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Do not waste my time! - 8/20/2013 4:38:37 AM

MissKittyDeVine

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I see this a lot in FD profiles, and I can't help thinking that they're really inviting people to do just that, since it's clear that it will cause annoyance ...

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/20/2013 4:01:51 PM

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Perhaps a misguided attempt (especially by the pay princesses) to weed out the folks who won't come through with the cash? Can't say how well it works, though.

PS: Nice to see you posting again, MissKitty! Hope all is well!

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/20/2013 4:06:46 PM

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Perhaps a misguided attempt (especially by the pay princesses) to weed out the folks who won't come through with the cash? Can't say how well it works, though.

I agree. They think by stating that it will stop wankers. (There's a FinDomme blog that I read for the pure entertainment value)

The reality is that when you engage in online domination, you really have no authority and no way of enforcing when things don't go the way you want. So, instead, the ducks throw a temper tantrum thinking it will have an impact.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/20/2013 6:46:08 PM

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By saying "don't write", it's a challenge to many people on here. It's why they like bdsm....it's the thrill of the chase, the excitement of the taboo, the "shock" value. So the ones who write that on their profiles are shooting themselves in the foot and I would see the person as not very bright and probably socially naive.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/20/2013 6:52:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

I see this a lot in FD profiles, and I can't help thinking that they're really inviting people to do just that, since it's clear that it will cause annoyance ...

To be fair I've seen this and sentiments like it on a few Grumpy Dom's profiles to.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/20/2013 7:17:59 PM

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I've seen it in all sorts of profiles. To me it states the person has a short patience level. If I were looking, and there was someone I was interested in but I saw that in his profile, I'd take him up on the offer, and move on without contacting him. His loss.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/20/2013 7:24:25 PM

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As would I. When I read things like that on a profile I
think they sound bitter and angry. Not something most
people are seeking in a partner.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/20/2013 8:38:04 PM

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I don't really look at women's profiles, but I've seen that statement from lots of men who seem to be Dismal Doms. Like if you waste their time then what? They'll beat you for it ?

Wtf, like why make an almost-threat if there isn't an actual price to pay on the part of the time waster? What are you going to do? Reach through the internet and twist some arms? Nothing like a futile statement to make you look like you don't know what the hell you're doing, and you're full of shit.

Stuff like that just makes me perversely want to go waste all kinds of time with the next scowling, squinty looking guy that says it.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 7:59:16 AM

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quote:

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I don't really look at women's profiles, but I've seen that statement from lots of men who seem to be Dismal Doms. Like if you waste their time then what? They'll beat you for it ? Wtf, like why make an almost-threat if there isn't an actual price to pay on the part of the time waster? What are you going to do? Reach through the internet and twist some arms? Nothing like a futile statement to make you look like you don't know what the hell you're doing, and you're full of shit.

Stuff like that just makes me perversely want to go waste all kinds of time with the next scowling, squinty looking guy that says it.

Okay. "Don't waste my time"... Please to note the scowling squinty visage to your left

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 8:01:41 AM

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I always love the ones that say "you must be intelligent".
If someone isn't intelligent, would they know that?

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 8:24:22 AM

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Not into FD, but I do have this on the profile:

"If you are not local, not from the forums, or someone that I haven't already met, and you send Me email, please do not expect a pleasant response....... I am very disinterested in wasting My time."

Whatever a person puts into attempting to annoy over that is probably taking more time than it does for Me to hover over the message and delete it unread.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 10:06:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

I always love the ones that say "you must be intelligent".
If someone isn't intelligent, would they know that?

And usually that's spelled "U must B inteelgent"

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 10:24:02 AM

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Oh, the one I love are the fake ass lesbian profiles.

NO MEN!!! NO MEN!!! NO MEN!!!

That is a fucking edict from Ganesh, a fuckin Papal Bull, a vision of God for me to stick my dick in their face.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 10:36:43 AM

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FR,

Several posts were removed. As a reminder:

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...This isn't a place to insult the kinks, preferences, lifestyles, etc. of others. If you don't like what another person enjoys, rest assured that there are plenty of others out there that probably don't like your activities either. Furthermore, baiting, harassment and personal attacks will not be tolerated.

This thread is not going to turn into one on Fin Domme as there are already numerous active threads on that subject.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 11:58:53 AM

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Okay. "Don't waste my time"... Please to note the scowling squinty visage to your left

Ooooooh, hey there Mr. Sunglasses....got a few hours to spare?
How bout a chat or two or three? I promise not to disappear until we've promised undying love for each other, or at least shared nudie pics

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 3:18:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman

Okay. "Don't waste my time"... Please to note the scowling squinty visage to your left

Ooooooh, hey there Mr. Sunglasses....got a few hours to spare?
How bout a chat or two or three? I promise not to disappear until we've promised undying love for each other, or at least shared nudie pics

I thought you weren't supposed to disappear until after I'd sent out the plane tickets and money order to pay for your sick mother's medicine?

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 3:26:55 PM

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What are you going to do? Reach through the internet and twist some arms? Nothing like a futile statement to make you look like you don't know what the hell you're doing, and you're full of shit.

What you are forgetting are the ones who know all about the internet.

They could actually do a lot lot worse. I can't say too much. But there are some people on the net you have to tread very lightly.

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 3:35:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

I see this a lot in FD profiles, and I can't help thinking that they're really inviting people to do just that, since it's clear that it will cause annoyance ...

(I don't know what that means).

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RE: Do not waste my time! - 8/21/2013 3:40:20 PM

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Ohhhh Lookie ... you wouldn't send love letters to Fin Ducks, would you??