JeffBC -> RE: Dominant/Submissive/Slave Permanent Service Foolishness (9/30/2013 7:40:40 AM)
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ORIGINAL: AllysBaby I will say first off that my opinion will probably tick alot of you off, I'm not here to make friends though simply to find my one, no one elses opinion matters to me. OK, I have to admit that I do not understand the purpose of posting on a discussion board if your intent is not to discuss things. You need to find yourself a pontificating board -- otherwise known as your personal blog. quote:
I have to laugh at all people who say No release permanent service required. Newsflash here folks permanent service is never required lets be honest its just what a person wants. If my future sub or slave and I end up together for all time then thats wonderful but never something I'd require. If I was a sub and decided to leave permanent service, whether I initially agreed on permanent service or not I would leave and if the Dominant had an issue he or she would be more than welcome to have an issue with a restraining order and police involvement that I would bestow on them also. I'm going to start right out by saying that my dynamic is ... well ... dynamic. I have no expectation of permanent anything. But still, I have met other couples for whom "cannot leave" is a real thing and substantially better thought out than you seem to imply. In other words, I have more experience in the BDSM world than you do. The humorous thing about that is that I have almost zero experience in the BDSM world. quote:
No one is ever obligated for permanent service of any kind whether its agreed too or not. Thats a fact. No matter what role you're in remember you can always walk away. I am a Domme and I am saying tear up contracts in any case if you are not happy. In other words, you find no binding obligation in your own promises or the promises of others. How does this square with your conception of "honor"? It's also worth pointing out that as is normal, BDSM people tend to inflate concepts. The proper phrase to describe such relationships is "will not" rather than "can not". But I, myself, am disinclined to nitpick semantics when I get the point of the phrase just fine.
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