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What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 2:49:24 PM   
Kitsuneboi


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Status: offline 		I have the point of view of a submissive but I want to hear what makes it great for masters?
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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 2:51:29 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		This can't be a serious question. I mean, how can you not see the advantages

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 2:52:18 PM   
petitespot


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It made him rock hard.

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 3:03:29 PM   
Kitsuneboi


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ORIGINAL: Kana

This can't be a serious question. I mean, how can you not see the advantages

Sorry, but I just dont understand, it is a serious question. ^w^ I see it to be more fun to be a sub, than dom or master.

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 3:10:16 PM   
SlipSlidingAway


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Status: offline 		People are different, it's what makes the world go 'round. While it may be more "fun" for you to be submissive, obviously for others being dominant is what does it for them. And, while there may be some overlap, you are asking a question that likely has as many different answers as there are individuals who identify as masters.

Just, as I suspect, my "viewpoint" as a submissive is completely different than yours, even though we (perchance) share the same label.

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 3:25:03 PM   
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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 3:43:48 PM   
Kitsuneboi


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ORIGINAL: SlipSlidingAway

People are different, it's what makes the world go 'round. While it may be more "fun" for you to be submissive, obviously for others being dominant is what does it for them. And, while there may be some overlap, you are asking a question that likely has as many different answers as there are individuals who identify as masters.

Just, as I suspect, my "viewpoint" as a submissive is completely different than yours, even though we (perchance) share the same label.

Yes, I am asking for all of the viewpoints that everyone has to express. I'm just interested in hearing what people really think from their view. I just want to understand something that I don't have a view of. ^w^

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 4:29:48 PM   
demiurge


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Status: offline 		as a dominant who guides and owns.. if you break up you always know "it's not you, it's me really.. gtfo"

but seriously.. as a dominant you have more control of the relationship duration
if only on a most basic level there is that

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 5:22:24 PM   
DesFIP


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It drives him crazy to see things being done wrong.
Plus he gets the blow jobs on demand. And as a rope top, he sees himself as an artist, with my body as the canvas.

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 6:11:49 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Kitsuneboi
I see it to be more fun to be a sub, than dom or master.


So, basically you equate being "a sub" as being the bottom in kinky sex.


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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 7:05:02 PM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kitsuneboi


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

This can't be a serious question. I mean, how can you not see the advantages

Sorry, but I just dont understand, it is a serious question. ^w^ I see it to be more fun to be a sub, than dom or master.

Ok. In short-I get a sex slave who can never say no to any of my most twisted perverted desires, I gain a personal assistant who makes my life easier, a maid who keeps my house clean, a cook who keeps my belly full, an object to rape, ravish and torture, a mouth that screams, holes to fuck, flesh to spindle, twist and mutilate, urethra's to torment, a cunt for gynecological exploration, an asshole to fist, knees that kneel, a slut who crawls ay my command, a beast to cage, necks to strangle, skin to sear, and a leash to hold.
I also get a best friend, a lover, a confidant, a rock on which to build a life around.
In other words, I gain the world, the sun, the moon and the stars.
Who wouldn't want that?
Hence my response.
I think that the answers to this question are so obvious as to render it moot.

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 7:11:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kitsuneboi

I have the point of view of a submissive but I want to hear what makes it great for masters?


Greetings,

The best thing is that I can just be myself. I do not have any tags on myself because then in my eyes it lessens my value in the relationship between two consenting adults. I can do what I want when I want, and she accepts that. I do not want to test, I just want it to happen naturally, then I can relax and the world spins.

Frank Ar.


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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 7:27:40 PM   
Cuffkinks


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Basically...

I do what I want and she does what I want. There's a lot more to it but as a quick overview it's really that simple.


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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 7:32:07 PM   
SlipSlidingAway


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kitsuneboi


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

This can't be a serious question. I mean, how can you not see the advantages

Sorry, but I just dont understand, it is a serious question. ^w^ I see it to be more fun to be a sub, than dom or master.

Ok. In short-I get a sex slave who can never say no to any of my most twisted perverted desires, I gain a personal assistant who makes my life easier, a maid who keeps my house clean, a cook who keeps my belly full, an object to rape, ravish and torture, a mouth that screams, holes to fuck, flesh to spindle, twist and mutilate, urethra's to torment, a cunt for gynecological exploration, an asshole to fist, knees that kneel, a slut who crawls ay my command, a beast to cage, necks to strangle, skin to sear, and a leash to hold.
I also get a best friend, a lover, a confidant, a rock on which to build a life around.
In other words, I gain the world, the sun, the moon and the stars.
Who wouldn't want that?
Hence my response.
I think that the answers to this question are so obvious as to render it moot.


LOL, while I was the one who said there were a lot of different answers, I like this one!!! ^~^

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 8:02:17 PM   
petitespot


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kitsuneboi


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

This can't be a serious question. I mean, how can you not see the advantages

Sorry, but I just dont understand, it is a serious question. ^w^ I see it to be more fun to be a sub, than dom or master.

Ok. In short-I get a sex slave who can never say no to any of my most twisted perverted desires, I gain a personal assistant who makes my life easier, a maid who keeps my house clean, a cook who keeps my belly full, an object to rape, ravish and torture, a mouth that screams, holes to fuck, flesh to spindle, twist and mutilate, urethra's to torment, a cunt for gynecological exploration, an asshole to fist, knees that kneel, a slut who crawls ay my command, a beast to cage, necks to strangle, skin to sear, and a leash to hold.
I also get a best friend, a lover, a confidant, a rock on which to build a life around.
In other words, I gain the world, the sun, the moon and the stars.
Who wouldn't want that?
Hence my response.
I think that the answers to this question are so obvious as to render it moot.

Damn it. I miss being in a relationship. I miss all of what you just described.

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 8:07:47 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		What makes someone enjoy bungee jumping? I'll never know because I don't get into that. It's just not me, not something I'm interested in. Same goes for being a Dom. It's what he's into, who he is. Not everyone enjoys the same things in life. Not every personality is exactly the same thankfully.


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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 8:16:22 PM   
TigressLily


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ORIGINAL: Kana
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In other words, I gain the world, the sun, the moon and the stars.
Who wouldn't want that?...


I'll go with Kana's more romantic side in saying I enjoy having total ownership over my lover. It's hard to describe the feeling. I should perhaps mention that I consider myself a responsible, loving Owner who does no harm. I follow my own version of the Hippocratic oath. Having control, yes, huge factor. I like being listened to. I get turned on by having my partner desire me so much that he wants to give me his all.

What can I say, I'm a possessive Scorpio. All or nothing.

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 8:39:47 PM   
Kitsuneboi


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kitsuneboi
I see it to be more fun to be a sub, than dom or master.


So, basically you equate being "a sub" as being the bottom in kinky sex.


nope. I just have already collected that info.

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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/20/2013 9:18:42 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: Kitsuneboi

I have the point of view of a submissive but I want to hear what makes it great for masters?


Well... The point of view of a submissive is rather irrelevant in relationship to a Master... We tend to have Slaves... Not subs.

Maybe you should ask what is great to be a Dom. Might have a better relationship to your point of view of being a submissive.



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RE: What makes being a master worth while? - 10/21/2013 1:50:03 AM   
SerWhiteTiger


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Status: offline 		Dominant bottoming is the most fun.

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