AAkasha
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ORIGINAL: spiritualsub43 Just wanted to know what you Mistresses felt about Goddess Worship on both a physical and spiritual level. Do you feel it is possible to become a true embodiement of the Goddess? That's a lot of pressure, to be honest. If it works for two people, that's good for them. There certainly are a lot of flavors of BDSM, but I have never had much interest of being on the receiving end of 'worship' on any level unless it's in a bit of roleplaying as part of a larger sadistic scenario (like shoving a man's face toward the ground to lick my boots if you want to call that "worship.") I always try to clarify with potential subs or partners if they are looking for an "active" dominant partner or a "passive" dominant partner. I am a dominant partner that likes to "do" things to her submissive (hurt him, make him react), not have things done to me (be massaged, be serviced, be attended to). The caveat is that as a woman, and a lover, and a girlfriend and wife, OF COURSE I want an "attentive" lover and boyfriend - but ALL women do. I want a courteous and proactive service oriented partner, absolutely. I want the normally expected (if not more) backrubs, I expect my car filled up with gas, etc. - but I don't see that as my partner being "submissive" and I don't DOMINATE him to get that stuff done, I don't have to be "in role" to get it done. He does it because he's a good man. I don't get orgasms because I am "in role" or "I'm the domina." My dominant role is a sadist who needs/desires/demands surrender, suffering, pain, humiliation and a host of other unthinkable acts that require me to "do" things (bondage, pain, penetration, toys, acts, mindgames) to a man who surrenders to me and I am the active party and he is the receiving party. It is not me sitting back and being adored. However, there are times where I may require him to do these things to himself, but it's still under my direction. Is that worship? No. But he does those out of devotion to me, absolutely! Akasha
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