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RE: just blame the Dom/me - 8/6/2013 10:40:08 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Part of the problem is what some people "don't approve of".

That's true. Me, I don't expect anyone to act submissive toward me except for my own submissive. As for anyone else, I'm perfectly fine with being treated with decency. If someone were outright rude or obnoxious, then I would have a problem with it. But not being outright rude or obnoxious are things most human beings should have learned at their mother's 'knee. If they didn't, then they missed some important life lessons along the way.

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RE: just blame the Dom/me - 8/7/2013 8:12:06 PM

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No I've never been embarrassed by a partner in public. If I had I would never had been their partner in the first place.

If I embarrassed Master in public I wouldn't look at it as his fault. I would look at it as my own fault for being an idiot. As far as I know I've never embarrassed him but I don't think anything could ever embarrass him lol. Now he has laughed hysterically in public when I've pronounced something incorrectly or said something in my PA Dutch accent which he finds funny. If I did embarrass him I'm sure he would let me know and I would be in deep shit once we got home.

Thankfully though we're both pretty good about social cues and manners which is just one of the many things which we like about each other.

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RE: just blame the Dom/me - 8/8/2013 1:46:46 PM

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Additionally if a sub has no manners then I can damn near guarantee that either the dom wants her to say what he doesn't have the courage to, or more likely, he is equally mannerless.

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RE: just blame the Dom/me - 8/20/2013 5:03:25 PM

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I agree with the post about just because you find it "too much" doesn't mean the Dom/me does. I know certain things I do, for example act like a menu is the plague or sit on the same side in a booth, or walk behind a little,or not speak to men without permission could all seem rude, untrained, and maybe not too much but not enough to some but if it works for the Dom that's my focus. As for ne noticing, I'm often in my zone too much to notice if someone is behaving in my opinion. Its not my business when it comes to a public setting unkess its just outrageous then its on the Dom.

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RE: just blame the Dom/me - 8/20/2013 7:40:52 PM

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There are a lot of people who don't really engage in D/s. Just because someone is a bottom doesn't mean they're submissive. This could mean all sorts of things. Maybe their Dom wants them to behave this way. Or maybe it's their way of screaming at their partner that they need to take them in hand and Dominate them, but their partner isn't listening. There are many possibilities and no real way to tell what's what.

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