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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/19/2013 8:41:13 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		They aren't bad... for you.

But they bring to mind pee and poop and those things most adults would prefer to forgo unless it was a child who is related to them.

You asked about hard limits.

People don't really need to justify any limit to anyone.
They just need to select compatible partners.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/19/2013 8:44:08 PM   
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Who the hell does that?!?!
Omg, that's so a bridge to far even for me, and I'm seriously fucked up on some of the nasty shit I like...

I'm sure Kana will be thrilled to read that :)



It's not even the slimy animaly part of it that is such a turn off... it's that it's a food item and the hygiene parts that come with it...

Food items shoved up my cunt trigger one image, and one image alone: yeast infection.

SOOOOOOOOOO not a turn on!!!!!!!!

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/19/2013 9:47:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP, if diapers are what floats your kink boat...more power to you rock those diapers with fierceness...

However...

Not everyone feels the same way. More power to them and they rock their kink with fierceness as well. Like MasterCaneman, I spent years working with folks who wore adult diapers. It's just not my idea of a good time.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/19/2013 10:41:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Food items shoved up my cunt trigger one image, and one image alone: yeast infection.

Pussy!

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/19/2013 11:25:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Food items shoved up my cunt trigger one image, and one image alone: yeast infection.

Pussy!


Learn to properly punish your slave by beating her when she's bad, like Real Masters™ do, before assuming that comments like that have any weight coming from you.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 6:47:37 AM   
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Ewwww for me at least.


My hard limit? Glad you asked. Housework! Amount other various things.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 7:17:27 AM   
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I understand what u all are saying. But not everyone who is an adult baby does Bm in them. I have been an adultbaby for 15years and I only pee in my diapers.

True. Excrement/urine/blood are all on My Hard Limits list. I accept only "potty trained toddlers" but they are allowed to wear their diapers so long as they keep them CLEAN. They must remain fluffy and soft (allowed for that "cuddly, SAFE" headspace that AB's crave). If they ever were to mess in them they would be sent home. Bye bye.

However, I'm different from a lot of D/s people in that I'm not in this for any sex Play...instead it's Chastity Power Exchange D/s and the headspace it creates that I'm interested in, plain and simple. Since sex is "age inappropriate" for toddlers, clean diaper wearers fall under Chastity so are acceptable to Me.

By the way, as I mentioned on another thread, My "toddlers" and sissies are expected to actually Serve and do WORK (we convert chores into "baby/sissy theme" games). I laugh more than anything, hysterically, especially during videotaping.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 7:21:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		An Amendment to that...I'd have to add that SEXUAL ACTIVITY is the biggest Hard Limit for Me.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 7:31:08 AM   
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Otherwise, like many here, I generally prefer someone I can form a working partnership with and whose attire I find sexy.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 9:31:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


Food items shoved up my cunt trigger one image, and one image alone: yeast infection.

SOOOOOOOOOO not a turn on!!!!!!!!



Don't they have to have sugar in them to cause a yeast infection. People have used cucumbers as dildos for years without much of a reaction.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 9:32:07 AM   
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Learn to properly punish your slave by beating her when she's bad, like Real Masters™ do, before assuming that comments like that have any weight coming from you.

LOL... touche!

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 10:26:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sure I'll wear a diaper, no problem. Don't expect me to do anything in it though. I don't like the thought of my vagina sitting in fecal matter. Hello infection~! I also don't like the thought of urine going in there either. Sure urine is sterile, but it could also mess with the Ph balance in there if left unclean.

So no, diapers are not a hard limit, but scat/waterworks IS.

Unfortunately there are some less then inelegant people that think diapers= scat/waterworks. These people then see you do not have diapers as a limit, and ask you to participate with them in the other two acts while wearing a diaper. THIS is why people put diapers as hard limits, to keep the pushy creepy scat/waterworks people away. It has nothing much to do with your diaper fetish and more to do with the other two fetishes. Some people just don't get that one does not equal the other.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 12:15:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MarineKitten

Sure I'll wear a diaper, no problem. Don't expect me to do anything in it though. I don't like the thought of my vagina sitting in fecal matter. Hello infection~! I also don't like the thought of urine going in there either. Sure urine is sterile, but it could also mess with the Ph balance in there if left unclean.

So no, diapers are not a hard limit, but scat/waterworks IS.

Unfortunately there are some less then inelegant people that think diapers= scat/waterworks. These people then see you do not have diapers as a limit, and ask you to participate with them in the other two acts while wearing a diaper. THIS is why people put diapers as hard limits, to keep the pushy creepy scat/waterworks people away. It has nothing much to do with your diaper fetish and more to do with the other two fetishes. Some people just don't get that one does not equal the other.


I'm not sure why it's less than intelligent to equate diapers with pee and poop since they are designed to be defecated in/urinated in. How is it so odd to think that one thing equals the other when a diaper exists purely as a waste receptacle? There is literally no other purpose to a diaper, I'm not sure why it's a mark of low intellect to assume they'd be used as their purpose intended.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/20/2013 6:56:54 PM   
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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/21/2013 2:45:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lizi

I'm not sure why it's less than intelligent to equate diapers with pee and poop since they are designed to be defecated in/urinated in. How is it so odd to think that one thing equals the other when a diaper exists purely as a waste receptacle? There is literally no other purpose to a diaper, I'm not sure why it's a mark of low intellect to assume they'd be used as their purpose intended.


It is a preconceived assumption to assume that someone into diaper play is automatically into using it for its full intended purpose. Another automatic assumption many appear to make is that diaper lover = adult baby or wanting another person to participate in their kink, change them etc.


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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/21/2013 3:02:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Some of you have very little vision.

Why do you want to be beaten and abused?

Reality isn't what it looks like, its a fantasy fetish, you take elements of something. I am not into diapers but just because a knife is made for cutting doesn't mean you have to shit in it when you hit someone with it.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/21/2013 5:58:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Who the hell does that?!?!
Omg, that's so a bridge to far even for me, and I'm seriously fucked up on some of the nasty shit I like...

I'm sure Kana will be thrilled to read that :)



It's not even the slimy animaly part of it that is such a turn off... it's that it's a food item and the hygiene parts that come with it...

Food items shoved up my cunt trigger one image, and one image alone: yeast infection.

SOOOOOOOOOO not a turn on!!!!!!!!

That's kinda how the Mouse feels too...which of course merely adds to my pleasure

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/21/2013 6:50:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is just another male sub whiny post about why he can't find someone who's into his kink.

I got an unsolicited angry message from a sub this morning bashing me because I'm not into female supremacy. Therefore, I'm not a "real" dominant.

I don't know if I should roll my eyes or burst out laughing.

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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/22/2013 8:28:32 AM   
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RE: Hard Limits? - 7/22/2013 9:54:22 AM   
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If yall need to be educated on ABDL and or ageplay I suggest listening to the BigLittlePodcast they pretty much cover every aspect on the topic.

I'm not going to quote the other post because frankly, I'm not willing to invest in typing something out that will get pulled.

There are a lot of people into age play. However, just like you don't want people assuming that everybody into DL actually uses the diapers for all functions, let's also clear up the fact that not all age play is specifically AB. Age play as a category isn't only those who want to be babies or toddlers. It also includes littles of various ages.

What does tend to happen when AB's or folks into DL ask why others aren't into it is, people answer honestly why they aren't into it, and then there is a bad reaction. It's pretty common for AB's to have some form of temper tantrum because other people don't want to participate in that particular kink. (Feel free to debate that all day long, but I've been here six years, and it happens often enough to reach that assessment.) You don't see Michael or I having that kind of a reaction because people have knife play as a hard limit just because some folks automatically equating knife play with cutting. We accept that people have their hard limits for a reason. AB and DL are legitimate kinks but that doesn't mean everybody *has* to want to participate in them.

You asked a question and got honest answers to that question. Personally, I'd have to think you already knew the scope of answers that you would receive before you ever asked. (Most AB/DL folks really do know the "why" part.) Just because you don't like the answers is no reason to behave poorly.



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