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Akrotiri -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (9/30/2013 12:45:08 AM)

It's primal. For humans anyway. Witness the output of research on the subject, to wit:
The human breast as an honest signal of residual reproductive value
Determinants and Consequences of Female Attractiveness and Sexiness
Is fat deceptive in female hips, breasts, and buttocks?
Hypothesis for the evolution of human breasts and buttocks
the evolutionary mystery of human breasts
New Theory on Why Men Love Breasts
Why Do Women Have Breasts?

Given all this research, how come none if it says it's all cultural and not instinctive?



thracia -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (9/30/2013 1:07:07 AM)

I would think the answer obvious before it was ever asked.
WOMEN: do not in general give a rat's ass about touching men
MEN: do, in general, incessantly desire a woman's ass & tits.

Culture? Primal?

Whatever it is, it is.



Subano -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (9/30/2013 3:01:27 AM)

What is amazing is how women seem to be different than me.
If any woman wanted to grope me, I'd say grope away!
They could feel me up in a train, feel my buns on the bus, feel me up and down anywhere they like.

It wouldn't even occur to me to be upset about it.

Since most of the women said they'd kick a guy in the balls if he did the same to them, they need to think twice about attitudes.

We're all different. And, in most cases, the opposite in how we think.



crossboi -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (9/30/2013 3:04:18 AM)

I'd die and go to heaven if people wanted to cop a feel from me any time they wanted.



avox -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (9/30/2013 3:12:58 AM)

Men are expected to act as women want them to act, and never (ever) as men would want women to act toward them.



dollenburg -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (9/30/2013 3:25:14 AM)

Grope me and you're dead!



Panarea -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (9/30/2013 3:34:02 AM)

The monkey looks like it practiced that smooth move a lot, and then smiled about it.



Anatolium -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/2/2013 2:40:04 PM)

Methinks the baboon is smiling simply because it has been taught to do that for the camera.
It is, after all, a show animal.



LookieNoNookie -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/2/2013 5:12:49 PM)

Let's hope so.



Ayla77 -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/2/2013 5:32:48 PM)

You say that now but if it did happen believe me you would not like it. See your assuming these would be attractive women. How about if none of them were attractive to you. Let's say they were either 75 years old, 400 pounds , smelled , physically repulsive or all of the above combined. And grabbed your dick but too hard where it didn't feel good at all. When you said how you liked to be groped they ignored you b/c it's not about you and what makes you feel good. It's about them you dumb whore who cares what you like. It's what these ugly women like you are there to pleasure them not the other way around. You would still like this?



TigressLily -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/2/2013 6:00:53 PM)


Finally--a guy who gets it!

quote:

ORIGINAL: avox

Men are expected to act as women want them to act, and never (ever) as men would want women to act toward them.


To which I shall add the following, as applicable to your average male:

1. Men who treat women like sex objects want to be treated like sex objects themselves. That's why they're clueless as to why most of us get offended by it.

2. Men who regard women as being sluts/whores secretly (or not so secretly) get turned on by thinking of themselves as sluts/whores to be used and abused wantonly by women. That's why they don't see anything wrong with using women. Or with abusing them, as the case may be.

3. [Add your own personal observation about men's attitudes toward and/or treatment of women when it comes to sex here.]

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zerogirl -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/2/2013 7:05:33 PM)

I have no more desire to grope some random male than desire to see random penis pictures on profiles, which is none. I need a connection with someone to feel a need to touch them sexually.



TNDommeK -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/2/2013 7:23:13 PM)

I grope and hump. Lol....But only the hubby



crwlon4 -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/3/2013 8:54:24 PM)

I think the difference is in he same way that (most) men think about oral sex. Most men would take a random BJ and enjoy it. Most women (I think) enjoy oral sex but not with any random dude. My domme loves groping me, often lol. But she would not be thrilled at groping some random guy. It would not float her boat. It goes back to the reproductive gene thing. Men are dogs, lol. I know because I am one.



LookieNoNookie -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/4/2013 3:32:32 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus

This recent local news live groping video caught my eye and made me wonder:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b15FO54z70Q

What's clear in the video is that the female newscaster understood the primal male to be groping her on live TV, and she handled the groping of her breast with aplomb.

It's not clear whether the male actually intended to grope, but, the actions appear to directly mimic the primal desire all males that I know have, which is the desire to stick our hands down a woman's blouse in order to fondle her breasts.

The wonderfully refreshing reaction from the new reporter got me wondering though, if women have the same primal groping need of men (I've never experienced it, so, hence the question) - and - what are women's responses when they 'are' groped.


6 do....2 live in Upstate NY, the other 4 are spread out fairly evenly.



jalkjdflajfd -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/5/2013 6:22:18 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: crwlon4

Most men would take a random BJ and enjoy it.


Change MOST to ALL and you're right!

BTW, look at this.
http://s16.motherlessmedia.com/dev330/0/010/220/0010220674.jpg

Doesn't look all that primal in that picture, does it?



AAkasha -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/5/2013 2:45:49 PM)



I don't have a sexual groping urge when it comes to men I have an instant chemical attraction to, no.

But I will confess I do have a different kind of groping fantasy and if I could get away with it, hell yes, I would.

It's a couple of things. One is hair pulling. If a man has nice hair, I would love nothing more than to have my fingers in it, feel it, and tighten my grip in it and see his reaction - is it wince, a sharp inhale of breath, a twist in his body, a shift in his hips, a word, does he reach up and try to stop me with his hands, does he feign laughter despite the pain? If I could do this with a free pass, oh yes, I would do it EVERY time with a man I felt attraction to.

The second would be to put my hand over his nose and mouth tight enough that he could not breathe until he finally had to pull away. Just to see how much/how well he endured it.

As you can see, neither has to do with his cock. To be honest, a man's dick is sort of at the bottom of the list of my priorities.

Akasha



PeonForHer -> RE: Do females have the same primal desire to grope men that males have? (10/5/2013 3:51:04 PM)

FR

Buttocks.

It's all about buttocks, I reckon, for both sexes. Me, I quite often look at pair of female buttocks and want to *bite* them. Or at least grip them in my claws.

Buttocks.

Yes.



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