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RE: Um, just needed to ask something - 10/12/2013 9:45:23 AM

SageMage

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If you want to why a woman would willingly do anything for you, up to and including kinky activities, remember that most women only feel this way toward a specific PERSON, not a role. I have done things willingly and came back for more with someone I loved, cared for and trusted. It is the person who does the inspiring, not the acts or the roles.

Make a woman happy and she usually does what you want.

Exactly! Recently I was with a rather vanilla lover, who has real issues around anal play. I decided to stretch her limits a little, and began alternating in a little anal play. Afterwards she thanked me, saying that I had transformed what had always been a rather humiliating and uncomfortable act into one of the most erotic experiences of her life.

In most love play, it is not so much what you do, as it is the relationship and the trust you have with the person you are performing the act with.

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RE: Um, just needed to ask something - 10/12/2013 7:52:38 PM

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He's never asked me to take off all my clothes and crawl around with just a collar. If he did I'd probably wonder what the heck he was trying to prove. AT 62 I'm getting way too old to crawl around on the floor. He'd had to figure out a way to get me standing again.

Our sex life would probably be considered boring by many. We have one position that is comfortable due to our physical problems and we use it 100% of the time. We don't do "kinky" sex at all. It doesn't matter that our sex life isn't kinky as it's great just the way it is.

However, I trust him to make the major decisions in our lives. He discusses those decisions with me and we talk about the pros and cons. Then he makes the decision and we both live happily with what has been decided.

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Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Um, just needed to ask something - 10/12/2013 8:00:05 PM

Kana

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What is it you feel when you're asked to remove everything else besides the collar, and asked to crawl around. What is it?

My slut likes the control, plain and simple.
It's all about that

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RE: Um, just needed to ask something - 10/14/2013 6:53:25 PM

littlewonder

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I feel love and loved

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Nothing has changed
Everything has changed

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RE: Um, just needed to ask something - 10/14/2013 7:54:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I feel love and loved

In the end that is all that counts.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Um, just needed to ask something - 10/16/2013 9:49:26 AM

Domnotlooking

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Attention.

She gets lots of highly focused, ultra-clean, her-specific attention.

And that attention makes her, well, very attentive back.

And then I, as the sex boss, direct THAT attention too.

And then the sex sum is greater than the attention parts -or at least hotter anyway.

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