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different goal - 7/28/2013 12:10:30 AM   
nataliglobu


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Status: offline 		Wow.

A Canadian slave opened my eyes to BDSM.

I mean I was always a Queen, I felt it in my veins, but in the Ukraine men are not as submissive as In the West.

Wow...

I love your part of the world where women can be served like Queens.

That is what I call life, sitting at the table with guests while my slaves cook a great meal, maybe I should start smoking cigars as well
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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 12:23:24 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		I tend to believe that you are only as dominant as the submissive you're with.

I'm not talking about being dominant in the workplace, or always being the one to do the organising and arranging. There are a lot of submissive folk who are like this too (including myself). I'm more focussing on the interaction between a dominant and a submissive.

This is not a negative point, but perhaps one to ponder.

I am a slave, but not a slave to anyone. I'm not even submissive to most people, but to the right one I'm as subservient as he wants me to be.

All I can assume is that the men in the Ukraine did not react well to your particular style of dominance, so they were not inspired to be submissive, whereas the Canadian men were.



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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 12:39:58 AM   
nataliglobu


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Status: offline 		You have a good perspective of the context (myotherself)

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 1:14:31 AM   
metamorfosis


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Status: offline 		Your profile reads like science fiction. That said, good luck and I hope you find what you seek.



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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 2:42:17 AM   
Enobaria


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quote:

I tend to believe that you are only as dominant as the submissive you're with.


So very true!

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 4:45:04 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nataliglobu

in the Ukraine men are not as submissive as In the West.



I suspect that in the Ukraine, the culture is stronger than in the West, so that men vary less from their cultural role. Here in the West, we have men that are Doms, that are subs, that are switches, and men that are God-knows-what.

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 4:52:02 AM   
metamorfosis


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I suspect that in the Ukraine men really are every bit as submissive as in the West, they just don't show it. I wonder if you might not want to look for subs inside your own country as well. There are probably more than you think.

< Message edited by metamorfosis -- 7/28/2013 4:57:07 AM >

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 7:03:12 AM   
myotherself


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Quick poll here - I got a message from the OP pretending to be her 'slave', asking me to pay money to go view her on cam

How many others will be spammed for answering her thread?



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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 7:24:47 AM   
searching4mysir


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Cupcake, you might want to update your profile because in it you are talking as if Hilary Clinton was going to win the presidential election in 2008. This tells me you haven't updated it in 5 years and makes you look as if you don't know what you are talking about, particularly when it comes to female supremacy.

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 7:55:26 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		The chutzpah of the op astounds me. Honey child, you don't get to announce what everyone else on the site has to do. Lots of us want a full relationship. The fact that you just want money from guys in other countries doesn't negate any of us wanting a lover, a kinky partner, etc.

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 12:26:15 PM   
ResidentSadist


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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 3:40:30 PM   
metamorfosis


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
Quick poll here - I got a message from the OP pretending to be her 'slave', asking me to pay money to go view her on cam


I guess all roads lead to financial domination.



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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 5:43:33 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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but in the Ukraine men are not as submissive as In the West.


Judging by your profile, you have a very, umm, misguided view of submissive men. Here's a hint, the vast majority of us are here neither to be financially exploited nor to be "only tortured and abused."

Not that some of us don't being tortured and abused... occasionally. But only? Those men who say this is what they want are living in a porn fed fantasyland.

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 5:48:18 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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Cupcake, you might want to update your profile because in it you are talking as if Hilary Clinton was going to win the presidential election in 2008. This tells me you haven't updated it in 5 years and makes you look as if you don't know what you are talking about, particularly when it comes to female supremacy.


That's what I get for only being able to read a few paragraphs of such a profile before my eyes glaze over. The OP obviously copied and pasted "her" profile text from a much older profile. Which means this thread is a very poorly disguised attempt to dig up cam clients.

Anybody want to bet that the OP will post on this thread again? I've got a dollar that says "she" won't.

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 10:37:14 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		^^^^The 1st of the month is right around the corner, Harry. I imagine we'll be getting many more like 'her' in the next few days, right on up through the 5th when the 'late charge' applies.

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RE: different goal - 7/28/2013 11:20:00 PM   
MarineKitten


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Status: offline 		Nice little tryst of fantasy in the OP. I often times like to imagine myself lying on the floor next to my Sir, while he sits in his computer chair and idly reaches down to pet me. In reality it's not likely to happen any time soon, but it is nice to think about. In the mean time my Sir and I will have to keep in communication when ever we can. He is quite a busy man, and rarely gets time to himself. Much less get vacation time to come visit. Keep dreaming OP, eventually you'll get what you deserve.

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