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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 6:05:15 PM   
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While doing cbt appeals to me, bb doesn't............I would need to do some serious research if I were to remotely consider it.  ( then again, research is my standard response to most activities/aspects.

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 8:01:27 PM   
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CBT in the form of clamps, light flogging, "entrapment devices", even electro-shock, that's alright. Some of these may even be "torture" with little or no hope of me being physically aroused. They work fine for mental and psychological effect, however.

But the thought of a full out dropkick makes me want to hurl. No good can come of this.

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 8:21:53 PM   
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I'm a sadist not a masochist. My own pain does absolutely nothing for me. That said, you better know damn well what you're doing - it is physically possible to permanently 'break' a penis, by causing ruptures in the tissue. Likewise, the testes themselves are highly sensitive to physical and thermal changes, and can be permanently damaged rendering a man incapable of fathering children should he wish to later on. I'm not a fan of body piercing, and this extends to any kind of piercing of genetalia, though I'll tolerate nipple piercings, thats about it.


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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 9:13:47 PM   
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Friggen hell that sounds painful. Even if done in a safe sane and consensual way it is craaaaaaaazy.... Kicks in the balls are inhumane, and anyone doing the kicking is selfish jerks who don't care for anything except themselves. It's part of some concerted campaign to demean men. It's some how seen as cool and "in" to insult, demean and assault men physcially and which can permanently damage him. I can't believe you aren't detained already by a mental hospital for even asking! Please for the good of the human race, check yourself in at the nearest mental hospital. DON"T do it! It's wrong on every level. I dont find it comical or anything else. You could really do some serious damage. BE CAREFUL!

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 9:22:05 PM   
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Friggen hell that sounds painful. Even if done in a safe sane and consensual way it is craaaaaaaazy.... Kicks in the balls are inhumane, and anyone doing the kicking is selfish jerks who don't care for anything except themselves. It's part of some concerted campaign to demean men. It's some how seen as cool and "in" to insult, demean and assault men physcially and which can permanently damage him. I can't believe you aren't detained already by a mental hospital for even asking! Please for the good of the human race, check yourself in at the nearest mental hospital. DON"T do it! It's wrong on every level. I dont find it comical or anything else. You could really do some serious damage. BE CAREFUL!


Well that's just a bit judgemental, don't you think.  Just because it's not something that interests you doesn't make it wrong for someone else.  A lot of people are into extreme pain and humiliation. 

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/10/2007 9:35:34 PM   
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Dont I dont think. Now go put on some makeup,
my eyes hurt from just thinking about the ball busting. Stay away from it.

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 4:53:25 AM   
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quote:

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Dont I dont think. Now go put on some makeup,
my eyes hurt from just thinking about the ball busting. Stay away from it.


Didn't you have a lot to say about personal attacks on the machismo thread??
Guess you don't practice what you preach. 
Once again...just because it's not something that you're into doesn't mean that there aren't a lot of people who are and who actively search it out.

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 6:03:47 AM   
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Let's see if I can contribute a bit to this thread

Why do I like having my balls busted?

Well there are several reasons really.  The first is about power exchange.  When I offer my privates up to a woman I am giving her the power to do as she will with me.  I am giving her the ability to drop me to my knees if she so pleases.  I love when a woman is in control of me. I enjoy submitting to her; and for me, offering her my balls is one of the greatest forms of submission.

I like the fact that it is taboo.  Spankings and the like seem almost commonplace and ordinary.  BallBusting certainly isn't. Most people don't understand the fascination.  Some people aren't even fully aware of what's involved.  I like that.

I also admit that I enjoy the feeling that spreads through my stomach when I'm kicked or punched in the nuts.  It used to make me nauseous, but with time I actually look forward to that feeling.

I like the fact that my balls may be sore or black and blue for days after a session. What better way to remind me that I was thoroughly used by a woman.  It's like feeling the residual effects of a really hard spanking or whipping, but focused right in your privates.

I have a serious foot fetish and getting kicked in the nuts is the ultimate culmination of that.  What could be better than massaging a woman's feet, giving her a pedicure, buying her a pair of shoes, and then being rewarded for your efforts with a gut-wrenching kick from those very same feet!

It's not easy finding someone willing to bust your balls. Even a pro-domme friend of mine who specializes in pain won't do it.  She just isn't into it.  If you find a woman willing to do it, hold onto her by any means necessary!!!

I hope this helps!




Omg! This was so beautiful..........*shazaam*
I love BB.


The TPE......and to see a man get harder and harder while having his BBed is very sexy.
This subject brings out that lovely fierce fire in Me.
It's all such fun. I am eager to do this at least once a week.


I have very few hard limits. Open to needle play, injections, etc. My mind is running amok because of this delicious thread and the sexy things many of you have shared.


The combination of BB and foot worship makes me positively HOT.  What this does to my body while reading this........Where oh where fore art thou, my BB sub?

Fantastic!

Irish


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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 6:42:07 AM   
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One thing I'm really suprised about is how many people on this site seem to be close minded to this.  Maybe I'm too much of a freak and into my kink, but I have been researching BB for at least 7 years.  I have read reports of how to do it correctly and how to not do it.  It seems to me that a lot of people don't research this enough, yet have big opinions. 
I'm never going to say that it isn't possible to perminantly damage someone with a kick to the balls.  However, in the last few years I have not read of one experience where someone was perminantly damaged in play(an I haver looked for it tons of times).  Sure, I have read a few where attackers/rapests where sent to the hospital, but that is someone who is fighting for their life who is doing the kicking. 
I have to say from my own experiences that I have been kicked a ton of times.  I can also say that I have had a baby recently...
While many journals definitely state that being hit in the testicles can lead to damage, I have read no scientific evidence to link up testicle trauma with fertility.  I guess it would be hard to find test subjects for that though...LOL

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 6:43:28 AM   
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Mistress Irish,

I am extremely honored that you liked my posting.  I was having a pretty rotten day up until now, but just knowing that I was able to please you in some small manner while over 3000 miles away from you makes me extremely happy! Thank You!

In honored service,

John

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 6:50:13 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: QueensWay

Friggen hell that sounds painful. Even if done in a safe sane and consensual way it is craaaaaaaazy.... Kicks in the balls are inhumane, and anyone doing the kicking is selfish jerks who don't care for anything except themselves. It's part of some concerted campaign to demean men. It's some how seen as cool and "in" to insult, demean and assault men physcially and which can permanently damage him. I can't believe you aren't detained already by a mental hospital for even asking! Please for the good of the human race, check yourself in at the nearest mental hospital. DON"T do it! It's wrong on every level. I dont find it comical or anything else. You could really do some serious damage. BE CAREFUL!


Milady, I would love to be able to sway your opinion in this matter.  I have a lot of experience as a recipient of this type of humiliation and I have a lot of informative literature and video on it as well.  It isn't for everyone, but if I may be so bold as to say that it isn't the great evil that you are making it out to be.  I will gladly make myself available to you as a source of information on this topic should it please you.



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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 8:03:37 AM   
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quote:

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Mistress Irish,

I am extremely honored that you liked my posting.  I was having a pretty rotten day up until now, but just knowing that I was able to please you in some small manner while over 3000 miles away from you makes me extremely happy! Thank You!

In honored service,

John

You're quite welcome and I am sure that the pain slut/friend I am seeing this weekend will appreciate the fierce Goddess energy you helped to create!
(wink)
 
ps: I have a best domme friend here who made a video she shared with me. I got it home and watched it 4 times non-stop. She laughed her butt off when she called hrs later and I was still watching.
 
Please take a little time and share your links and good info here on this thread needsballsbusted.
 
hsspode, will you share also?
 
Thanks,
Miss Irish

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 9:34:39 AM   
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Mistress Irish,

Here is a fantastic resource updated weekly!

http://www.aragornsfeetlinks.com/pagesUS/NewSites.html



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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 9:51:19 AM   
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Some of the sites I often visit are:

www.maxfisch.com   This is a Pro-Domme site with a forum that is very active.  You can ask questions of both Dommes and Subs and get some very good answers.

www.femaledom.com  is pretty much a pay site that caters to trampling and ballbusting.  It does have a forum though for people to express different views and fantasies.  This one you will have to weed out the BS'ers a little more but still a good sorce of info if you are looking to learn

www.allstardoms.com is also another site mainly run by Pro-Dommes, however there is a good forum where you can ask questions of knowledgable people. 

For some examples of what ballbusting is:   www.ballbustingworld.com  www.kramtoad.com (warning...M/m and F/m here.)  www.ballbustinggirls.com 

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 12:36:20 PM   
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This is how it all started for me.  My obsession with BallBusting began a little over ten years ago....
 
when I was 29 and my girlfriend Lisa and I left Pennsylvania for the beach on a Saturday and had a nice relaxing trip down to Delaware. We stayed in a friend's condo only a block from the beach. The first night was just a casual night. We took a long walk on the boardwalk and ate all kinds of things that we shouldn't have such as funnel cake and taffy. It was very enjoyable. When we got back to the condo we started messing around and wound up making love for several hours. We fell asleep in each other’s arms and I seem to remember her whispering something like..."You're in trouble tomorrow..."
“Why was I in trouble?” I wondered.

I had a particularly long week and was really tired so I wound up sleeping in the next day. Lisa had already been up for a few hours when I rolled out of bed and headed towards the bathroom. On my way in she stopped me, held out an empty baby food jar and said, "Don't bother coming out of the bathroom until there's a load of cum in this jar."

I looked at her oddly, took the jar and went into the bathroom. Once finished using the facilities I proceeded to stroke my cock. It didn't take me long to orgasm and I shot a huge wad of cum into the jar. I walked out of the bathroom; and proud of myself, handed her the jar. She took the lid, screwed it on, and put the jar in the refrigerator.
I asked her what the hell she wanted with a jar of cum and she answered, “It’s time we take our relationship to the next level.” 
“What do you mean?” I asked a bit confused.
“Well the only things that seem to turn you on anymore are getting tied up and getting spanked. She said. “You keep begging me to be your “mistress”, so I’ve decided that I will be.  I don’t think you’re going to like it though. In fact, after this week is over I’d be surprised if you’ll ever ask me again.”
I looked at her, instantly turned on at the prospect of being her slave.
Seeing how turned on I was by the idea she smiled and told me that she had bought some new clothes for me and that she had laid them out on the bed. I found this odd since I always do all my own shopping, but we were on vacation so I figured she wanted to surprise me with something. When I walked into the bedroom and saw the clothes on the bed, however, a sinking feeling settled into the pit of my stomach and I just stared dumbly at them.

"I'm not wearing that" I said as I looked at a classic schoolgirl outfit complete with a matching lacy bra and panty set as well as some white thigh highs.

Lisa came around in front of me and said, "Oh yes you are!" as she grabbed my shoulders and put her knee hard into my balls.

"You're going to do anything I fucking want!”

Barely able to stand I managed to choke out “What the fuck did you do that for! Goddammit!”
Another knee to my balls followed and I nearly fell over.
“I’m not fucking playing around John! Put on the fucking clothes!”
“But I don’t want to wear girl shit” I said in a barely audible whisper.

"That's the idea!" she said. "I'm going to make you do everything you said you would never do! Now put it all on, except the thigh-highs. I'm not ready for you to wear them yet."

I walked over to the bed but I guess I hesitated too long because she came up behind me and almost dropped me to my knees with a well-placed kick to my nuts. "Come on bitch!" she said, "Put your fucking clothes on. I want to watch you get dressed!"

Trying to catch my breath I stripped out of my boxers and grabbed the panties. I’d never been kicked or kneed in the balls before and I decided I didn’t like it. I felt like I needed to vomit. 

Now I’m not into the whole cross-dressing thing and she knows how much I absolutely hate the idea, but as I slid the lacy panties on, I couldn’t help but get hard knowing that she was watching me. She noticed too and started in on me.

“It looks to me like you like the idea of wearing panties!" She said. “Are you a faggot John?"

Now she normally doesn’t use that word because many of our friends are gay and we have no tolerance for gay-bashing, but I guess she wanted to use it to degrade me and; well, it worked.

I blushed as I reached for the bra and she knew that she had succeeded with her choice of words. I was truly embarrassed.

I couldn’t get the bra clasped and the more I fumbled around with it the harder she laughed.

“Turn it around so that the clasp is in the front. Fasten it in the front and then turn it around and put your arms through."

With my newfound knowledge of how to put a bra on, it wasn’t long before I was successful. Standing before her in my bra and panty set, Lisa whistled at me and said “Here, I have something for you."
Reaching into a bag she pulled out a bunch of socks and told me to stuff my bra with them.

"You’ve got to be kidding!" I said.

Wham! She gave me another hard kick to my nuts and this time I went down hard.

“When are you going to get it? I own you this week fucker. You’re going to be my little whore. Now get up, stuff your fucking bra and put your skirt and blouse on. Now!"

I tried to stand. I really did, but I couldn’t get up.

“Goddamit!" she said as she grabbed my hair and forced me to my feet. “When did you become such a fucking pussy!"

With my knees wobbling I grabbed the skirt and put it on, nearly falling over while balancing on one foot to try and get my second leg in the damn thing. As soon as I had it on and zippered, I immediately went for the blouse. I didn’t want to give her another reason to kick me.

A short while later I had everything on but the thigh-highs. Surprisingly everything actually fit. I wonder how she figured out what size women’s clothing to buy?
Running her eyes down my body, Lisa said “Wow, you really look like a cheap whore and we don’t even have make-up or a wig on you yet!"

I shuddered at the thought of having to wear make-up. Just how far was she going to take this?  I hated the idea of wearing women's clothing and I still do to this day.

“OK" She said. “I’m going to lay out the week for you. You are my bitch. You’re a worthless fucking cunt. You will do anything I ask you to do without question and you exist for my pleasure only. However, since I’m a generous person I’ve decided to use our vacation this week to teach you what it’s like to be a woman so that you can better understand the unique challenges women face. Your lessons will be diverse, but ultimately they will focus on your pussy. Now before you say something stupid like “I don’t have a pussy" and I have to beat you down again, I’m referring to your asshole."

As she said “asshole" I groaned inwardly and involuntarily clenched my ass. I could only imagine what she had in mind. One thing was for sure though; I knew it wasn’t going to be pleasant for me.

“Do you understand what I just said?" she asked with one eyebrow slightly raised.
I nodded my head and said “Yes.""

“Good!" She said with a smile. “Now sit down on the bed. I want to watch you try to paint your toenails!"

I guess I shouldn’t have rolled my eyes because the next thing I knew she had my belt in her hands. "Bend over now!" she commanded. "You’re going to learn to respect me this week if it kills you!"

Feeling kind of lucky that she hadn’t kicked me in the balls again I turned around and bent over the bed.

"Pull your panties down bitch and stick your ass out!" She said angrily.

I pulled my panties down around my knees and stuck my ass out as requested. A brief moment later a searing pain shot across my ass as the thick leather of my own belt bit into it. Stoically, I endured the blow and was rewarded with another one. “Damn that hurt!" I thought, but I kept my mouth shut.

“I’m not going to stop until I make you cry like a little girl!" she said as she wound up and gave me another hard one across the ass.

I was fine for maybe the first 10 lashes, but then my ass was on fire. To make matters worse; and I still I don’t know if this was intentional or not, every now and then the belt would snake across my lower back or across my bare balls hanging helplessly between my legs. When that happened I couldn’t help but cry out in pain. Of course that only enticed her to hit me again. I don’t know how many times she whipped my ass but I was to the point where I couldn’t take it anymore. I begged her to stop, but she wouldn’t have any of it.

“Not until you cry like a little girl." she said.

Blow after blow rained down on my ass but she wasn't getting her desired result. There was absolutely no way I was going to cry.  Realizing this, she started purposely whipping my nuts instead.  Screaming in pain I tried to get away but she stopped me with another hard kick to the balls. I dropped to my knees, my body bent over the bed while I tried to stand back up. Never had I been this helpless. I honestly couldn’t regain my footing.  I never thought she’d take things this far.  I’d never been in so much pain before and I couldn’t believe that she was being so harsh and cold.  I think it was that thought that finally saved me; because it wasn’t long after thinking it that tears started welling up in my eyes and after a few more lashes I was visibly sobbing.

“There’s my girl!" she said softly, perhaps realizing for the first time just how far she had pushed things as she looked down at my purple welted ass and my swollen bruised balls, which I could see in the large mirrors that covered the entire wall of the bedroom.

She sat down next to me and held me for a moment and then when I stopped crying she told me to lay on my back. I did as she asked and she stripped out of her clothes. A moment later she planted her pussy hard on my face, grabbed my hair and said “Eat it bitch!"

With my face buried in her pussy I couldn’t respond verbally so I just threw myself into the task at hand. It was amazing how wet she was. Her pussy was soaked! Evidently giving me my whipping had worked her into a frenzy.

With no more time to think about it, I sucked her lips into my mouth and parted them with my tongue. I stuck my tongue deep into her hole and worked it around, licking at a feverish pace. She continued to juice in my mouth and I found myself having to swallow it just to keep up. I slowly worked my way up towards her clit, teasing her the entire time by gently flicking my tongue while I bit down softly on her labia. As I got closer to her clit she was moaning and gyrating on my face and I gave up all hope of continued teasing. Giving her what she wanted, I sucked her further into my mouth and started working her clit with my tongue. I put the tip of my tongue under her clit and pushed the flat part of my tongue onto it, cradling it between the sides of my tongue and sliding up and down on it. I was rewarded with another gush of juice and I grabbed her legs to control her gyrations while I started working her clit with the tip of my tongue before sucking it into my mouth with my lips curled over my teeth so that I could bite down on it without hurting her and then I started sucking and licking it harder than ever. It wasn’t long before she came, her orgasm crashing over her wave after wave, covering me in her sticky wet juices. After she was finished cumming, she fell away exhausted.

After a few minutes, she sat up, smiled and asked me, “Are you ready to paint your toenails now bitch?"

With my bruised ass, balls, and cum-covered face as testaments to the fact that I was totally defeated and humiliated, I hung my head low and said “Yes, anything you want. I’m your bitch."

"Good!" She said. "Because in a little while I’m going to fuck your ass with a strap-on and then squirt your own cum up your hole with a turkey baster!"
I shuddered at the thought, but knew that I had no choice in the matter.  It was going to be a very long week...

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 5:36:56 PM   
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So far I've had several people ask me to write about the rest of the week.  Since there is interest, I will gladly do so.

Thanks!

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 9:46:14 PM   
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I LOVE all forms of cbt-why-the sadist in me gets wet when I inflict pain, tying a set of balls tight and attaching to the toes or putting them in a humbler and watching the poor soul try to walk around provides endless hours of entertainment and the hard on that a cbt slut gets as I am piercing, squeezing, flogging, crushing, kicking, slapping gives me a very intense rush of power-a boy with a hard on can be talked into doing almost anything.......

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 11:17:45 PM   
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BB is a regular happening in my houshold.......she loves to do it and thats reason enough in my book

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RE: Ballbusting - 10/11/2007 11:48:25 PM   
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I do. >:-)


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RE: Ballbusting - 11/8/2007 8:22:49 AM   
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Thanks so much for the links hsspode and needsballsbusted!
 
Irish
 

 
 

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