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Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 4:23:27 AM

PinkCarnation

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I am interested in sexual and emotional domination.

I like to gain the trust of a woman and treat her to a night of d/s play. When it's over and we've parted that's where the fun begins with me.

I like to headfuck by going hot and cold on her. I like to create expectations with promises but only deliver open ended vague excuses. I like to dominate her mentally like this and when she cracks I pretend nothing. I dismiss her by ignoring her. I love the crazy that follows. I love laughing at her in severe emotional pain and distress.

I like keeping her in the dark when emotional darkness comes upon her in confusion.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 4:32:55 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Thanks for sharing. Now get yourself to the closest mental health professional; you need intensive therapy.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 4:40:21 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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How disappointing. This thread was not at all what I hoped it would be.

Truth be told, no matter how much kinky fun I had with you, the moment that you started messing with me I'd delete your number and walk away. I have too much self-respect.

Luckily subs looking for domination on here aren't likely to find you, since you're listed as a sub.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 4:47:12 AM

PinkCarnation

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^^ sorry about that. Made a mistake there.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 4:51:44 AM

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I like to gain the trust of a woman and treat her to a night of d/s play. When it's over and we've parted that's where the fun begins with me.

That would require a monogamous relationship with me. I don't play without one.

Where is the consent for this? Without it, you aren't a dominant, just an abusive asshole.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 4:56:27 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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ORIGINAL: PinkCarnation

^^ sorry about that. Made a mistake there.

Funny mistake, listing yourself as a female submissive when you meant male dominant. I almost never get my own gender wrong.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 5:03:13 AM

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If you go to an art gallery, you will see some of the most beautiful works of art. They took accomplished Masters months of painstaking work to create. Yet even so, they could be destroyed by any punk kid with a can of spray paint.

We Doms strive to accomplish things. You're exulting that you know how to use a can of paint.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 5:04:41 AM

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Where is the consent for this? Without it, you aren't a dominant, just an abusive asshole.

Well she would consent by agreeing to play with me. The emotional domination, I like to catch her off guard with that.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 5:07:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: PinkCarnation

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

Where is the consent for this? Without it, you aren't a dominant, just an abusive asshole.

Well she would consent by agreeing to play with me. The emotional domination, I like to catch her off guard with that.

But if she didn't consent to emotional domination (just sexual domination), then you are just an abusive asshole.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 5:07:47 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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That's not emotional domination, any child can play manipulative games with someone's head. Which is, I believe, Steven's point.

What you 'love to do' is highly anti-social. I'd work on that, you may just meet someone as in need of help as yourself. Some who turns your emotional domination around and uses physical domination, on you.

This is a very dangerous, not to mention disreputable, game you play.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 5:10:19 AM

searching4mysir

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

That's not emotional domination, any child can play manipulative games with someone's head. Which is, I believe, Steven's point.

What you 'love to do' is highly anti-social. I'd work on that, you may just meet someone as in need of help as yourself. Some who turns your emotional domination around and uses physical domination, on you.

This is a very dangerous, not to mention disreputable, game you play.

One that could get him stalked and killed. Hey, she could say she was just chlorinating the gene pool. Wonder what kind of legal defense that would make in Ireland?

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 5:19:00 AM

NuevaVida

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

How disappointing. This thread was not at all what I hoped it would be.

Me either. I thought it would be about, well, emotional domination. This is something entirely different.

And like you, the first sniff of games would find me gone.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 5:19:32 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Hey, she could say she was just chlorinating the gene pool.

He or she, they seem to be confused on that point, is already swimming in the lower end of the gene pool.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 6:33:42 AM

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 6:45:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PinkCarnation

I am interested in sexual and emotional domination.

I like to gain the trust of a woman and treat her to a night of d/s play. When it's over and we've parted that's where the fun begins with me.

I like to headfuck by going hot and cold on her. I like to create expectations with promises but only deliver open ended vague excuses. I like to dominate her mentally like this and when she cracks I pretend nothing. I dismiss her by ignoring her. I love the crazy that follows. I love laughing at her in severe emotional pain and distress.

I like keeping her in the dark when emotional darkness comes upon her in confusion.

Anyone with an ounce of sense will read your posts before getting involved with you. My guess is the only confusion will be why anyone would be interested in the first place.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 7:03:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

If you go to an art gallery, you will see some of the most beautiful works of art. They took accomplished Masters months of painstaking work to create. Yet even so, they could be destroyed by any punk kid with a can of spray paint.

We Doms strive to accomplish things. You're exulting that you know how to use a can of paint.

I love this!

What I don't love is the OP's definition of emotional domination.
I think it's awful to risk hurting someone for one's own personal gain. I'd never be able to trust you therefor I'd never submit to you.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 7:07:57 AM

SinFix

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They may have consented to play with you but unless you inform them of your fucked up games then no, they do not consent to that. Hence it being abusive.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 7:22:21 AM

orgasmdenial12

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That's not emotional domination, since dominating suggests that you are in control of her, which you are not - she is free to respond how she prefers.

This is emotional sadism, and is already a well established kink. Some subs love it. Personally, I never met a Dom who could play with me and walk away. I guess I'm just too good :-)

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 7:27:25 AM

Toysinbabeland

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Op:
I suppose you just created this sock puppet to wank off the responses you solicited by creating the thread.
Meh. Not impressed.

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RE: Emotional domination - 8/27/2013 8:06:02 AM

LadyPact

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Yeah, I'm going with sock, too. Either that or the OP is doing that 'one night' thing with some serious head cases that will hit that level of crazy over a single night of D/s.

Just a word to the wise, OP. You really don't want some nut job who goes off of the deep end.

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