money because it's your only redeeming quality.




Level -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/12/2013 8:29:52 PM)

we're in your pockets, taking your money




MissKittyDeVine -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/13/2013 4:09:48 AM)

Well. I just cannot understand why OP's complaint hasn't led to the desired result. Dommes should be fighting to get to him.




MasterCaneman -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/13/2013 7:18:23 AM)

OP should consider the 90% a good sign. In my experience, 100% of women in the vanilla world want my money. In my GF's ideal fantasy, I only have enough to pay for dinner and the show when I take her out. I've spent the last eleven years disabusing her of this notion. Maybe someday it'll get through to her. [;)]




TNDommeK -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/13/2013 1:53:16 PM)

Op, you should ask my hubby about girls wanting money. He always sounds like Al Bundy when it comes to having money. :)




Edwynn -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/13/2013 2:41:29 PM)


~FR~

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ORIGINAL: Slaveboytoy2

I am new to this lifestyle and everything but it seems to me that there is a line between controling me and being a usless bloodsucker.



OK, now that I've picked myself up off the floor from laughing ...

The long thread title resulted in the word "money" being truncated to "mon," and in my just breezing through things and looking haphazardly, I initially read the latter part of it as - "but it seems as though 90% of girls on CM just want my mom."

That would have been SO much more interesting.

I could even add- "and perhaps more understandable," but I'll just stop there.








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