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TNDommeK -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 3:28:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dgedward The word tribute exists as a way for pro dommes and their customers to pretend that what they're doing somehow stands apart from what a sex-worker would do with a customer. It's a flimsy distinction if you ask me, but it allows people the opportunity to rationalize what they're doing in a way that they feel more comfortable with. Well, since you're a pro or fin, I assume you know what you're talking about. quote: ORIGINAL: dgedward To the OP, I wouldn't take what people say in this thread too seriously. To be honest your big mistake was asking for help here. Most people on the forums are just looking for an opportunity to demonstrate how clever they are, and they're just using your post as a medium for that instead of actually trying to help you in a meaningful way. There's a lot of great literature out there that can help you improve your social life with women, I'd pursue that before I'd ever ask for help here. Yes, you're right about that as well. There are no helpful threads here, just pissing contests to see which of us is more witty. Apparently you win this round. [8\|]

crazyml -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 3:44:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missdressed quote: ORIGINAL: DollMegan More than 90%! You asked why, well why is because they are lazy useless baby factories whose parents (provided they know who both of them are) kept telling them how wonderful they are and now they think they fart lavender. Funny thing is if you met them they would be driving a car held together with tape on their last $20 worth of gas, dumb as a box of hammers and with 3 kids who at least two are being raised by her mother. Only the stupid ones seems to be breeding in this world. Anyone else notice that??? But I am just generalizing, I could be wrong. By the way. If you're going to call others stupid, it might be an idea to use the correct grammar appurtenant to the sentence you have constructed. Otherwise, you just make yourself look, well, stupid. And I'm not generalising. quote: appurtenant Wowsers... now that is the first time in a long old while that I've had to look a word up. <tips hat>

crazyml -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 3:47:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dgedward To the OP, I wouldn't take what people say in this thread too seriously. To be honest your big mistake was asking for help here. Most people on the forums are just looking for an opportunity to demonstrate how clever they are, and they're just using your post as a medium for that instead of actually trying to help you in a meaningful way. There's a lot of great literature out there that can help you improve your social life with women, I'd pursue that before I'd ever ask for help here. Can you see how this might be perceived as an attempt to demonstrate how clever you are? I can certainly say that your post caused my acme-irony-o-meter to fucking explode.

garyFLR -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 3:50:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl Maybe if you fellas stop chasing the 18 - 25 year old age group..... What would I have in common with an 18 - 25 year old lady? We'd bore each other senseless, & not in a good way [:D].

crazyml -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 4:01:18 AM)
Chastened as I am by dgedward's post - notwithstanding the fact that I can't actually find any of the advice he's keen for you to receive in any of his posts - I'm going to have a genuine pop at this. Firstly... if you're getting the impression that the majority of females on this site just want your money, then I'd say you ought to reconsider your searching approach. For example (and I'm not assuming that you have made this mistake) but if you restrict your searching to 23 year olds, who are 5'5" and who look like catwalk models there's a chance you'll encounter more than your fair share of cons. For example.... I very rarely encounter females that are asking for money, because I'm not looking for a pro domme, and as for the rest I suppose that a couple of years of using this site has taught me how to filter out the fakers / scammers / etc. Now as someone looking for subs, I'm less likely to encounter either the genuine or the fake pro dommes (and - despite the fact that there are a few unhappy little campers on this site that like to get the panties they wished a strong woman would make them wear in a royal old twist about pro dommes - they do exist, and many of them are bloody marvelous people). Now... that isn't to say that there aren't dommes out there looking for a lovely sub partner, and who aren't looking to provide a professional service. But, there are relatively few, and - if you take a look at the other sub guys on the site, you'll see that there is a fuck load of competition. You will need to really impress in order to make the cut, because some of these ladies (and fyi - referring to them as "girl" probably isn't a winning approach). So... take a good look at some of the other malesub profiles out there, don't worry - it's not ghey to do so. And ask yourself - "If i were a dominant woman, would I go for these guys or me? Then take a look at your own profile. In my (very subjective) opinion (and bearing in mind that I'm not your ideal demographic) I'd say that your profile is far from being the worst I've seen - But I'm guessing that it wouldn't make the cut compared with some of the really well thought out competitors you'll have. First, look at the grammar - for example it's "although" not "all though" - We all make grammar mistakes but if you have too many in your profile (and you have a few) you'll put off some of the really smart, literate, dommes. I'd expand your profile text and think about a) what you'd bring to a relationship b) what you hope to get out of a relationship and c) what can you do to make your profile the one they click on. When emailing, I'd say - don't make it too long, but consider the a, b and c above when writing your email too.

crazyml -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 4:06:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: garyFLR quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl Maybe if you fellas stop chasing the 18 - 25 year old age group..... What would I have in common with an 18 - 25 year old lady? We'd bore each other senseless, & not in a good way [:D]. My last long term relationship, (2 years) was with a very pretty 24 y/old. Drove me fucking mad.

garyFLR -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 4:27:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml quote: ORIGINAL: garyFLR quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl Maybe if you fellas stop chasing the 18 - 25 year old age group..... What would I have in common with an 18 - 25 year old lady? We'd bore each other senseless, & not in a good way [:D]. My last long term relationship, (2 years) was with a very pretty 24 y/old. Drove me fucking mad. [:D][:D].

dgedward -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 5:12:57 AM)
If there was some surefire strategy with respect to setting up a profile that got you what you wanted, that information would have leaked by now and everyone would be employing it. Changing your all-though's to althoughs isn't going to cause the women on this site to do a 180 and fall for you. To the OP, your assessment of the site and the women on it is completely accurate, and all you need to do is a cursory examination of the world around you to see that your observation is confirmed pretty much everywhere you go. If you're lamenting the fact that women want a man with money, then you probably don't have a lot of money. It won't matter how charming or amusing you are, because the emotional thrill women get from your charm and amusement will wear off fairly quickly and when it does she'll be left with the question 'What can this guy do for me?'

garyFLR -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 5:50:30 AM)
That's a bit of a jaundiced view, dgedward, if that were the case, poor people would never have relationships or get married. By definition, there are more poor people than rich, or well off, but it doesn't stop them from falling in love & having a life together. I'm sorry if that's been your life experience, & yes, there are lot of money grabbers out there, of both sexes, but there's a lot of decent people out there as well, both in the cyber & the real world. As I've said here in the past, there is wheat amongst the chaff, sometimes you might have to wait a bit, show a little patience.

Rawni -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 6:47:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: paulfrmfra quote: You have failed to see many truths in your embittered rant and you have also ignored the many viable dominants and women that don't take part in these things. The thing that is funniest is the use of the word "Tribute"... I mean, if a gal wants to be paid for her time during a meeting or session, then please call it what it is. And I don't think it's fair to compare this to a guy buying dinner on a vanilla date. Not forgetting that a woman on a vanilla date will often offer to pay for her half of the meal. While the gal seeking a tribute could make the argument that it's the same thing, the difference is that a tribute is a pre-condition to the meeting, with clear and pre-established expectations. Also, the image of the woman with the duck-taped car seems plausible, though certainly not in the majority of cases, fitting the stereotype of the obese, chain-smoking "Domme", angry at the world... of course, the other stereotype is the beautiful Pro-Domme, and their absolute clarity on the pay-to-play appointments. People like myself are seeking the rarest of types; the lifestyle Woman, seeking to share in a D/s relationship built on trust and feelings.. Imagine that. What the fuck are you quoting me for, when you add that little example of near sightedness to what I said and it has nothing to do with what I said? When I speak a number of words and you whittle it down to something, you really ought to be twisting what I said to align with what you want. You really need practice at this.

Rawni -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 6:50:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dgedward The word tribute exists as a way for pro dommes and their customers to pretend that what they're doing somehow stands apart from what a sex-worker would do with a customer. It's a flimsy distinction if you ask me, but it allows people the opportunity to rationalize what they're doing in a way that they feel more comfortable with. As for women and dinner, they'll offer to pay because they want to be perceived as modern feminists, but if you take them up on that offer you will lose value in their eyes. As for your search for an emotional connection, women are attracted to men with power and money. You want to lock her in and get her invested emotionally, you need to demonstrate high value. Haven't you ever asked yourself why rich men always get hot women? This idea that attraction is some magical obscure thing that you just haven't found yet is a myth. I tend to dislike rich men. Women like me, will NOT depend upon a man. In fact, I supported a few in my lifetime... not dead beats... but men I wanted doing other things while I had my male wife at home taking care of me. You surely must think the evil woman is out to get you. Do you still seek the pussy? The evil pussy? Hummmmm? Grow up. Seek better if you can be better. No one likes bitchy.

Rawni -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 6:58:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dgedward If there was some surefire strategy with respect to setting up a profile that got you what you wanted, that information would have leaked by now and everyone would be employing it. Changing your all-though's to althoughs isn't going to cause the women on this site to do a 180 and fall for you. To the OP, your assessment of the site and the women on it is completely accurate, and all you need to do is a cursory examination of the world around you to see that your observation is confirmed pretty much everywhere you go. If you're lamenting the fact that women want a man with money, then you probably don't have a lot of money. It won't matter how charming or amusing you are, because the emotional thrill women get from your charm and amusement will wear off fairly quickly and when it does she'll be left with the question 'What can this guy do for me?' I just saw four pages of books on Kindle, just last night while doing my research... of books written for men on how to get their cyber connection on. Those guys got tired of bitching, learned how to score and are now writing books, making money off those that are still bitching and teaching them to do the cyber do and bring it on home... well to a motel anyway. Get proactive guys... stop the questions and the bitch... get to reading.. your cyber babes are a book or two away.

OrionTheWolf -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 9:21:09 AM)
I never really chased but I no longer target them since I have one and been in a great relationship for several years. That age group is primarily for sport fucking now, but ever so often there is a good one that comes along. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl Maybe if you fellas stop chasing the 18 - 25 year old age group.....

Missdressed -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 12:26:16 PM)
I went out with a really rich man once. He was seriously well off. Astons, Porsches, mv Augusta cc, jet, the works. He was still an arse and his arse still got dumped.

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 12:56:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dgedward If you're lamenting the fact that women want a man with money, then you probably don't have a lot of money. It won't matter how charming or amusing you are, because the emotional thrill women get from your charm and amusement will wear off fairly quickly and when it does she'll be left with the question 'What can this guy do for me?' While not a Domme, I feel I do have a right to defend my gender. It is not a matter of "what a man can do for me" (ok..except for the obvious [:D]), it is a matter of reality and common interests. I am a successful, career woman...driven to succeed in the workforce. I don't believe everyone needs to make a million dollars, but I don't have a lot in common with those who consider work a drudgery that they just want to do with the least amount of effort or has no passion for their field or an interest is climbing higher. I would much prefer a short order cook who has a passion for cooking, loves to go to work every day, sees ways to learn more and be challenged daily then a guy who makes a lot of money but hates his job, complains about having to do more than what his job description says & has insufficient drive to look for something else... If it makes you feel better...I have been turned down by more than a couple of doms who did not want to contend with my dedication to work &, in some cases, my making more money than them...

MasterCaneman -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 12:56:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf I never really chased but I no longer target them since I have one and been in a great relationship for several years. That age group is primarily for sport fucking now, but ever so often there is a good one that comes along. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl Maybe if you fellas stop chasing the 18 - 25 year old age group..... For some reason, when I saw this post, I got this mental image of a TV show: "Sport Fucking: With OrionTheWolf".

ShaharThorne -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 1:18:20 PM)
DAmn, I am glad I did not have any liquids on this one...

garyFLR -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 1:26:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missdressed I went out with a really rich man once. He was seriously well off. Astons, Porsches, mv Augusta cc, jet, the works. He was still an arse and his arse still got dumped. You're not talking about me again, are you [:D]?

OrionTheWolf -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 1:55:08 PM)
That would have been awesome during my 20's and 30's! Now the latest contestant from Brazil is........ quote: ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman quote: ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf I never really chased but I no longer target them since I have one and been in a great relationship for several years. That age group is primarily for sport fucking now, but ever so often there is a good one that comes along. quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl Maybe if you fellas stop chasing the 18 - 25 year old age group..... For some reason, when I saw this post, I got this mental image of a TV show: "Sport Fucking: With OrionTheWolf".

chemeli -> RE: I could be wrong but it seems that 90% of girls on CM just want my money. Why? (7/14/2013 5:18:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Slaveboytoy2 Thanks for all the advice. As i said before i never wanted real answers neither did i think others would change anything for me. Why waste everybody's time on a post in the forums then?

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