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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 8/21/2013 9:17:42 AM   
ARIES83


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Rule:
If you were, and if my future wife - in the unlikely case that I ever will have a wife - agrees, I would consider myself blessed if she decided to make love to you and to bear ME your child.
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ARIES83:
Well that's not going to happen, I'd never trust anyone to raise my children but me...
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Rule:
It would not be your child. It would be the Divine's gift to ME. You would be inconsequential, being a mere instrument of the Divine.

Well whatever the case, the divine will have to gift you someone else's baby gravy, because mine isn't going anywhere near your future wife.
I don't as a rule, produce children indiscriminately...

Toysinbabeland,
Sorry that arrangement is to convoluted for me, but I hope you and rule will be very happy together.


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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 8/21/2013 9:18:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Toysinbabeland


I have a cousin whose wife won't let him see his own kids because she left with them three years ago across the country.
He sees them twice a year.


The Mister's ex wife left him, remarried, and took his daughter across the country. He got a court order for her return. So she moved back, an hour away from him. He moved closer to them, putting himself an hour and a half from work, so he could be an active part of his daughter's life.

I was impressed by that.

There are solutions, just not easy ones.


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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 8/21/2013 9:32:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: Toysinbabeland


I have a cousin whose wife won't let him see his own kids because she left with them three years ago across the country.
He sees them twice a year.


The Mister's ex wife left him, remarried, and took his daughter across the country. He got a court order for her return. So she moved back, an hour away from him. He moved closer to them, putting himself an hour and a half from work, so he could be an active part of his daughter's life.

I was impressed by that.

There are solutions, just not easy ones.


Thanks, he has been working on that for a few months now.
it is encouraging to hear that it worked.

Aries:
But,But,But.....




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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 8/21/2013 9:34:54 AM   
NuevaVida


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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 8/21/2013 9:53:14 AM   
Toysinbabeland


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I just wanted to say that I'm not really against a his ex wife.
I get her, I just watch him heartbroken because he can't see his kids.
again, I kind of wish that he just kept his mouth shut.
But it's not my life.


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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 8/21/2013 10:05:48 AM   
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cloudboy Post 87: I have a libertarian view of relationships, and as such no one is ever cheating on me. They are just doing what they need to do. The question really is, do my partners want to be with me? Lucky for my partners, it's not all about me and no one else, ever. That's not how I roll. What's funny is having that expectation (it's all about me and no one else, ever) and then being "shocked," "hurt," and "betrayed" that your partner has other interests.

Interesting historical note: The founder of the 1848 Oneida NY religious & sex commune (John H Noyes) fervently preached against the self-centric monogamous expectation that you speak of. The pejorative term he coined for that human flaw was "The Claiming Spirit". Parishioners were to continually seek to overcome it.

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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 9/13/2013 8:42:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

I'm defining a cheater as someone who has agreed to be in a monogamous relationship and who lies to his/her spouse or partner or girl/boyfriend about who they have sex with. I am also including those who go behind the person's back and though they don't tell outright lies, they lie by omission.

What I think about cheaters has been well documented by my posts, but I'll restate that to me it means the person is lacking in personal integrity to a high degree. I think this b/c the person is not just lying to their spouse or partner or girl/boyfriend, but to them self. To cheat (to me) means you are very unhappy, but you don't have the guts to own up to it.

This is my opinion, what is yours?




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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 9/14/2013 7:31:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
Cheaters cheat.


I sometimes I wish I knew the cheat codes for life. Just a few keystrokes to invincibility (or 250,000 gold, depending on which code you use).

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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 9/15/2013 6:44:23 PM   
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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 9/15/2013 6:50:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		i despise cheaters... they are the lower form of life... ... if they cant be truthful to their s/o how are they expected to be truthful to others

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RE: What do *YOU* think about cheaters? And why? - 9/15/2013 11:34:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		these typeo f threads never turn out well. there's a tono f vitrole against cheaters. me amongst them.

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