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NuevaVida -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 8:08:13 AM)


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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

This is emotional sadism, and is already a well established kink.

Agreed, and a completely different ball game than emotional domination.




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 8:52:02 AM)

My vote is troll sock too, first impression. Second guess would be boy living in mom's basement.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 9:00:26 AM)

Or perhaps both?

I thought school was back in session? Maybe this one flunked.




MarcEsadrian -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 9:58:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
If you go to an art gallery, you will see some of the most beautiful works of art. They took accomplished Masters months of painstaking work to create. Yet even so, they could be destroyed by any punk kid with a can of spray paint. You're exulting that you know how to use a can of paint.


Steven, this was wonderfully said.

If you're playing stupid emotional games with otherwise sincere and well meaning souls, the end result will be making others bitter, angry, and confused about meeting desire with real life.




searching4mysir -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 10:16:45 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Or perhaps both?

I thought school was back in session? Maybe this one flunked.



In NJ they don't go back until after Labor Day.




lizi -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 10:40:37 AM)

My vote is for troll. "He" finds the forum on the first day of his account, calls himself something feminine and also initially designates as female, has nothing in the profile, and posts an inflammatory statement. Yup, it's a windup. Not to say that there weren't some great posts that people can't learn from in spite of all that.




Winterapple -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 2:21:48 PM)

Who, be they male or female, Dom or sub, can resist
the power of the Pink Carnation?!!




mnottertail -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 2:27:18 PM)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wYIIzEOI7Kg




SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 2:50:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

If you go to an art gallery, you will see some of the most beautiful works of art. They took accomplished Masters months of painstaking work to create. Yet even so, they could be destroyed by any punk kid with a can of spray paint.

We Doms strive to accomplish things. You're exulting that you know how to use a can of paint.


This is a beautiful post.




SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 2:53:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
If you go to an art gallery, you will see some of the most beautiful works of art. They took accomplished Masters months of painstaking work to create. Yet even so, they could be destroyed by any punk kid with a can of spray paint. You're exulting that you know how to use a can of paint.


Steven, this was wonderfully said.

If you're playing stupid emotional games with otherwise sincere and well meaning souls, the end result will be making others bitter, angry, and confused about meeting desire with real life.



Of course, if he's actually the sadist he's representing himself as, he wouldn't care. :(




sexyred1 -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 4:22:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PinkCarnation

I am interested in sexual and emotional domination.

I like to gain the trust of a woman and treat her to a night of d/s play. When it's over and we've parted that's where the fun begins with me.

I like to headfuck by going hot and cold on her. I like to create expectations with promises but only deliver open ended vague excuses. I like to dominate her mentally like this and when she cracks I pretend nothing. I dismiss her by ignoring her. I love the crazy that follows. I love laughing at her in severe emotional pain and distress.

I like keeping her in the dark when emotional darkness comes upon her in confusion.


Where did you read all that? It sounds like Sociopathic Behavior 101. You probably would only get anywhere with a woman with very low self esteem, which is the basis of most sociopaths. They hurt others first because they have been hurt.

What you describe is not healthy D/s and emotional masochism, it is pure abusive asshole behavior.




DesFIP -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 6:09:38 PM)

In other words, the op is incapable of being emotionally intimate while at the same time he craves that. So he comes closer and then runs away showing his massive insecurities.

Get thee to a psychologist and deal with your mommy issues.

And btw, none of the women who fucked you one night give a damn about you afterwards. They've all moved on to real men with bigger dicks who know how to satisfy a woman.




Sheela22 -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 7:33:25 PM)

Dude! Even I know that's not emotional domination I'm the most vanilla one here! lol
If you are for real , you are a giant JACKASS! How can she trust you and let you dominate her when you yourself said you wanna lie to her and break all your promises and hurt her feelings..
I'm confused




Gauge -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 8:38:07 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PinkCarnation

I am interested in sexual and emotional domination.

I like to gain the trust of a woman and treat her to a night of d/s play. When it's over and we've parted that's where the fun begins with me.

I like to headfuck by going hot and cold on her. I like to create expectations with promises but only deliver open ended vague excuses. I like to dominate her mentally like this and when she cracks I pretend nothing. I dismiss her by ignoring her. I love the crazy that follows. I love laughing at her in severe emotional pain and distress.

I like keeping her in the dark when emotional darkness comes upon her in confusion.



Please, whatever you do, do not think you are being dominant when you do this. What you are doing is nothing even in the same universe as being dominant. What you are doing is gaining someone's trust and then destroying it without regard for the damage you cause. I am sure some on here have some fairly strong words to describe you. I, however, do not have words to describe you. I think that you have a huge set of brass nads to come on here and admit this in a public forum. I do hope that you like a nice barbecue... because it is nothing less than what you deserve.

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^^ sorry about that. Made a mistake there.


A mistake on your first post? You mean writing it at all?




mdcameraman -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 8:39:51 PM)

Can you say troll?




JeffBC -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 9:12:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Sheela22
Dude! Even I know that's not emotional domination I'm the most vanilla one here! lol

Wait what? When did I lose the position and how come the mods didn't send me a notice?




LadyPact -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 9:42:38 PM)

Are you really still trying to pull the "I'm the vanilla guy" bit? I'm not buying it.




JeffBC -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 10:00:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Are you really still trying to pull the "I'm the vanilla guy" bit? I'm not buying it.


Man, you can't have it both ways LP. Aren't you of the opinion that BDSM = bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism? We don't do any of that. Don't get me wrong. I certainly think the authority structure in our marriage is more akin to extreme M/s than it is anything in the vanilla world but... yanno.. no bondage, discipline, sadism, or masochism.

Really though I've always been in favor of Kana hold the vanilla title on these boards (the inside joke there sheela is that he's a pretty freakin extreme sadist and so we want him with a vanilla cone to scare the new people)




SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 10:23:34 PM)

Vanilla cones are tasty.




LadyPact -> RE: Emotional domination (8/27/2013 10:25:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
Man, you can't have it both ways LP. Aren't you of the opinion that BDSM = bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism? We don't do any of that. Don't get me wrong. I certainly think the authority structure in our marriage is more akin to extreme M/s than it is anything in the vanilla world but... yanno.. no bondage, discipline, sadism, or masochism.

Really though I've always been in favor of Kana hold the vanilla title on these boards (the inside joke there sheela is that he's a pretty freakin extreme sadist and so we want him with a vanilla cone to scare the new people)

Yeah. That means you count. Haven't you got some rope laying around there somewhere?





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