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myotherself -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 11:23:26 AM)

I would never want to wear diapers because it's not one of my fetishes.

I would never date anyone who wore diapers for the same reason.

Other than that, I couldn't care less who else finds them fun and fap-worthy. Each to their own!



kiwisub12 -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 11:41:20 AM)

You want to be an adult baby? - more power to you, but for me, it isn't sexy.
on the other hand , I love anal, and canes, and crops and so on and so forth.

and maybe these things don't do a thing for you. It doesn't matter. What you like is what you like and if someone else doesn't like it - so what? If it was illegal that would be one thing, but wearing diapers when you aren't incontinent isn't illegal. So, go for it, don't apologise, and don 't worry about what anyone else thinks.



tazzygirl -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 11:59:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ALSub4U2

Why is it that just about everyone on here puts diapers as a hard limit? They aren't that bad


Because its something I wont do.

Me, myself, I have no desire to sit in a diaper.

I have no desire to clean someone else in a diaper in a situation that has nothing to do with employment.

Its my hard limit... doesnt have anything to do with you or your desires.



FrostedFlake -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 12:02:35 PM)

I'd like to stand up and clearly say the question is fucked up.



SwitchNSpanky -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 12:55:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake

I'd like to stand up and clearly say the question is fucked up.


Good call. Yet we have answered it for two whole pages. I'm ashamed at my part of this fiasco.



SimplyMichael -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 1:13:20 PM)

I have never found them sexy but I have found that "never" is all too often not all that never. The right partner, the right mood, the right reaction, who knows?



SwitchNSpanky -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 1:24:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

I have never found them sexy but I have found that "never" is all too often not all that never. The right partner, the right mood, the right reaction, who knows?


Great point. I for one can imagine becoming ok with things I used to object to. Context is huge in our scene.



ResidentSadist -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 1:26:14 PM)

I figure when we all get old enough we're gonna' end up in diapers anyway, so what's the rush?



JeffBC -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 2:49:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ALSub4U2
I guess ABDL and ageplay is looked down upon in the community, maybe we are the black sheep of kink.

How about we don't be so dramatic? Look on these boards we got the guy who likes to shove squid up his girls cunt. We have the guy who likes the same with cattle prods. We have me... the not-kinky guy. We have all manner of things. It's not that anyone's looking down on your kink. It's that they just don't happen to like it themselves.

And don't even start thinking that this makes you somehow unusual. I'd bet that less than half a percent of women who identify as slaves would like what I do. I'm pretty sure not too many of the subs would be down with either surgical staples or cattle prods. Kinks are like that. You are are into it or you are not.



DesFIP -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 4:01:28 PM)

I adopt grown dogs, not puppies so I don't have to deal with house breaking.
I've raised children so I've done my share.
For that matter, I've had horses so I've shoveled my share of that.

I'm not interested. Most women aren't interested. It's much more of a male sub kink than a woman's kink, sub or domme.



Missokyst -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 4:36:54 PM)

Hmm... Do you ever wonder if this is some sort of hold over from the potty training years? My mom.. heck, and even me got through that training period for our children as quickly as possible. The boys, both hers and mine always seemed to take just a tad longer. In my moms generation that meant a potential swat or two. For mine it might have been more akin to a raised brow. Either way the boys seemed to be a bit more resistant. I wonder about this stuff because I do see more males into AB than females.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I adopt grown dogs, not puppies so I don't have to deal with house breaking.
I've raised children so I've done my share.
For that matter, I've had horses so I've shoveled my share of that.

I'm not interested. Most women aren't interested. It's much more of a male sub kink than a woman's kink, sub or domme.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 4:47:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

we got the guy who likes to shove squid up his girls cunt.


Who the hell does that?!?!

Omg, that's so a bridge to far even for me, and I'm seriously fucked up on some of the nasty shit I like...



DarkSteven -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 5:12:31 PM)

My hard limits are just that. And my must-haves are just that as well.

If my hard limit is one of your must-haves or vice versa, then it ain't gonna work. Simple as that.



Missokyst -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 5:20:29 PM)

omg... never look up tentacle porn, and I do not mean anime
(shudders)
quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

we got the guy who likes to shove squid up his girls cunt.


Who the hell does that?!?!

Omg, that's so a bridge to far even for me, and I'm seriously fucked up on some of the nasty shit I like...




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 5:38:20 PM)

Personally Speaking...Diapers are the complete opposite of anything sexy for me (real turn off).



SimplyMichael -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 5:51:18 PM)

I know a woman who was into tentacle porn and i have a super hot friend who loves cock shots.

Anything,is possible, the real question is how likely.

I have got off on things i would have sworn would have NEVER been hot, those sorts of tg
Hings tend to be very situational. I am violently,opposed to gun play but i once negotiated a gun scene and a pissing in,the gutter humiliatiin scene,in public at folsom, seemed hot at the time.



JeffBC -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 8:19:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Who the hell does that?!?!
Omg, that's so a bridge to far even for me, and I'm seriously fucked up on some of the nasty shit I like...

I'm sure Kana will be thrilled to read that :)



littlewonder -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 8:26:28 PM)

sigh...you had to bring him into this huh? <looks around to make sure he's not spying>

and here I was hoping he'd pass right by this. hrmph. [8D]



Kana -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 8:34:16 PM)

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we got the guy who likes to shove squid up his girls cunt.

Perks up?
Was someone discussing my special recipe for (Calamari) Ika Nigira?
Man, that sauce. It's outta this world. Especially if you marinate in some Thai chili sauce to add some zing to the, ahem,natural oils



littlewonder -> RE: Hard Limits? (7/19/2013 8:35:22 PM)

crap



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