Dreamless -> RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? (10/25/2013 3:28:50 AM)
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Hmm, well, I do sweat more than my bestest friend in the universe (she's more pistachio than vanilla though, just that I'm birthday cake topped with black cherry compared), and my nostrils probably do flare on occasion. I tend to pop my lips when I'm annoyed rather than compress them, though I probably do that too. I absolutely do not cover my butt with denim (strictly skirts and anyone who argues can deal with me getting snippy about how femininity does not equal submissiveness), and I'm not entirely sure what shape my butt is. I'm pretty sure it's just butt shaped. My nose is small and apparently "perfect shaped" according to my councilor at Bible camp when I was 13, and how can I argue with that kind of wisdom. Also I do obsessively shave my armpits but only because of that sweating problem. So! Can I get that domme ID card now? I think there's room for it in my ass. As for the OP... I don't know, how can you tell you're not a domme? And are you looking for someone dominant? A top? A demanding bottom? A sadist? There are so many things that make people uniquely themselves. I don't ping as dominant at all. I giggle and I look fluffy and I'm a very good host who goes out of her way to keep people happy and oh yeah I get my rocks off by smacking people and scratching their backs raw and so on and so forth. Some people who are looking for 'dominants' want 'sadistic', some people just want demanding bitches of true glory, some people are do-me subs who really just want a sub who will top them to their wishes and the only way to find out what you are and what your target is are to, oh, I dunno, communicate, learn, watch, read, know what you want so you can clearly communicate it or be willing to screw around and figure out what you don't want by trial and error. It's not like there's a handy dandy list of traits up there in the posts above me for your convenience. It's not like I really have a whip and an ID card in my ass verifying my sexual preferences. It's not like there aren't subs who wear heels and tight skirts made out of pleather. If there were color coded preference bars above people's heads with their HP, MP, fetishes, sexuality, gender ID, life might be easier but it would be way less fun. Personally, I'd carry around a whip. If when you smack her ass with it, she rips it out of your hands and beats you black and blue, congratulations! You've discovered a domme! You might even get a chance to throw a pokeball at her before you get knocked out. :D
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