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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/1/2006 11:16:32 PM   
LadyShey


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Status: offline 		   isn't this for subs/slaves to be asking Us questions not for Us to be bickering back and forth like well like young girls ourselves instead of grown Mature Experienced Women We are???

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/2/2006 12:31:46 AM   
MissStevie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Txtruemalesub

a Mistress is my Nuber 1 Goal.
But i have been confronted by a Master says he would help me get a Mistress if i would serve Him for a few years frist.
Is that unheard of in this lifestyle??
Should i walk away from His offer, or should i give it a try?


If you had to question it in the first place, then you already knew the answer.  If looking for a Mistress, then why would one ever serve a Master?  C'mon now~did you really need help with that one? It's not like ooooh~I have to pee, I really have to pee, should I pee?  Should I not pee?  Would you jump online and ask if you should pee?  No you wouldn't, why? that's a no brainer!  Cuz you have to pee.  So see there it is, you already had the answer.  If looking to get attention by posting in the "ask a Mistress" forum, you may have done damage to any Mistress in here taking you on.  you have shown you are not capable of making small decisions.  Sorry, I'm a little blunt and call it as I see it.  If you know the answer, then why ask?

I had to laugh, therefor I had to comment.  Especially because it is 3:30 in the morning and the teenagers still have me up:)  So don't take offense to the post, just take it as tired frazzled blunt advice.

< Message edited by MissStevie -- 7/2/2006 12:37:18 AM >

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/2/2006 12:43:44 AM   
Txtruemalesub


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Actually, no, I don't believe I know this boy but goodness gracious Me...who would ever post a thread asking:
 
 well to answer your question..... someone that is new to this lifestyle maybe....... S/someone that is just learnin maybe?
 i mean did you not ask stupid questions that you did not know the answers to?
i was always taught that
1.  there are no stupid questions
2. if you do not ask, then Y/you may never know the answer to Y/your question.
 
"...blah blah this happened that happened blah blah... duh.. should I serve this person?"

I mean, really now!  The post was a banner for attention.

Oy, Vey!

TexasMaam

pss: I call all boys sluts! ; )  especially those who post unabashedly begging for attention!  the post was probably just a silly bait post to liven up the boards. TM
[/quote]

 begging for attention...?  not tryin to be rude but i am sure E/evryone in there lifes has asked a question that O/others though and or felt that same way. At least some point in T/their life.
 
People ask to learn so why cut them down? If that is how you are to a new person i am glad that you are not my Mistress.



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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/2/2006 12:54:54 AM   
Txtruemalesub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyShey

   isn't this for subs/slaves to be asking Us questions not for Us to be bickering back and forth like well like young girls ourselves instead of grown Mature Experienced Women We are???



so true.... but not many Ma'am this on here is Mature. Why slam a newbie's question , or A/anyone's question for that matter. Someone that is askin a question to me shows that they are at least putting forth the effort to learn something instead of just coming on here for something to do when they are bored.
Never rasie your hand in school to ask a question then how do you expect the teacher to know that you need help, or that you have a question that needs answering.

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/2/2006 11:59:06 AM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Alas, this has turned into the type of thread TM predicted...

To the ones that are accusing the dommes of bickering; have you read these boards before not, chuckles, this is not bickering!! There is never a good reason for us to bicker, much less as uncontroversial question as this. 

TM, good to see you too, smiles.I have been lurking for a while, but, you know me, I have to start contributing again, One can only keep Her opinions to Herself so long!! I misunderstood the slut remark, usually you seem to show affection with that term, as do I (I admit to liking sluts also, smiles, just ones that are controlled in their sluttiness.)

To the OP, I would check references and such, but as one stated earlier, why would you serve a "master" when a domme is what you seek?  Male and female dominants tend to seek different things and have different goals for  their submissives.  I personally would prefer to train my own.  

I will also say, your last remark about the "ma'ams" on here not being very mature is uncalled for.  TM actually said nothing incendiary, I just questioned the familiarity or non familiarity of the both of you.  No need to jump on a bandwagon others are trying to start to turn this into a flame war.  No thread should turn into a flame war, but I don't think there are any worries with this one in particular.

**Blows a kiss to TexasMaam and goes outside to enjoy the gorgeous day**

_____________________________

Anyone can overpower; not many can INSPIRE.....

This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/2/2006 8:07:36 PM   
mslave2bcollared


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

What are you asking US for?

Slut.

TexasMaam









Why do i ask..... well if you need to ask that question i will help you to understand...

1.)  well because if i never ask, will i learn?

2.) because i am new to this lifestyle.

3.) because i want to learnwhat i can the easy way, instead of the hard way.

4.) because there are P/people in here that is very helpful.

5.) because this is where i wanted to post my question.

6.) and i have the right to ask who i want.


   i can ask you the same question.....
Why do You post your messages where You do?

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/3/2006 5:05:29 PM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mslave2bcollared

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

What are you asking US for?

Slut.

TexasMaam









Why do i ask..... well if you need to ask that question i will help you to understand...

1.)  well because if i never ask, will i learn?

2.) because i am new to this lifestyle.

3.) because i want to learnwhat i can the easy way, instead of the hard way.

4.) because there are P/people in here that is very helpful.

5.) because this is where i wanted to post my question.

6.) and i have the right to ask who i want.


 i can ask you the same question.....
Why do You post your messages where You do?


Of course, it's up to you, but it's helpful to post on each individual thread under the same profile, instead of switching between 3.

_____________________________

Anyone can overpower; not many can INSPIRE.....

This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/3/2006 7:17:50 PM   
cynthiamarie


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From: Bluefield, WV, USA
Status: offline 		I'll just address the opening question.

Whoever I've mentored, there have been no strings attached.  As for finding and attracting the attention of a Domme...I've thought it best if someone learns to understand themselves and what they are really looking for first, through reading.  Spend a dozen hours reading from the Ask A Mistress area of the message boards, and another dozen in the Ask A submissive; read from sites like castlerealm.com; read dozens of Domme profiles, and every last word in their journals...then start writing to them and do not send out form letters, treat them like real people you'd like to get to know better; then I give a site for the registered BDSM munch groups in the USA. 

Another point...I'm not bi, and am not attracted to bi male subs; if one had a Master, I wouldn't dream of poaching nor would I be interested in becoming one of a Dom/me couple.  I don't like to share, and I believe any Dom in my life would be trying to turn me into his sub instead of his Lady.  This is just me though...but what if the Domme you are meant to be owned by thinks the same as I do?

Settling for less than what you want may lose you the very thing you wish for the most.

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/3/2006 7:26:40 PM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		This sounds like dinky again.

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/5/2006 6:04:22 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

So you ask a dozen online Mistresses whether you should or should not serve someone you're considering petitioning?

Golly. Next time I have a sub under consideration I think I'll post and ask everyone on here whether they think I should accept the boy for service or not.

Oh, Puhleeze!

TexasMaam


In defense of the OP, I believe he was asking if the situation presented to him was unheard of, meaning, was it common.  I don't see where he said he was petitioning anyone. 

Be well,
Julie

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/5/2006 8:44:29 PM   
MistressDREAD


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Status: offline 		Txtruemalesub
 
 
get a profile on the other side for starters.
Im currious how this Master found you
when I as a Mistress cannot even find you.
Yet you say you seek a Mistress over a Master.
Hmmmmmmmm      ponders a moment.

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/9/2006 6:01:37 PM   
mslave2bcollared


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD

Txtruemalesub
 
 
get a profile on the other side for starters.
Im currious how this Master found you
when I as a Mistress cannot even find you.
Yet you say you seek a Mistress over a Master.
Hmmmmmmmm      ponders a moment.





i will answer this again...

Here is the very frist profile.. mslave2bcollared  i thought about changing it, but i after i made i   Txtruemalesub  i decided that i did not want that profile up. So i deleted Txtruemalesub.    Now i have  my frist profile mslave2bcollared  &  mTxsub4Mistress. If Y/you read them both Y/you will understand why i have them.
 i am open to just about anything even poly & couples. If i stay fouced on ONE THING in life, then i am closing my eyes to other possibilties that might be able to happen, and i do not want that.


 

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/9/2006 6:23:35 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Let it die, I think everyone has said their peace, I know I won't be back and the one you answered has left the forums, so I think the subject is dead.  (Just my opinion)

_____________________________

Anyone can overpower; not many can INSPIRE.....

This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: for A/anyone..... - 7/9/2006 9:42:30 PM   
mslave2bcollared


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

Let it die, I think everyone has said their peace, I know I won't be back and the one you answered has left the forums, so I think the subject is dead.  (Just my opinion)


i have no desire to keep this fire going. Matter of fact if i could i would delete this question. Just i did not want any more confusion., So i thought i would say it once more.  This was water under the bridge for me days ago.

< Message edited by mslave2bcollared -- 7/9/2006 10:06:40 PM >

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