TigressLily
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I met one disciplinarian before and she said to me that she is wired in such a way that she is really obsessed with male ass and giving spanking, I can feel that she wanted to develop relationship and finally she married to a man she met. I met another disciplinarian she also gets very excited in spanking me and even got 'after flow' in doing it. They might be not norm bu exceptions.
I guess every person is wired differently.
Any Domme can be a disciplinarian, but I'd like to make the distinction between the lower case "d" and upper case "D" of Disciplinarian. You may have a valid point about the spanking and male ass association on the part of both Domme and sub, by the way. Let me provide the 2 most cogent examples I can think of, both involving Pro-Dommes whose specialty was that of Disciplinarian.
Ex.#1: Over the course of a couple weeks, I found out the following about a sub I later interviewed in person. He had been regularly hiring a Strict Disciplinarian (as she referred to herself) to administer hour-long beatings with a leather strap & paddles across his ass, ordinarily while he was buck naked standing against a wall. He had a wooden domination bench he would also bend over, while his wrists were secured by metal rungs. She gave this to him when she retired a few years afterwards. He only admitted the extent of his anal-erotic kinks when I commented on one of the photos he showed me, "Boy, somebody really did a number on you!" He was with another provider who specialized in using strap-ons but never got to fully complete his dilation training. (Have no idea how she referred to herself.) He was also into OTK-Over the Knee spankings, but I determined he was not D/s relationship material, so thus ended our contact.
Ex.#2: A sub who had a Phone Mistress for 8 years was instructed by her to go out and hire a Domme who specialized in administering discipline ("Disciplinarian") for hour-long OTK sessions. She did not provide the anal penetration services he wanted, however. (Oh well, back to using his trusty vibrator on himself.)
My personal opinion is that this is a professional designation for a BDSM specialty, and as such, a provider can charge more for her services than a regular Pro-Domme does. I could be mistaken. Regardless of the perceived necessity for the services of a Dominatrix, my other assessment is that once submissive males start becoming fetish and/or kink menu-driven in this regard, they get ruined for any kind of REAL relationship in the real world, in real life with a real/non-fantasy inspired image of what it means to be in an intimate relationship with a Dominant female. . . . But that's for another forum discussion.
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