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RE: Frustration about lack of bdsm in marriage - 7/4/2006 4:05:45 PM

findmedaddy

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So while he requested "some advice or feedback", it appears he has decided which way he's going.

Hmmmm....suddenly I feel used.

I'm smart enough. Nobody has whacked me on the nose with a newspaper for a really long time. So you'd think I'd have learned to read the *whole thread* before I write anything. Jeez.

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RE: Frustration about lack of bdsm in marriage - 7/4/2006 4:07:18 PM

LTRsubNW

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ORIGINAL: findmedaddy

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ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

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So while he requested "some advice or feedback", it appears he has decided which way he's going.

Hmmmm....suddenly I feel used.

I'm smart enough. Nobody has whacked me on the nose with a newspaper for a really long time. So you'd think I'd have learned to read the *whole thread* before I write anything. Jeez.

Well then...you have something to write home about now don't you?

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RE: Frustration about lack of bdsm in marriage - 7/4/2006 7:01:52 PM

draba

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Your wife may be submissive like mine. Eventually she will do this for you out of submissiveness.Go Slow. Do not talk about it too much. Be a husband first. Slowly worship her while having vanilla sex. Get her used to the idea of having her feet rubbed and ass kissed. Eventually she will ask you for some of those things. My wife likes to have me rub moisture cream all over her.In time ask her to be more demanding. It works and eventually you will find an equal balance. I have been seeking the advice of a friend/pro domme to get my wife into this. It has only been one year and last Sat. night my wife gave me a better session with CBT, whipping, and pussy sniffing, than my Mistress could. And my wife is submissive, but she does now like being top dog.

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RE: Frustration about lack of bdsm in marriage - 7/5/2006 6:01:55 PM

findmedaddy

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Sorry if I did something wrong.

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