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RE: have you ever been internet stalked? this is a safe... - 9/4/2013 9:12:28 AM

tommonymous

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

It's easy to brush off and say no big deal when you've never been stalked by someone very persistent who knows you and knows how to get through your defenses.

I think this was a reply to splatterpunk, but I just wanted to be clear that I in no way intend to diminish the impact of stalking (in-person or internet-based) on the victim. I (luckily) can't really imagine being violated like that.

I do marvel at the productivity of insanity, though, both for good an bad purposes.

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RE: have you ever been internet stalked? this is a safe... - 9/4/2013 9:28:22 AM

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ORIGINAL: splatterpunk
did the creepazoid who kept showing up at events where you were ever make an effort to woo you? did you feel like you needed a shower afterward?

I was not the first or only woman the creeper attempted to do this to.

He had tried to talk me into meeting him several times on AOL (he would send me pictures of his penis every morning). I was in a relationship when he started after me and he escalated when it became known that I had ended that relationship. (I was not interested in him at all) Since I wouldn't meet him, he started showing up at the socials and inserting himself into my conversations.

The final event was when I had just started dating my Master/husband. At a social, he grabbed my right wrist as I walked by and refused to let go. I was reaching the stage where I had decided that I was going to have to make a scene, when the Big Guy walked over and stuck his thumb in that soft spot above the gropers elbow to make him release.

Master and several other male Doms had a chat with him later. They basically told him that if they found out he touched another woman nonconsentually they would make sure that he never got laid again.

He did continue to creep women on AOL until the demise of that chatroom, but I never saw him at another social after that.

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RE: have you ever been internet stalked? this is a safe... - 9/4/2013 3:03:17 PM

MercTech

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Ok, I learned a lesson about chat rooms many moons ago. Beware of trying to be comic and saying things like "I'm trisexual, I'll try anything interesting."

I was searched, stalked, and the creature doing the stalking even showed up on the doorstep. How did he find me? I had mentioned I lived half a block from a really good Thai restaurant and described their wonderful signature house dish in detail. Then he asked the workers in all the Thai places near where he figured I lived if they recognized a picture of me he found online.

It took a lot of calling in favors to get the idiot to quit pestering me.

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RE: have you ever been internet stalked? this is a safe... - 9/4/2013 6:47:37 PM

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