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Ilyrium -> What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 4:01:21 PM)

I'm new, so, this may be a dumb question, but, I have never licked an anus before.
Is there anything, other than standard washing, that is normally done before or after?




kiwisub12 -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 4:14:11 PM)

Well - before, I usually lick and suck his penis and testicles. I try to make sure that he is really enjoying it. Other than that, no particular precautions.




kalikshama -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 4:34:49 PM)

I prefer that the receiver has washed while showering immediately before (as opposed to a quick wash). I suppose one could use an antibacterial mouthwash afterwards; this just occurred to me after reading your question.




MrRodgers -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 4:41:45 PM)

Good cleanliness really. Once really cleaned there is less bacteria in an anus then is in the mouth of the licker. And before anyone gets started, E-Coli first is a naturally occurring bacteria in humans and from what I've read...not the same as that from bad meat.




petitespot -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 5:24:44 PM)

If they ate Mexican the night before...dental floss. [&:]




ResidentSadist -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 5:53:47 PM)

No beans.




TNDommeK -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 6:04:44 PM)

Is this someone you've been with or someone you met on a night out?




zerogirl -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 6:54:58 PM)

Just showering right beforehand. But I've never done it to anyone other than Master whom I've been in a committed relationship for 6 years. I wouldn't do it for just a casual fling or a play partner.




Ilyrium -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 8:19:27 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Is this someone you've been with or someone you met on a night out?


I've never done it with anyone and I haven't even had sex for years.
I haven't met someone in years.
I lead a busy professional life, and dating isn't part of it.
That's why I'm here.




TigressLily -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 8:38:28 PM)


Listerine before & after. Before not so much if we've had cocktails (80 proof or higher). And never go from anus back to vagina--that should stay a one-way street.

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

I suppose one could use an antibacterial mouthwash afterwards; this just occurred to me after reading your question.



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CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 8:59:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Ilyrium

I'm new, so, this may be a dumb question, but, I have never licked an anus before.
Is there anything, other than standard washing, that is normally done before or after?


With someone you are fluid bonded with or not?

Fluid bonded...my bottom is shower fresh. Oh, and since I squick easily...I make bo wash me very carefully there as well, AND (you are warned that I'm a germ-o-phobe, right?) a cotton pad with hydrogen peroxide is rubbed around. Then I can relax without being badly squicked.

Am I a giver as well as receiver? Nope. [:D]

For someone I'm not in a fluid bonded relationship with (for me personally, this means he's also my boyfriend, we're monogamous, and both of us have had complete panels done for STDs)...I'd be shower fresh, ass crack lubed up and some Saran Wrap between me and the tongue.

[;)] And NEVER after I've eaten Mexican food.

For safer sex, I preferred reading Magic Johnson's book to Dr. Ruth's and others. I don't remember the title but he cannot have written many STD prevention books.







SerWhiteTiger -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/3/2013 10:52:00 PM)

I usually wipe before I make my slave lick my anus, but not always.




responsiveone -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/4/2013 5:56:24 AM)

I've never had a bad experience licking an anus, knock on wood. But my partner has been freshly showered each time. I think as long as they use soap and water their anus will probably be cleaner than the keyboard you're currently typing on.

I absolutely love listening to my partner's reactions as her anus is gently circled and penetrated by my tongue.




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/4/2013 6:20:41 AM)

I lock the door.




tsatske -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/4/2013 7:05:33 AM)

I had bad experiences with my second husband with this. He was a failure at using tp, apparently. I have had to say 'no', and make him go shower.

Never had that problem with anyone else.

if it's a new man in your life, or a quick play date, I recommend a dental dam or saran wrap. If you're fluid bonded, a shower together should suffice.




PeonForHer -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/4/2013 7:24:44 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TigressLily

Listerine before & after.



Did you know that it was the makers of 'Listerine' that invented the word 'halitosis'? They had a mild antiseptic and wanted to create a market for it. Ordinary bad breath suddenly became a 'medical syndrome'. Not relevant to the subject at hand, but nonetheless quite interesting. [:)]




CatBBW -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/4/2013 8:12:52 AM)

Take a good look to make sure you can't see any sores (like herpes) or any tiny white wiggling things (worms).




CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/4/2013 12:52:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: CatBBW

Take a good look to make sure you can't see any sores (like herpes) or any tiny white wiggling things (worms).


LOL, and here I'd been trying so hard not to mention ingesting microscopic worm eggs. My sister and I used to walk around barefoot a lot when we were kids and were forever getting pin worms (or whatever they call them). In later years, my kid caught them in special ed preschool.

These make someone's butt itch, so watch out for signs of irritation or someone scratching. It's no big deal for both of you to get a pill each from some clinic to get rid of them. I'm just saying...these could be present without anyone seeing tiny white wigglers.

Oh, and as weird as I am about germs...the person I'm with had better be less so. If he had to disinfect their mouth before and afterward, when I damn well knew I was clean...it would ruin the experience for me.

Long time ago I had a boyfriend who hated going down on women but since I loved going down on him he felt guilty for not returning the favor. Especially after guys at his job told him that he wasn't being fair and that I'd might trade up and find someone else who would "do the right thing". Anyway, what it boiled down to was...my being shower fresh...having washed with strawberry shampoo and very well rinsed, as bar soap leaves too pungent an odor for me to be comfortable with...and him insisting on going down on me. With his tongue stuck out of his face. He'd rub it around for a while, not pulling his tongue back into his mouth, leaving a huge puddle of drool all over me and the bed, then racing to the bathroom, when he figured he'd done enough, to wash his face and tongue with soap before putting his tongue back in his mouth. It. Was. A. Bitch. I hated every moment but this is what his guilt drove him to. After several times of him making me feel like sh*t, I would fight with him if he tried to insist that "tonight was the night" he would go down on me again.

If you hate it, don't do it. (Unless your partner WANTS you to hate it.) [;)]






TigressLily -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/4/2013 1:51:33 PM)


Taking precautions don't have to be a buzzkill, depending on how it's done. You can make a playful, unruined moment out of having a guy wear a condom. There are fast-dissolving breath strips where the oral servicer doesn't have to go rinse & spit out. If sobriety isn't an issue, keep a strong-enough drink on hand within arm's reach. I don't mind kissing someone who's gone down on me, but there's no way he's kissing me right after rimming.

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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia

If he had to disinfect their mouth before and afterward, when I damn well knew I was clean...it would ruin the experience for me.


Genital/vaginal cleanliness is much different than the anal region. I hear what you're saying and if some guy acted like that, I'd have a problem with it on so many levels. I can't recall ever being with anyone who fits that description, though. Even with vanilla dudes, my experience was the exact opposite in that I'd insist I had to go wash up first and they didn't want to wait. I'm usually the one who enforces maintaining basic hygienic standards. When it comes to anal, it's immature & reckless to circumvent sanitary practices, the most basic of which is to wash up thoroughly in advance. I can't imagine a partner being so grossly inconsiderate as to skip that step.

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BurntKitty -> RE: What safety precautions do you take when licking an anus? (10/4/2013 3:12:39 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ilyrium

I'm new, so, this may be a dumb question, but, I have never licked an anus before.
Is there anything, other than standard washing, that is normally done before or after?


I try to warm up and stretch my back or I can't reach. I'm not as limber as I was in my 20s.

[:D]




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