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Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 6:11:48 AM   
DaddyhasNeeds2


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Status: offline 		I have an online sub and I want to give her tasks to do at WORK.
She works at a hospital, what can I task her to do?
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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 6:44:08 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I'm a big believer in not giving tasks for the sake of tasks. Give her things that actually mean something to you. You want her to live a healthy lifestyle? Give her a task to take a walk on her lunch hour or bring a salad from home. You want her to stay calm and relaxed in a stressful role? Have her do a short breathing exercise every time she gets a bathroom break. You want her to do well in her career? Instruct her to spend any down time productively by keeping up with changes in procedure or getting some study time in.

I'm guessing, however, that you're looking for kinky sexy things she can do at work. My advice would be - don't. Even non-medical jobs in a hospital are important and need focus. She doesn't need the discomfort of a buttplug distracting her. She doesn't need to be running off to masturbate in a supply closet and potentially putting her job at risk. And she really, really doesn't need to be wearing slutty outfits and making patients and staff uncomfortable.

Without meaning to sound negative, work is too important to mess with for fun. Things going wrong at work, even if it doesn't impact on her income, can make life hard. We spend so much time at work, the last thing we need is for it to become more pressured than it needs to be, or to impact on relationships with our co-workers. And of course, if something went very wrong and she did lose her job, are you able to support her financially?

I really hope you are thinking about the first type of orders. For me, someone inserting their fun time into my work would be a big red flag.

Edit to fix typos.

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 6:48:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

Without meaning to sound negative, work is too important to mess with for fun. Things going wrong at work, even if it doesn't impact on her income, can make life hard. We spend so much time at work, the last thing we need is for it to become more pressured than it needs to be, or to impact on relationships with our co-workers. And of course, if something went very wrong and she did lose her job, are you able to support her financially?



She works in a hospital. If she makes an error, it could affect a patient's life.

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 6:51:49 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I agree. Even if she is "only" the cleaner. (no disrespect to cleaners - most important job in the hospital!)

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 7:43:00 AM   
cutiewithabootie


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Status: offline 		I don't submit with my financial income so I have no advice for this. I don't think its fair to do so unless you are willing to contribute or supplement the submissives income.

I think you should enhance their work with being more constructive if you insist on dominating their workplace too. Yes to being productive or eating healthier meals. No to anything that can get in the way of their financial needs or potential bill money.


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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 8:13:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Master gives me tasks to do at work (I work in a school).

I must do my best every day, and not let things get on top of me.

I'm to eat a healthy lunch every day, and no coffee. Herbal tea instead.

Three times a week I'm to go to the school's multigym after work and spend half an hour working out.

I'm to remember that ultimately, I represent him, so everything I do must be with the thought that if he could see what I was doing, he would approve of it.




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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 8:18:03 AM   
Killerangel


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Status: offline 		Instruct her to:

Take care of her patients to the best of her ability.

Be courteous, respectful, and gracious in her dealings with her co-workers/supervisors.

Learning requirement: Challenge herself to learn something new about every condition that crosses her path during the day that is new to her. That may mean googling things on her breaks and such or asking other personnel, or whatever else you can think of to accomplish this.

Go out of her way over and above the call of duty at least once per day for a patient.

Order her to get a good night's sleep the night before work and prepare her uniform, eat breakfast in the morning, and stay current on any medications she takes in order that she can perform her job to the best of her abilities. Add to that list whatever else you think is important.

Tell her to ignore communicating with you while she is at work in order to concentrate fully on her job unless she is on lunch and only if she has already fulfilled her learning requirement for the day - then ask her what she learned when she contacts you.

**Most importantly, give her the task of keeping her mind off you or kink during work. She needs to perform her job and she has people literally depending on her for their lives. Tell her you will wait until she is off. Because you realize of course, that only an idiot would risk their submissive's livelihood - if anyone tried to instruct me to do kinky tasks at work I'd dump his silly ass without a backward glance.

If she is disappointed, remind her that you are the leader and wish for her to succeed in life to the best of her abilities. Therefore you are insuring her very best performance at work, and of course she realizes that her very best work effort should not include sexual gratification at her own, or someone else's expense.



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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 9:05:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DaddyhasNeeds2

I have an online sub and I want to give her tasks to do at WORK.
She works at a hospital, what can I task her to do?



To do her JOB instead of playing at being a sub. That IS what she is there for after all. Anything else on company time is theft.

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 9:10:58 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: DaddyhasNeeds2

I have an online sub and I want to give her tasks to do at WORK.
She works at a hospital, what can I task her to do?


First of all, giving a task just to give a task IMO, shows me that you don't respect my time because you clearly think it's okayto waste it.

Second, that time you're attempting to waste belongs to her employer. You know the person putting a roof over her head and food on her table. You're playing games with her livelihood and her future employment. A good Dominant has their submissive's best interest at the forefront and thinks through ramifications of what he requests. You clearly don't and haven't.

Third, she works in a hospital. A place where lives are literally at stake over the smallest thing. She needs to focus on her job.


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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 11:43:33 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Let's work on the basis that you're not the kind of fuckwad that would give someone tasks without thinking about the potential consequences. We'll assume that you're not a total dick, and that any task you give her is given on the understanding that she is not do do anything that would adversely affect her work.

There are ways to blend a little bit of gratuitous kink with someone's working day.

I once had a pair of latex knickers sent by courier to someone's work, with instructions for her to send the panties she had been wearing back by return. I knew where she worked, I knew that the chances of someone else finding out were remote, and I knew that if the worst came to the worst she'd be able to laugh it off.

Something as simple as making someone wear a certain type of underwear, while pretty "tame" in the scheme of things can act as a reminder.

The point I'm making is that a) I think it is possible to be a little bit kinky without risking any harm and b) that kinkiness doesn't need to be super hardcore to have the desired effect.

But... if you really like this sub, and if you think you might want to pursue a long term relationship with her then you'll be nodding your head vigorously at the other posts that have been made on this thread.

Killerangel's fucking rocked.



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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 12:15:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DaddyhasNeeds2

I have an online sub and I want to give her tasks to do at WORK.
She works at a hospital, what can I task her to do?



she works at a hospital?
By all means, task her with doing the most accurate and focused work that she can do.
Task her with serving everyone's needs with care and concern, to help where she is needed.

You'll be proud of her and she will do this for both of you.
Task her to improve herself.

Task her to think twice about allowing anyone to waste her time.

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 12:21:23 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: DaddyhasNeeds2

I have an online sub and I want to give her tasks to do at WORK.
She works at a hospital, what can I task her to do?

Why would you want to risk screwing around with her employment? Save the tasks for when she's not on the clock.

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 1:22:28 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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Can't and won't help you with this, OP. I don't screw around with anything career-related when it comes to those who submit to me. Im around to set my submissive up to succeed, NOT to screw around with their livelihood. Depending on this person's particular career within the hospital, you might also be screwing around with the health and well-being of sick patients who need their health care professionals bringing their A+ game to work...way more than you need to get your jollies.

If I was your submissive, Id tell you exactly where to go to and what to stick where the sun doesn't shine to get there if you proposed this task crap at work for me.

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 1:28:04 PM   
Kat713


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ORIGINAL: myotherself

Master gives me tasks to do at work (I work in a school).

I must do my best every day, and not let things get on top of me.

I'm to eat a healthy lunch every day, and no coffee. Herbal tea instead.

Three times a week I'm to go to the school's multigym after work and spend half an hour working out.

I'm to remember that ultimately, I represent him, so everything I do must be with the thought that if he could see what I was doing, he would approve of it.





Aww nice!

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 5:05:15 PM   
littlewonder


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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/30/2013 5:19:44 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		If you have to ask strangers to provide ideas for tasks your online sub can do at work, perhaps she is getting the short end of the stick in other areas.

We know nothing about you or your online sub ... what you both enjoy, dislike, etc. so how are we expected to assist you?

Best advice I can offer is do your own research.

< Message edited by MsLadySue -- 7/30/2013 5:21:45 PM >

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/31/2013 11:56:38 AM   
DaddyhasNeeds2


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much! She is under a lot of stress much more at home then at work. But now she has decided she wants to be a Daddy's girl.. which works out great for me as I am a Daddy Dom. She has sucked her thumb at work and she tells me it comforts her.. and soothes her mind. She doesn't work in an area where critical decisions have to be made.
Thank you again!

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/31/2013 1:18:40 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		Task list:
1-Get in car/boat/plane/bike/moped/ufo/alternate form of transport.
2-Get your happy ass over here to me.
3-Strip and drop to the knees.
4-Open,suck, swallow.
5-Repeat last instruction ad infinitum.

Sounds about right.Anything else, yeah, you missed the mark

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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/31/2013 6:37:37 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Well there's your first task....tell her to quit sucking her thumb.


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RE: Giving Tasks to an Online Sub - 7/31/2013 6:45:51 PM   
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Well there's your first task....tell her to quit sucking her thumb.



Hey now, LW!

If sucking her thumb while she's on a break comforts and soothes her, I say more power to the left and right! As a 54-year thumb sucker, if someone tried to take that from me I'd rip his head off. It soothes and comforts me too (and keeps my tongue VERY strong.) It costs nothing, does not make me fat, doesn't pollute the air, cause cancer, or contribute to the tobacco industry, and I even have a spare with me at all times. If someone sees me do it and doesn't like it, they can look the other way.

As to the OP: I'm with the folks above encouraging you to tell her to do the very best she can for her patients and co-workers, and to keep learning. Keep the kinky stuff away from the workplace.

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