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RE: Asking for a spanking - 8/3/2013 8:31:36 AM

Theredmusiclover

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Thank you everyone for your input! :). I've already spoken with him and told him how I've been feeling. Ill find out tonight just what he does with that and my asking for a spanking. I laid everything out to him and directly asked. I also told him I didn't know exactly what kind of spanking I need but I felt the need to ask him for one. Being new to all this Im not exactly sure what it is that im needing or expecting from the spanking. Its just something i can't seem to let go.

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RE: Asking for a spanking - 8/3/2013 8:33:26 AM

mnottertail

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You know what? You will work it out together, communication, communication, communication. Thats why they call it a relationship. Good one on ya, you did your bit, kiddo.

If the phone rings, and it's for me, I am not here.

And you can quote me.

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RE: Asking for a spanking - 8/3/2013 9:20:15 AM

cutiewithabootie

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I'm a masochist. So spankings are not especially great to use as a discipline for me. That being said I would simply ask for a spanking if I wanted one. I don't understand why submissives don't ask for what they want. Its not topping from the bottom. I feel its more manipulative to remain silent and expect the dominant to know what you want and then resent them when they don't know or don't provide an un spoken desire.

Also I like spankings for a variety of reasons. Maybe I feel bad. Maybe I am depressed or feel guilty over something.(I feel guilty about a lot of things from my past and its irrational)

I like spankings when I feel sexy or happy as well.

I love spankings in general and especially if I am depressed. A good spanking has a way of really chasing my blues away.

The worst that can happen is you ask the dominant and they say no.

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RE: Asking for a spanking - 8/3/2013 12:17:46 PM

littleone35

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Thr first time we played i asked my Master for a spanking a play one sice we both knew i had done nothing to deserve a punishment. A world of diference betwen pay an ounishment. Maybe he will say no, but i don'yt think that i likely. Good luck.

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