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Protector32 -> On Rimming (9/2/2013 11:23:40 AM)

On Rimming -  
 
Let's talk about rimming. I have been a Dom male since birth and have enjoyed rimming a clean, female rosebud nearly that long. I am not sure where that desire stems from. Is it because I was raised as the oldest of 4 boys with no sisters? Is it because I'm an ass man?  
 
I'm not sure where it comes from and I'm not sure I care where it comes from. I just know that with the right lady I doubt there is much more, outside of water sports, which could represent a more intimate form of pleasuring and sharing. It might be the taboo of it all that appeals. In the same manner that I truly enjoy playing with a married sub. The forbidden fruit as it were.  
 
Without a doubt cleanliness is essential. But for those who balk at rimming a clean rosebud you should know that the typical mouth contains far more harmful bacteria than a clean anus. And you do kiss with your mouth open don't you ?  
 
While I love to do the rimming I have only been rimmed a few times. And that was essentially by choice. That might stem from the fact that in my twenties I was cut there by an overly zealous young lady with long sharp fingernails. It was not fun.  
 
So I tended to keep ladies away from that area. That was until I met this female sub in Texas in 2000 that delighted in rimming and being rimmed. I mean she insisted on it. And I have to admit being serviced like that was delightful. Soft, sensual, intimate, and the knowledge that it really rang her bell made it all the better.  
 
 
I remember on more than occasion straddling her face, while she would gently lick, nibble, probe and play with my asshole. It was exquisite. I would then flog her pussy to provide 'motivation' and jerk off on her chest.  
Sometimes she would have me lie down and prop a small pillow under my groin. She would then lie between my legs and go to town.  
 
She really wanted to slide a finger into my ass and massage my prostate. She wanted that a lot. We did try it a few times but given my past experience I freely admit that I probably fully earned the nickname 'tight ass'. :)  
 
One pleasant variation to a traditional 69 would be that when I was about to explode in the lady's mouth I would pull her very tight to my face and slide my tongue as deep into her ass as possible. Embedding my tongue deep in her ass at the moment of explosion. Hard to beat.  
 
In discussing the gentle art of rimming and how much I enjoy it in various Ds forums I once had a young female sub, I would argue an uneducated and misinformed female sub. "Gee", she said. "that doesn't sound very Domlike". I replied. "Young lady, I can assure you that I am 100% Dom. And the fact that I WANT to do it makes it 'Domlike'.  
 
I will also freely admit that my love of rimming has been going unabated as of late. And when deprived, it becomes clear that its far more than a linking. Its a NEED!! I find myself staring at nicely heart shaped derriers everywhere, thinking, briefly visualizing, fantasizing.  
 
And if I am not able to tease, nibble, probe, taste, explore, luxuriate in, drill and tongue fuck a nice female rosebud very soon I will surely lose my mind :)




smartsub10 -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 11:28:04 AM)

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should know that the typical mouth contains far more harmful bacteria than a clean anus


The anus, even a "clean" one is loaded with e.coli bacteria which the human mouth does not harbor. E.coli can make someone very, very sick.

Not criticizing your love of rimming. Just throwing out a fact.




Kana -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 11:30:44 AM)

This cat doesn't care for being the rimmer but it sure feels fine being the rimmee




Protector32 -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 11:33:39 AM)

Well the many doctors I have spoken to on this would disagree with you. Keep in mind I said clean.




MistressDarkArt -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 11:34:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Protector32

On Rimming -  
  Is it because I was raised as the oldest of 4 boys with no sisters? Is it because I'm an ass man?  
 



I think those were the only two questions buried in all of that. Couldn't tell you the answers. As for the rest of it, yay for you, thanks for sharing. [8|]

Welcome to the boards.




NuevaVida -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 11:56:55 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: smartsub10

quote:

should know that the typical mouth contains far more harmful bacteria than a clean anus


The anus, even a "clean" one is loaded with e.coli bacteria which the human mouth does not harbor. E.coli can make someone very, very sick.

Not criticizing your love of rimming. Just throwing out a fact.

Only if you have E-coli in your intestines and bowels at the time. You do not automatically have E-coli on your anus.

We do both here. Being the recipient feels a little strange to me but hey, I can adjust.




littlewonder -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 12:28:37 PM)

I hate being rimmed. I hate rimming. I hate anything having to do with the back-end. Period.




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 12:44:24 PM)

FR

Just when I was thinking I should take a CM break, a scintillating post like this comes along.




petitespot -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 1:45:10 PM)

Would an asshole, even if it was called a rosebud, still smell as sweet?




lilcracker -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 1:48:50 PM)


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I hate being rimmed. I hate rimming. I hate anything having to do with the back-end. Period.


quote:

Would an asshole, even if it was called a rosebud, still smell as sweet?


Off topic why is CM not like facebook cause I would have liked both the above comments.




DarkSteven -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 1:58:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: petitespot

Would an asshole, even if it was called a rosebud, still smell as sweet?


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smartsub10 -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 2:07:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NuevaVida


quote:

ORIGINAL: smartsub10

quote:

should know that the typical mouth contains far more harmful bacteria than a clean anus


The anus, even a "clean" one is loaded with e.coli bacteria which the human mouth does not harbor. E.coli can make someone very, very sick.

Not criticizing your love of rimming. Just throwing out a fact.

Only if you have E-coli in your intestines and bowels at the time. You do not automatically have E-coli on your anus.

We do both here. Being the recipient feels a little strange to me but hey, I can adjust.


Most people have very good immune systems which would prevent them from getting sick. However, I was just correcting the OP's claim that a clean anus has less dangerous bacteria than a human mouth.
Actually, E. coli is not only on your clean anus it is on your buttocks and upper thighs. All healthy guts have E. coli. There isn't a time when you don't have it.

To the OP. I've worked in laboratories for decades. I know whereof I speak.

Carry on with whatever floats your boat!!




Kana -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 2:09:05 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I hate being rimmed. I hate rimming. I hate anything having to do with the back-end. Period.


Which of course, only adds to my joy at the act.
It's no fun if she only does what she wants to.




sunshinemiss -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 4:46:43 PM)

Sunny Quote of the Day
goes to
petitespot
for
Would an asshole,
even if it was called a rosebud,
still smell as sweet?
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_4536716/tm.htm




Hillwilliam -> RE: On Rimming (9/2/2013 9:22:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: petitespot

Would an asshole, even if it was called a rosebud, still smell as sweet?

Depends on whether he has bathed recently.




TieMeInKnottss -> RE: On Rimming (9/3/2013 6:35:57 AM)

If the question is...is it ok for a Dom to want to or to rim a sub...sure...anything YOU want is fine... Some female Dommes will perform oral sex on their male subs rather than have them perform it on them...Does not matter whether it is a "dominant" "top""bottoming" "submissive" act...it is a matter or imposing your will on to another person....

Far as cleanliness or the "ick" factor...can't tell you but probably more WON'T rim or don't find it arousing but, hey, there is a key for every lock just might have to search a little harder.




JeffBC -> RE: On Rimming (9/3/2013 9:45:02 AM)

As much as I think these boards need more sex topics... hopefully freaky weird ones... this is more like a journal entry than the opening to a discussion.




Darkfeather -> RE: On Rimming (9/3/2013 9:54:09 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: smartsub10


quote:

ORIGINAL: NuevaVida


quote:

ORIGINAL: smartsub10

quote:

should know that the typical mouth contains far more harmful bacteria than a clean anus


The anus, even a "clean" one is loaded with e.coli bacteria which the human mouth does not harbor. E.coli can make someone very, very sick.

Not criticizing your love of rimming. Just throwing out a fact.

Only if you have E-coli in your intestines and bowels at the time. You do not automatically have E-coli on your anus.

We do both here. Being the recipient feels a little strange to me but hey, I can adjust.


Most people have very good immune systems which would prevent them from getting sick. However, I was just correcting the OP's claim that a clean anus has less dangerous bacteria than a human mouth.
Actually, E. coli is not only on your clean anus it is on your buttocks and upper thighs. All healthy guts have E. coli. There isn't a time when you don't have it.

To the OP. I've worked in laboratories for decades. I know whereof I speak.

Carry on with whatever floats your boat!!


To worry about one bacteria strain in one area of the human body... Human beings are literally infested with bacteria. We begin life and end life with these things living and growing and multiplying in every fiber of our being. It has been calculated that a human adult houses about 10,000,000,000,000 bacteria on the skin, 100,000,000,000 in the mouth, and 1,000,000,000,000,000 in the gastrointestinal tract. The latter number is far in excess of the number of eucaryotic cells in all the tissues and organs which comprise a human. Most prevalent are streptococci (located in the mouth, teeth, and throat area), and staphylococci on the skin and nasal passages. Incidentally, the sheer volume of bacteria in the upper areas of our body are what make the human bite quite dangerous if left untreated. This makes the mouth far more dangerous, from a bacterial standpoint, than the anus




sexyred1 -> RE: On Rimming (9/3/2013 10:03:32 AM)

I hope the OP does well with the personal ad he just posted.

Like this is news? Guys like to rim girls, yay us.




mnottertail -> RE: On Rimming (9/3/2013 12:00:34 PM)

Just wrap your lips 'round my velvet rim,
and strap your hands 'cross my engines. . .





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