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orgasmdenial12 -> RE: MBTI Personality Type and BDSM Role (12/27/2013 10:30:49 AM)
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl
ENFJ and Domme.
Your personality type: ENFJ.
Strength of individual traits: E - 18%, N - 16%, F - 36%, J - 42%.
Extroverted
Expressive, outgoing, prefer group activities, eager to speak their minds, more comfortable when around other people than when alone, get energized by social interaction.
iNtuitive
Introspective, rely on their imagination, absorbed in ideas, focus on what might happen.
Feeling
Sensitive, follow their hearts, keep feelings close to the surface, focus on harmony and cooperation.
Judging
Decisive, prefer clear rules and guidelines, eager to commit, see deadlines as sacred, seek closure.
ENFJs are usually very charismatic and eloquent, finding it natural and easy to communicate their ideas and opinions......they instinctively know how to combine passion and rational arguments, drawing the audience’s attention and reaching every mind....ENFJ personalities are very intuitive. They find it easy to sense other people’s motives and find connections between seemingly unrelated events. ENFJs also tend to be quite good at analyzing their own feelings and questioning them if necessary.
On the other hand, such intuitiveness and sensitivity can also cause significant difficulties for people with this personality type – they may be too altruistic and empathic, getting too involved in other people’s problems, and then finding it difficult to detach and stop worrying. In extreme cases, this can even affect the ENFJs’ perception of themselves. ENFJs are optimistic idealists, often trusting other people more than they should – although this usually turns out to be a self-fulfilling prophecy. As already mentioned above, ENFJs can be very convincing and inspiring. People are drawn towards strong personalities and the ENFJ’s charisma can often be a uniting and motivating factor.
This explains to me why I hate chaos and love to have definite rules and guidelines to go by....and I absolutely hate to be late or miss a deadline. I love group activities and love to get involved with getting new things going. I do a good chunk of volunteering. My friends say I have this weird ability to know just why someone is thinking what they are, what their motives are, and how they're feeling.
NBMG
ENFJ and sub.
I think the problem with personality types and BDSM is that there doesn't necessarily have to be any overlap between the way a person naturally is, and the way it turns them on to be.
It's not what you've got, it's what you do with it that counts.
od xxx
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