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Ballbusting - 6/29/2006 1:41:16 PM

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BallBusing, CBT - Who enjoys doing it, receiving it? Why

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/29/2006 1:55:41 PM

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BallBusing, CBT - Who enjoys doing it, receiving it? Why

Ballbusting is just-wrong,. probably explains why I never married.

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/29/2006 3:02:29 PM

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Raises My hand. Imma hammer and nailer and saline solution bag and needle user.
I have scapels and knifes and razors and enjoy performing splits and scarring. And
I enjoy testing Tesla's notions about um errr lasers, electric, explosives and what not.
All My LT male slaves wear locks thru their penus heads and collars around their shaft and balls.
Well those who have such bodily items. Course Im not against a heal stratigically placed
below either.
Why ? It brings Me pleasure when I seek pleasure. It brings Me Power when I seek Power.
It brings feelings to others that those others seek and desire.

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probably explains why I never married

Im sure there are other reasons why You have never married Caretakr, Stop tempting to blame such onna ballbuster.

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/29/2006 3:27:08 PM

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Up to now i have done very light CBT but that dose not mean i do not want to go farther. There are things that interest me that i would love to try though i am not to sure on cuttings and such done there but have lattly been thinking about plugs, sounds and maybe percings.

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/29/2006 3:36:33 PM

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<shudders and crosses My legs>

Never have understood the attraction of doing or receiving cbt. I know how much it hurts to get racked... lol.

If it works for you, have fun!

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/29/2006 3:52:05 PM

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Ball Busing?

I think that is when you seperate the balls and drive them to different dungeons.

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/29/2006 5:56:31 PM

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I, for one, greatly enjoy receiving CBT (although ball busting is probably correctly defined as a species, or subset, of CBT, it might help to clarify how you're using the term).

The reasons are multiple. First, for those with an attraction to the masochistic elements of D/s play, nothing walks the line between pain and pleasure quite so finely as expertly performed CBT. A skillful Domme can alternatively create waves of erotic pleasure that leave you in goosebumps, and cause intense erotic pain that makes your entire body convulse.

Second, there's a psychological aspect to CBT that, for me, greatly enhances the submissive experience. I think most men consider their cock and balls to be their most protected possessions, their best friend and secret weapon, so to speak. Have that heart of hearts suddenly taken captive by your Domme, and left vulnerable and helpless to her wicked ministrations, emphasizes one's submissive position.

Third, CBT can safely approximate castration anxieties, and that is a fully-loaded dynamic in and of itself, with multiple implications in a D/s context.

Fourth, CBT lends itself to very creative "mini-bondage" aesthetics, which can be both physically and psychologically stimulating.

I'm sure others have additional reasons for enjoying such play.

The term "ball busting" is a bit ambiguous, and probably lends itself to some misinterpretation. Taken literally, it would constitute unsafe, and probably unduly painful, conduct.

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/29/2006 6:40:47 PM

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What do you mean by "ball busting"??

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/30/2006 8:02:08 PM

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And who enjoys administering CBT, and why?

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/30/2006 8:03:25 PM

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I tried to remember what and where I read an article on the subject. To most, atleast on the enternet, ballbusting involves little more than kicking the guy in his nuts.

To others, whom I've talked to over a couple of years. Ballbusting involves the manual squeezing of the balls until the guy passes out from the pain. Most of your hardcore, serious, entusiasts claim to prefere manual squeezing over kicking for two reasons. First being if you catch a testicule between the pelvic bone and the kickers knee or foot a testicular rupture will occure. Followed by potential legal and medical complications. With manual squeezing the mistress can control the level of intensity thus prolonging the event as she pleases. When the mistress decides the give the cu-de-gras she squeezes even harder untill he passes out from the pain. Only when the guy getting busted passes out, are the balls considered as being busted.

A video I saw some time back had a guy on his hands and knees while a pro grabbed hold of him from behind tied his balls, separating each so she could get a firm grip without them shooting out from between her fingers. She squeezed, he squeeled and howled for several minutes, then passed out face down on her dungeon floor.

The O.P. was, in my guess, thinking of ball kicking. Seems to be the most prevalent theme on the internet.

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/30/2006 8:16:21 PM

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BallBusing, CBT - Who enjoys doing it, receiving it? Why

There is a fascinating dynamic about cbt in general and ball busting in its various forms in particular.
These charming bits of flesh, which so many of us were brought up to believe were amazingly delicate and to be treated with utmost care and respect, are, in fact, capable of taking the most delicious amounts of pain and mistreatment.
Sometimes I wonder if some of my pleasure in dishing it out doesn't stem from years of trying to behave like a "nice girl" ... oh what a shocking waste of time.
All I know now is that while one does have to be cognizant of the ways in which one can damage, sometimes irreparably, human tissue, there are dozens of ways to administer pain and temporary "damage" that just makes me smile and smile...
So I guess the answers to the question would be, respectively, Me, my subs and for the reasons given above.
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RE: Ballbusting - 6/30/2006 9:02:11 PM

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ok Im such a nebie... and I fell so so so so stupid but what CBT??

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/30/2006 9:13:01 PM

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ok Im such a nebie... and I fell so so so so stupid but what CBT??

Cock Ball Torture, I believe. Not my thing by galaxies of space.

It's where you physically torture the genitals of a man. From what I understand.

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/30/2006 9:20:22 PM

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CBT is Cock and Ball Torture (or Torment some say).
Simply, it is just one of the most delightful pastimes in the universe (for those so inclined either as givers and receivers) and can include literally any way a person can think of to cause varying levels of pain and discomfort to the male genitalia.
And there is never anything stupid about asking questions when one is hoping to learn. It is, in fact, a very smart thing to do.
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RE: Ballbusting - 6/30/2006 9:33:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101

I, for one, greatly enjoy receiving CBT (although ball busting is probably correctly defined as a species, or subset, of CBT, it might help to clarify how you're using the term).

The reasons are multiple. First, for those with an attraction to the masochistic elements of D/s play, nothing walks the line between pain and pleasure quite so finely as expertly performed CBT. A skillful Domme can alternatively create waves of erotic pleasure that leave you in goosebumps, and cause intense erotic pain that makes your entire body convulse.

Second, there's a psychological aspect to CBT that, for me, greatly enhances the submissive experience. I think most men consider their cock and balls to be their most protected possessions, their best friend and secret weapon, so to speak. Have that heart of hearts suddenly taken captive by your Domme, and left vulnerable and helpless to her wicked ministrations, emphasizes one's submissive position.

Third, CBT can safely approximate castration anxieties, and that is a fully-loaded dynamic in and of itself, with multiple implications in a D/s context.

Fourth, CBT lends itself to very creative "mini-bondage" aesthetics, which can be both physically and psychologically stimulating.

I'm sure others have additional reasons for enjoying such play.

The term "ball busting" is a bit ambiguous, and probably lends itself to some misinterpretation. Taken literally, it would constitute unsafe, and probably unduly painful, conduct.

Regards, ATP

Great post.

BB and CBT are both a love of Mine; mostly because: it is an activity that allows for unique total control over a male. This area being particularly vulnerable to sensations sensual or sadistic, there is little else that can strike such fear into a man's heart as the sudden overtaking and impending torture of his manhood....literally.

I have laughed so hard during particularly intense playtimes that I've had to dry My eyes. I find it incredibly amusing, and thus: irresistible.

~Thea

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RE: Ballbusting - 6/30/2006 9:43:25 PM

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BallBusing, CBT - Who enjoys doing it, receiving it? Why

It's a bit of a conundrum for me...when it's been done to me I've never been able to complete the mental and emotional contrast inside my hayud that goes something along these lines: "Please stop...I may have to kill you....marry me dammit!"

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 10:46:05 AM

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Let's see if I can contribute a bit to this thread

Why do I like having my balls busted?

Well there are several reasons really. The first is about power exchange. When I offer my privates up to a woman I am giving her the power to do as she will with me. I am giving her the ability to drop me to my knees if she so pleases. I love when a woman is in control of me. I enjoy submitting to her; and for me, offering her my balls is one of the greatest forms of submission.

I like the fact that it is taboo. Spankings and the like seem almost commonplace and ordinary. BallBusting certainly isn't. Most people don't understand the fascination. Some people aren't even fully aware of what's involved. I like that.

I also admit that I enjoy the feeling that spreads through my stomach when I'm kicked or punched in the nuts. It used to make me nauseous, but with time I actually look forward to that feeling.

I like the fact that my balls may be sore or black and blue for days after a session. What better way to remind me that I was thoroughly used by a woman. It's like feeling the residual effects of a really hard spanking or whipping, but focused right in your privates.

I have a serious foot fetish and getting kicked in the nuts is the ultimate culmination of that. What could be better than massaging a woman's feet, giving her a pedicure, buying her a pair of shoes, and then being rewarded for your efforts with a gut-wrenching kick from those very same feet!

It's not easy finding someone willing to bust your balls. Even a pro-domme friend of mine who specializes in pain won't do it. She just isn't into it. If you find a woman willing to do it, hold onto her by any means necessary!!!

I hope this helps!

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 12:23:16 PM

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That's a great post amd I think you summed it up for a lot of subs who are into this kind of kink.

For me it is definitely the power...I am the type of guy who is always in control of everything I do. Letting control go and having a woman administer CBT is great because sometimes you can't help but fall to your knees moaning. I've broken bones before and had more composure than when I was squeezed or kicked.

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 1:17:12 PM

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