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RE: oragsm schedule - 9/18/2013 8:20:39 PM

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Dunno .... but .... bet i get released, when ever She gets on the ... Yacht!

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RE: oragsm schedule - 9/20/2013 4:59:41 AM

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It's a fake orgasm is what it is. Or maybe not "fake" so much as ... let's call it a twinge.

Prove it.

You've just made a claim about people you've never met so by all means where's your evidence?

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RE: oragsm schedule - 9/20/2013 1:22:53 PM

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for the dommes- if you had to put your sub on an orgasm schedule. what type would it be? I am sure there are a lot of different opinions- but I would like to hear them all.
thank you.

Umm, "had to"? Why would a dominant "have to" put her submissive on an orgasm schedule? I can't see the use or non-use of an "orgasm schedule" as being anything other than completely optional and a matter for discussion and negotiation between a dominant and submissive.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 9/20/2013 4:40:27 PM

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for the dommes- if you had to put your sub on an orgasm schedule. what type would it be? I am sure there are a lot of different opinions- but I would like to hear them all.
thank you.

You are a Man Whore.

No one would EVER put me on an orgasm schedule.

(Wouldn't happen).

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/8/2013 8:58:06 AM

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My bf loves to keep me on a orgasm schedule! He loves to control my orgasms and to lock me in a chastity belt when I'm not aloud to cum.
Not being able to cum when I want is making me extremely horny and frustrated at the same time. The good thing is that sexual energy will not drop from cumming, it will just increase and keep me ready to play with my bf with a huge level of excitement!
The best thing to spice it up a bit is to make variation in the schedule otherwise you will get used to it.
My current schedule is very simple, each time it increases with 5 days until I reach 25 days, first orgasm after 5 days, then 10 days, 15 days, 20 days, 25 days.
During this whole schedule he keeps me locked in a chastity belt to make sure I don't cheat.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/8/2013 7:57:08 PM

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Ive totally given up being sub. but if I was sub, my job is to submit. if told not to orgasm I wouldn't. the back lash , as a female Is that if banned from orgasm, it kind of permanent.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/8/2013 7:58:30 PM

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If he needs to stop you cheating... You haven't submitted.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/9/2013 3:42:58 AM

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I have a novel way to control my subies and have fun at the same time.
I give them 1 minute to cum and for every second under or over they get
one whack from my ridding crop.
I put my iPhone on stop watch and hold it in front of them and order them to
watch the clock while they pull off, not very sexy !!!

The worst one took 4 minutes 39 seconds he had a sore ass that day
219 whacks.

Oh by the way they all have to lick the cum after they cum.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/9/2013 3:51:53 AM

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Nope no schedule, I like the surprise factor...either denial or release, now during those times i will change it up with suggestions like madamr mentioned, a game, or evil, or fun, or whatever I wanna do when ever I wanna do it. schedules have a way of interfering with other things in life like work and business meetings, or docs appointments or visits with parents/siblings ...on both sides of the kneel

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/9/2013 4:02:16 AM

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If he needs to stop you cheating... You haven't submitted.

I so agree with the above statement. My boy doesn't wear a device, he's expected to be adult enough to obey without one.

When I first started controlling his orgasms, we had a schedule which I set. Frankly, that didn't work, and he asked if we could change it. We talked about it and came up with what we do now, which is this: he asks every day if he can come, and I say yes or no. On his birthday I let him have a weekend where he could come as much as he wanted ! (We're LD, which might help understanding this).

Some days I might let him come twice, then again I may deny him for days, it's my whim.

This seems to work for us and gives him the control he craves.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/9/2013 4:14:10 AM

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I agree with ChatteParfaitt you don't need your slave in chastity to control them.
Before a session I make them cum and then put them to work, the sexual excitement
is gone and is not as much fun for them while they scrub my floors.
Sometime if I see them getting hard again I will repeat and put them on the stop watch

Sexual relive for slave should not be fun for them.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/10/2013 2:58:14 PM

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it might be interesting to see how submissives feel about an orgasm schedule on the appropriate thread. i did like the one about giving a sub 1 minute and punishing for each second over or under the target. it takes away most aspects of pleasure for the sub, yet provides a physical release, and gives a Domme an excuse to discipline him (or her?).

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/10/2013 3:27:16 PM

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I dont need an excuse to "punish" him
If he needs a real punishment..it would not be a dick controlled" play.
funishment?I also dont need one, but there are so many ways to play that one. While there are many wonderful male submissives here, the difference between what they fantasize about and what is reality, especially in a long term relationship, is huge.
Please note Im not disregarding female submissives or orgasm control in general, I do use general chastity, tease and denial, cbt and enjoy it with my sub a great deal, but we have been together LD for a decade and a half, and played many such games some were enjoyed, some were disasters and some were so convoluted they were frustrating.
Some we have played around with, have been using a schedule for denial, for forced orgasm, for forced cum, and ruined orgasm.
We have used hockey scores, win loose draw, in the same 4 areas
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Or rated edging/et al for a number of chores finished in a time period, he has stuff he needs to accomplish on the weekends, we will prioritize the chores he has(mine and general life matters) they are given a score and then depending on my mood, a funishment or release, edge or ruined, when he accomplishes them, or doesnt.
Weve even used online game scores to accomplish the same ... a game like breakout or mahki.... how many blocks are left at the end of the game, which equals, strokes, edges, release or denial or number of hours days, minutes, etc etc.
When we spend time together, usually a week or two at a time, we dont schedule, but play it by ear, I like the element of surprise, and or spontaneity, plus things crop up.
Sometimes one or the other of us, is not in the mood, or real life gets in the way, and trying to stick to a regimen is not always appreciated or wanted.
My methods, my relationship, my ways is mine and his, its not for everyone, and it shouldnt be.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/10/2013 4:47:40 PM

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it might be interesting to see how submissives feel about an orgasm schedule on the appropriate thread. i did like the one about giving a sub 1 minute and punishing for each second over or under the target. it takes away most aspects of pleasure for the sub, yet provides a physical release, and gives a Domme an excuse to discipline him (or her?).

Master's schedule is to make me cum when it pleases him. He LIKES to give me pleasure.

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RE: oragsm schedule - 10/10/2013 5:23:02 PM

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I like how you've described some of the technical aspects of the relationship you have with your long-time LD sub, Lucy. By happenstance mine became LD, on a temporary basis, while he was getting resettled, and I wish I would have thought to incorporate games & game scores into our exchanges. He's under consideration so I have to cut him loose; now I'm bummed out I probably won't get to implement any of that any time soon. I wouldn't want to start up an LD with anyone else. (Although I'm starting to go through lack-of-texting withdrawal symptoms already. . . .)

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I dont need an excuse to "punish" him

If he needs a real punishment..it would not be a dick controlled" play.

funishment?I also dont need one, but there are so many ways to play that one....

... I like the element of surprise, and or spontaneity, plus things crop up.

I don't either. He's pain-averse so just the threat of something unpleasant was enough, even when spoken jokingly.

Agreed. (Men think with their dicks too often as it is.)

I'll pick funishment over administering punishment any day.

Same here.

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He LIKES to give me pleasure.

Just noticed your post. That's exactly how I feel.

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