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RE: ..am i misunderstood!? ... dear Sir's... - 10/27/2013 3:15:04 AM

ladyzarah

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One question, why the hell would you think your deficient.

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RE: ..am i misunderstood!? ... dear Sir's... - 10/27/2013 5:02:08 PM

tallandsweet16

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dear ladyzarah--
thank you, kindly, for your sweet note. i will certainly reach out to you personally via email. i'd love to connect in that way and appreciate your offer very much.

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RE: ..am i misunderstood!? ... dear Sir's... - 12/28/2013 4:08:59 PM

deansgirl

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There are a lot of people on the internet and these sites who do not understand most of what they are saying. A Domm is there to teach and help the subs learn. In the end no matter what you call yourself Domm sub Master slave or daddy one can not excest without the other. Each have there needs and reasons for what they want so all who really live this kind of lifestyle should be there to help out the new ones and each other when they can.

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RE: ..am i misunderstood!? ... dear Sir's... - 1/2/2014 10:48:56 AM

D0MBLKMAN2Serve

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quote:

am i misunderstood that a true Dom and or Master would yes, exploit my deficiencies but also help me grow? learn? understand the true meaning and way to be His submissive? am i misunderstood that a true Dom would not be a bully or belittle me in my ignorance or inexperience in these pursuits? am i misunderstood in that a true Dom would challenge me, stretch me, help me grow in a firm, demanding, yet caring/non degrading way?

Hello and happy new year. Just stumbled across your query. I see lot has been said and I hope you have learnt a lot. Here's my two cents ...

I disagree with the phrase 'exploit your deficiencies' - I understand the context, but to me it seems as though you are opening up to a little bit of mind play here. A True master will NEVER exploit anything. A True master as you mentioned will challenge you to help you grow t be the person you crave to be, thereby molding you to his desired slave.
My advise is that you keep your eyes and ears open and most importantly use common sense while dealing with people online in general and on CM in particular. If it does not feel right to you, clarify and if it does not make sense then politely decline and ignore forever.
All the best in your quest,

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