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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/23/2013 2:23:02 PM   
MasterCaneman


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Status: offline 		Barbequed what? Pork, chicken? Kentucky or Missouri-style? These could be critical for some folks who take BBQ seriously, you know...

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/23/2013 2:29:06 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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ORIGINAL: Grabengag

I'm new to all this.and.can't figure it out.

Some say they want to be an obediant pet, some just wanna be spanked sometimes, some say they want to be property, some say they wanna be treated like a child, so on and so forth.

To the subs, what are you looking for?

I've heard pretty much all of the above and then a few more things. Achieving a certain "Headspace" is important (be it Humiliation, Safety, etc), feeling NEEDED/USEFUL, etc.

*Edited to add: "...AND BARBEQUE"

< Message edited by MAINEiacMISTRESS -- 7/23/2013 2:30:35 PM >

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/23/2013 4:39:32 PM   
morphological


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Status: offline 		Beef brisket or chicken white meat only , Not much on pork,,, Texas style of course....

< Message edited by morphological -- 7/23/2013 4:51:18 PM >

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/24/2013 12:15:10 AM   
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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/24/2013 3:32:06 AM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: Grabengag


To the subs, what are you looking for?

Power

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/24/2013 8:09:30 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: Grabengag

To the subs, what are you looking for?



Money. (I'm a "financial sub")

Since I've taken my time to answer your question, please go to my profile and buy me something off of my wish list, or send me an Amazon gift card. Thanks.

(So far I haven't been able to get anyone to buy into this "financial sub" act. But I'm not gonna give up. Somebody is gonna pay me. Just watch.)

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/24/2013 8:11:35 AM   
Toysinbabeland


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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/24/2013 8:19:55 AM   
Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: Grabengag

To the subs, what are you looking for?


A nice juicy enemy carrier to torpedo.

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/24/2013 8:22:39 AM   
myotherself


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Oh. Wait...

*looks up at previous poster*



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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/24/2013 6:11:35 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman

Barbequed what? Pork, chicken? Kentucky or Missouri-style? These could be critical for some folks who take BBQ seriously, you know...


Pork. Long pork. Long pork of the generally shorter variety. Can you say, "gynophagia?"

I knew you could.

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/24/2013 9:19:45 PM   
Anatolium


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ORIGINAL: Grabengag
To the subs, what are you looking for?


To please Her!

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/25/2013 2:48:11 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		What am i looknig for. I already foeud .A Dom i can trust and respect, who has my same quirky sensw od humar,who matches me in kink. One who adds joy to my life. One who jusr "gets" me

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/26/2013 7:08:48 AM   
BabyDeano


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Status: offline 		I'm mainly looking for a young dominant to take complete control, So many doms are only dom while behind closed doors. I prefer a dom to be a dom in every part of his life. I feel a true dom will be in control in and out of the house. I like not having choices in what I can wear, eat etc. I was controlled by a 18 yr old for 4 years. He dressed and treated me as a 18 month old toddler 24/7. He made me wear and use diapers even at work, would take me out in public dressed as a baby, change my diapers in a public bathroom, humiliate m in private and public no matter who was around,had set bedtimes etc. Every morning I had to wake him up by sucking his bottle to get my formula.... I had to ask for anything I wanted to do even jacking off which he always said no. But not everyone is like me. I hated it at first, like the first 6 months but then started to realize that I was happy for the first time of my life. When he joined the Army I was lost and honestly have not been complete or happy since.

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 7/26/2013 7:26:47 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: BabyDeano

I'm mainly looking for a young dominant to take complete control, So many doms are only dom while behind closed doors. I prefer a dom to be a dom in every part of his life. I feel a true dom will be in control in and out of the house. I like not having choices in what I can wear, eat etc. I was controlled by a 18 yr old for 4 years. He dressed and treated me as a 18 month old toddler 24/7. He made me wear and use diapers even at work, would take me out in public dressed as a baby, change my diapers in a public bathroom, humiliate m in private and public no matter who was around,had set bedtimes etc. Every morning I had to wake him up by sucking his bottle to get my formula.... I had to ask for anything I wanted to do even jacking off which he always said no. But not everyone is like me. I hated it at first, like the first 6 months but then started to realize that I was happy for the first time of my life. When he joined the Army I was lost and honestly have not been complete or happy since.


Sounds... unlikely. But good luck in your search for someone who will inflict sexual displays on unconsenting members of the public.

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 8/1/2013 12:40:05 PM   
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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 8/5/2013 12:48:57 PM   
Thejaybird


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Status: offline 		Pretty sure it's different with everyone.

For me? A man who I can feel comfortable just letting go with. A person that makes me feel safe, not only sexually, but in life as well. Who can take charge and be firm, but isn't absolutely controlling. And while I'm willing to be guided and take most orders, my ideal Dom would take my feelings and opinions in matters into consideration. He should be able to make me laugh and smile, but still inspire my respect.

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RE: What are subs looking for exactly? - 8/6/2013 4:47:47 AM   
LeashedLeviathan


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ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake

Kinky sex.


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