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ORIGINAL: dink22

Lady Pact, I don't understand where you're getting this interpretation from. I don't have a problem with anything anyone else does. As long as it's between two consenting adults, fine. Have I ever said anything otherwise?

Here is my position from the beginning, and it has never changed.

1. Femdom is an eccentric, independent sexuality, similar to being gay. Dominant women belong with submissive men and vice versa. These
relationships have great potential for creating gifted children.

2. I detest anyone (male or female) who tries to exploit submissive males for their money. They are easy targets and I think it's the lowest element
of the human race that does this.

Beyond that, I don't care what people do. I don't even care about these bullshit "financial dommes," I've only asked that they be kept separate, and that all the women seeking to profit from the lonliness of submissive males be kept separate as far as profiles on CM. Of course, we both know the response to that was similar to the response on gun control: if people are still going to be murdered, what's the point of having any control??? By the same token, most of the people on CM said, "well if some financial dommes are still going to post profiles as lifestyle dommes anyway, why have any control???"

But fuck it. Evidently you and the lifestyle dommes don't have a problem being lumped in with scam dommes, financial dommes, etc. It's all cool as far as you're concerned.

Well, Okay. Evidently that's what femdom is in 2013. I'm a guy trying to elevate it to being equal to traditional male-dominant sexuality. And I'm increasingly thinking I'm a fool for doing that. More and more, especially at sites like this, I'm coming to the conclusion that I'm not quite the life-philosopher I thought I was and that maybe femdom is something that happens in males as a kind of Oedipus complex. In other words, it's not a normal sexuality (which I thought it was), but rather a psychological aberration occurring mostly in males.

Which is probably what it is.

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ORIGINAL: dink22

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Dink I read your post to LP and this idiotic post you just left above...

The point we are trying to make is this... You said you have a problem with anyone exploiting money from male subs. Ok superman, well here is a bit of Information I'm sure you'll ignore: THE MALE SUBS COME TO ME *OFFERING* MONEY!
So now what? How is that exploiting?

You can attempt to bunch us with scammers or whore or prostitutes or whatever you like. Bottom line is, my subs love me. They have been with me for a great amount of time. I'm sure if they were unhappy, they'd go else where.

And I see your point Maria, you are right. However, it's not so much the control I'm giving up but more so trying to educate the dumbass masses who think like dink here. Which are few compared to the ones who enjoy fin dom.

Hey, thanks for calling my post "idiotic." That does wonders. For you. Thanks for ignoring everything I, like, "actually said." If you actually tried to distance yourself from the scammers and findommes, I would give you credit for that. And you've had the chance. Rather than take it, you've decided to ridicule the male subs who complained about it.

Ahhh. and now after reading your profile I understand!! YOU ARE A FINANCIAL DOMME!! So I guess you're not objective on the topic eh? Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!

Sorry, your credibility is destroyed. You don't want people saying bad things about financial dommes because that's a big part of the way you make your money!! You don't actually WORK like most of the rest of us. You've just found that submissive men are a great demographic to EXPLOIT!!

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ORIGINAL: dink22

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See, here's the thing. I don't care about your loneliness. I don't care about the wants, needs, or desires that you have. You set your own parameters and if they don't meet Mine, I honestly don't care.

Shall you ask that those of us who enjoy needle kink, even though you don't, be separated from those that do?

Uh, did I actually ask that you cared about my lonliness?? Ever???

No, of course not. But since you're into dishonesty, I probably need to point out to you that what I said was I detest people who -----EXPLOIT----- submissive males for MONEY.

But I guess you need to twist my words.

Yet another person who makes a living from submissive males.

What a coincidence.

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ORIGINAL: dink22

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Ha, ha. There you go again. Trying to imply that I do what I do for money.

Show Me what you base this on.

See, I could do the same thing. I could say that the fin thing bothers you because you are broke and jealous because, without cash, non of your kinks are being realized.

Works both ways, doesn't it?

Can you prove one occasion that I've scened for money? Nope. No more than I can prove that your opposition to fin kink is based on your jealousy.

You can make all the accusations you want. But let's be real. How many true "lifestyle" dommes actually have a rack that they pose in front of in fetish attire??? Yeah, maybe a few, but not many. Besides, I remember when your profile most definitely and verbally said you were a pro domme. That may have been something taken away 5 months ago or in the last 5 minutes, I don't know. But you did at one time, and to deny that would certainly damage your credibility with people who read these boards regularly.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
I don't know, I would think I'm very nice. I don't really associate dominance with bitchy. However, I know what ya mean when you're talking about being cold and harsh.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

FR

I balk at starting a different thread on this, though some might think it needs it: the question of how a findomme is *meant* to come across in her profile: as a nice lady, or as a bitch?

I ask because, a long time ago, I came across a findomme profile . . . attractive, young-ish woman in the UK, looking to attract clients. But her pitch was very far from the usual. She talked about how she was broke, had a new baby and the father had fled.

I've never seen a findomme profile like that since. I must admit, I was torn. It was so sad. Feelings of white knight and stuff came over me (though, yes, I did allow for the possibility that her story could be utter bollocks). But a major part of me also thought, 'No, no, no - you do NOT pique the interest of malesubs that way. You do that by looking like a bitch. Where is your 'cold', where is your 'aloof' and where's that vital bit of blatant selfishness?'

I mean, really, isn't it an essential part of the buzz between a findomme and her client that she's basically not very nice?

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ORIGINAL: fetisheden
their problem is by you being here, somehow that is preventing the 18 year old blonde nympho from also being on this website(don't ask me how that works).

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ORIGINAL: sml53

is pay for marriage real matrimony?

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a domme is ALWAYS powerful,hence why she is the domme

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ORIGINAL: fetisheden

their problem is by you being here, somehow that is preventing the 18 year old blonde nympho from also being on this website(don't ask me how that works).

i'm just surprised that they actually read your profile.i get at least 10 reply emails a day from slaves mad that I actually want $$$ instead of their out of shape, flabby bodies.i guess the whole "pro domme" part in my profile is not clear enough?

tl:dr=slaves here are broke &W ill waste your time.better to go somewhere else to find human atms who take their hands out of their pockets

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
Gawd. I'd never demand that, nor expect it. Doesn't seem human to me.

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: fetisheden

their problem is by you being here, somehow that is preventing the 18 year old blonde nympho from also being on this website(don't ask me how that works).

i'm just surprised that they actually read your profile.i get at least 10 reply emails a day from slaves mad that I actually want $$$ instead of their out of shape, flabby bodies.i guess the whole "pro domme" part in my profile is not clear enough?

tl:dr=slaves here are broke &W ill waste your time.better to go somewhere else to find human atms who take their hands out of their pockets

Any job you have will have good and bad points. One of the bad points of a pro domme is you will run into time wasters. Salesmen run into the same shit. It's up to you if you want to waste even more time bitching about it or accept it as part of the job.