Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness

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AllysBaby -> Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 2:36:20 AM)
I will say first off that my opinion will probably tick alot of you off, I'm not here to make friends though simply to find my one, no one elses opinion matters to me. With that said. I have to laugh at all people who say No release permanent service required. Newsflash here folks permanent service is never required lets be honest its just what a person wants. If my future sub or slave and I end up together for all time then thats wonderful but never something I'd require. If I was a sub and decided to leave permanent service, whether I initially agreed on permanent service or not I would leave and if the Dominant had an issue he or she would be more than welcome to have an issue with a restraining order and police involvement that I would bestow on them also. No one is ever obligated for permanent service of any kind whether its agreed too or not. Thats a fact. No matter what role you're in remember you can always walk away. I am a Domme and I am saying tear up contracts in any case if you are not happy.

littlewonder -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 4:08:08 AM)
It's called living up to your word. When I agreed to be Master's slave, that's what I agreed to...permanent slavery...no walking away. Could I walk away? Sure. But I can tell you I would feel as if I just left my integrity at the door. I would feel as if I no longer had any morals and values. Plus he'd probably just hunt me down anyway. [8D]

myotherself -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 4:20:18 AM)
When I told Master I loved him and he suggested we combine our households and grow old disgracefully together, this amounted to permanent service. We don't do contracts or any of that frilly '50 shades' bollocks, we do real life. And real life is not easy. It's ups and downs, arguments and joy, tough times and good times. Part of my commitment to permanent service was to acknowledge that I would not walk away from 'us' if things got tough. Part of his commitment to accept my offer of permanent service was to work with me to make our relationship work. So really, there is such a thing as permanent service as long as two people are fully committed to each other as people, not just as characters in some wanky fantasy story.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 4:48:32 AM)
The term 'no release' is a BDSM buzzword common on the internet. Those who use it are telling me they have little or no real life experience. That you take umbrage over it's use tells me the same about you. In reality, a 'no release' relationship can be compared to vanilla marriage in which both parties pledge to be together forever. Of course there's an out clause. If you really want to join into discussions here, you might want to lose that chip on your shoulder. It doesn't scream 'dominant' it screams 'insecure.' Just saying. Welcome to the discussion side where some of us have been doing this longer than you've been born.

freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 5:00:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt The term 'no release' is a BDSM buzzword common on the internet. Those who use it are telling me they have little or no real life experience. That you take umbrage over it's use tells me the same about you. In reality, a 'no release' relationship can be compared to vanilla marriage in which both parties pledge to be together forever. Of course there's an out clause. If you really want to join into discussions here, you might want to lose that chip on your shoulder. It doesn't scream 'dominant' it screams 'insecure.' Just saying. Welcome to the discussion side where some of us have been doing this longer than you've been born. [sm=goodpost.gif] CP!

poise -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 5:15:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AllysBaby I will say first off that my opinion will probably tick alot of you off. I have to laugh OhSparklyOne, you give your opinion far too much credit, but it's good to see that you still have love for laughter. Welcome back!

DarkSteven -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 5:44:15 AM)
poise, you are GOOD.

evesgrden -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 6:21:01 AM)
quote: I have to laugh at all people who say No release permanent service required. Newsflash here folks Perhaps you should use this post as your email response to those who actually say this.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 7:06:19 AM)
Well now, that is a PSA we needed to hear because I am sure thousands of slave are just waiting to run away, but thought they had to stay because they promised "permanent service". Is this OP an example of your dry British humor?

Kana -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 7:12:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AllysBaby I will say first off that my opinion will probably tick alot of you off, I'm not here to make friends though simply to find my one, no one elses opinion matters to me. With that said. I have to laugh at all people who say No release permanent service required. Newsflash here folks permanent service is never required lets be honest its just what a person wants. If my future sub or slave and I end up together for all time then thats wonderful but never something I'd require. If I was a sub and decided to leave permanent service, whether I initially agreed on permanent service or not I would leave and if the Dominant had an issue he or she would be more than welcome to have an issue with a restraining order and police involvement that I would bestow on them also. No one is ever obligated for permanent service of any kind whether its agreed too or not. Thats a fact. No matter what role you're in remember you can always walk away. I am a Domme and I am saying tear up contracts in any case if you are not happy. This reminds me of the time I had a new slave gal and she asked me if I wanted to change her profile name.To which I unhesitatingly replied,"Why, yes I do. I want you to change it to 'the Obvious'" "The Obvious?" she responded. "Why that?" And I replied,"Because that then makes me The Master of The Obvious." Just saying. Meanwhile, returning from Wolkenkuckucksheim to the real world and far more important matters... quote: When I agreed to be Master's slave, that's what I agreed to...permanent slavery You really posted this?Like,in a place where we can all see and I can,and have,already saved it? After our conversation last night? Oh fuck yes.This will so be used against you in The Court of Kana. Your tits,and the rest of your flesh, not to mention mind, heart and soul, are so toast.For decades...

orgasmdenial12 -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 7:59:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Is this OP an example of your dry British humor? We don't have humor, we have humour. It's like humor, but better ;-)

ResidentSadist -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 8:10:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Is this OP an example of your dry British humor? We don't have humor, we have humour. It's like humor, but better ;-) Nice catch. I can see the humor of a misusing the word.

myotherself -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 8:19:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Is this OP an example of your dry British humor? We don't have humor, we have humour. It's like humor, but better ;-) Nice catch. I can see the humor of a misusing the word. ...and that certainly is no example of British humour. There are other words I would use, but I'm allergic to gold-bordered love notes [8D]

DesFIP -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 9:19:03 AM)
Somehow, being pontificated to by a kid almost half my age whose profile shows her to not understand the difference between behavior and personality, and who claims superiority in changing personalities, is not helping me feel all warm and fuzzy.

TigressLily -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 9:52:55 AM)
Not a News Flash for anyone with half a brain, my dear. quote: ORIGINAL: AllysBaby No one is ever obligated for permanent service of any kind whether its agreed too or not. Since these are discussion forums for those posing a question and desirous of eliciting opinions & answers to said question, what then is yours? P.S. Off topic - not that there is one officially up for discussion - your profile as a lesbian Domme states you are not a FinDomme, yet you are charging for your photos because you need the money? What's up with that? _____________________________ * * * Not A Fetish/Kink Delivery System * * *

AllysBaby -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 2:55:54 PM)
I'm very new here actually I went to a munch out of town and this site was recommended so I was sharing my opinion I care nothing for anyone's foolishness. Is this sparkle person on the site still I'd love to talk to them

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 3:51:18 PM)
quote: I care nothing for anyone's foolishness. [sm=lame.gif] Not even your own? If you make your font color any lighter, it will be completely invisible.

KYsissy -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 4:25:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Is this OP an example of your dry British humor? We don't have humor, we have humour. It's like humor, but better ;-) Is that sorta like Shoppes being better than Shops?

evesgrden -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 4:38:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AllysBaby I'm very new here actually I went to a munch out of town and this site was recommended so I was sharing my opinion I care nothing for anyone's foolishness. Is this sparkle person on the site still I'd love to talk to them You go to a munch, and the people at the munch suggest you go online to meet your "one"? Well I've never heard that one before. That's quite the impression you must've made on them.....

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/29/2013 4:39:22 PM)
~FRing it~ I wonder, OP...why you feel the need to lecture others about the way they elect to live their lives? Does your nose bleed from standing so high on your soapbox? Who gave you the impression that your way was "the one twue way"?

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