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Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 2:10:53 AM   
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Hello to the true Lifestylers! I'm Buck, currently single, and seeking. Submissives and slaves that are unattached may contact me at will, if you are attached, please do not contact me without your Master's permission, as the Lifestyle is NOT A GAME! if you are just "playing", I doubt you will like what I have to say about "weekend warriors" and "professional dommes" (purposely spelled in lower case type, due to my having NO respect for "their kind") TRUE Lifestylers, will receive my utmost respect at all times! :) be well All, and have a beautiful day! P.S. PLEASE don't EVEN get me started on "switchers"!!! Lol Peace! ♡♥♡

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 2:55:23 AM   
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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 2:55:53 AM   
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Hello, Buck and welcome to the forums. The first thing you need to learn are the forums rules. The rules say no cock shots for your first picture. After the first one you can post all you like. So, please remove the picture and save the Mods the trouble of having to do it for you. One way you can show that respect you talk about is obeying the rules of the site.

Please join in with the discussions. We like hearing from new people.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 2:59:30 AM   
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Lol please PLEASE, by all means, remove the photo!!! It was mistakenly posted, I tried to post my profile face pic! My sincere apologies!!!

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 3:03:49 AM   
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Lol @ "vanilla" Lol I only have 20+ years of experience, so I suppose I am vanilla! :p P.S. I'm attempting to remove the "culprit photo"! Thank you for your patience as I try to remove it! Thanks again. ~Buck~

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 3:08:07 AM   
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Welcome, buck.

Please define "true" as used in your introduction.

Thanks.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 3:13:20 AM   
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After clicki g on "edit", it says "either this feature is disabled, or you do not have permission". I'm still attempting to remo e it! Thaks.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 3:21:58 AM   
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Whew! Lok thank you for your patience! Again, my apokogies! :)

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 3:22:20 AM   
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Welcome to the discussion side Buck .

Please tell me what's wrong with 'switchers?'

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 3:24:50 AM   
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"True" Lifestylers need no explanation of the term "true" .

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 3:29:00 AM   
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Here we go ...

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 3:34:30 AM   
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The "problem" with "switchers" in my view, is... the very core of the Lifestyle is ALL about commitment, and if one can't even "commit" to one role or the other, I view them as still in their experimental stage, and that is a classic definition of "apprentice", in No way a "journeyman"! I have a problem with "Riff Raff" muddying the clear waters of B.D.S.M.! Just my view.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 4:00:35 AM   
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So in your view a switch is someone who lacks commitment? Hhhmm, I've been with my husband for 15 years and my sub for nearly 7. In my view that displays a level of commitment.

But of course *you* meant 'commitment to the role' -- and there's where you and I depart in our understanding. I don't play a role. I just am. How dominant or submissive I am is dependent on who I am interacting with.

Do I think that makes me a more flexible, fluid and volatile partner? Yes I do. Some people are like that.

That you propose 'one true way' will not get much traction here. It my very well be the way for YOU, but judging strangers you don't even know b/c they don't adhere to your way shows an extreme level of arrogance and inflexibility. These are not good personality traits for anyone, most especially for someone seeking to control another.

The good news is that this post can easily be read by anyone who may have an interest in you.


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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 4:16:05 AM   
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I see a LOT of quotes here, things that other people have said, set into profile signatures, please allow me to put one out there, I'm sorry I don't know who to attribute this to, but here goes... "I'm not so open minded that my brain falls out! :) we, you and I, do not have to interact with one another, I simply have no respect with regards to the Lifestyle, for anyone attempting to occupy BOTH sides of the coin! I will respect them as a human being, as I am being respectful right now, although in disagreement. I am just not fond of those that cannot commit to either the Dominant or submissive aspect of the Lifestyle. I highly doubt you will change my outlook, nor I yours. So please go an lead a happy and wonderful life! I wish you much happiness, and ALL the best! :) be well!

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 4:37:30 AM   
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I see, let me make sure I have this correct. You have no respect for me, even though you don't know me, b/c of a label I apply to myself, is that right?

BTW: Do you actually *know* anyone in the lifestyle? As in real time couples, not some little girly you managed to manipulate into meeting you. Are you active in your local munch, for instance?

Just wondering.



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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 4:47:26 AM   
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I see your tone deteriorating and devolving backwards, towards adolescence, which presents me with a "fork I'm the road". Do I partisipate in adolescent behavior, or do I take the "high road"? I choose the latter, and once again, wish you nothing but happiness and good fortune! :) have a splendid day!

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 4:50:34 AM   
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You don't need to deteriorate backwards Buck, just answer the questions please.

Do you actually know real human beings in this one true lifestyle of yours? As is real time, not online.



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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 4:52:50 AM   
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Oh, Buck, Buck, Buck...where to start?

Since you can't even define "True" (which appears to be very important for you) how do you expect others to understand and respect you and your views?

Was your introduction designed to inflame and incite others, or was that just a happy unintended consequence? (I suspect you like stirring the pot a bit.)

Enjoy your time on CM, and good luck in your search.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 5:01:23 AM   
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I do not like the "Munch atmosphere", as it only brings me into close proximity with the very people I view as slowly but surely destroying the Lifestyle little by little! I could go on an on, on the subject, but I see no productive reason to do so. My "hardline" views on the subject has no bering on your everyday life, so feel free to go be a "domme" one moment, "and a "sub" the next! :) this will be my final post of the day on the subject. be well! :)

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 5:03:34 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

So in your view a switch is someone who lacks commitment? Hhhmm, I've been with my husband for 15 years and my sub for nearly 7. In my view that displays a level of commitment.

But of course *you* meant 'commitment to the role' -- and there's where you and I depart in our understanding. I don't play a role. I just am. How dominant or submissive I am is dependent on who I am interacting with.

Do I think that makes me a more flexible, fluid and volatile partner? Yes I do. Some people are like that.

That you propose 'one true way' will not get much traction here. It my very well be the way for YOU, but judging strangers you don't even know b/c they don't adhere to your way shows an extreme level of arrogance and inflexibility. These are not good personality traits for anyone, most especially for someone seeking to control another.

The good news is that this post can easily be read by anyone who may have an interest in you.



Wow. ++1 Thank you!
I consider myself a Switch and pretty much have since I joined this site and had to choose something haha. I do tend to lean heavily towards my submissive side, almost to the point where I would just consider myself a submissive, but like you, depending on the person I am with or the situation I'm in, I might find myself leaning towards the other way (usually if that person happens to be more submissive). Hm but wow, I am so surprised to discover I'm not actually into BDSM but am just some kind of imposter on this site.  -_-

Mr.Buck, everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I think it's a little unfair and hurtful for you to just say Switches aren't really into BDSM or are 'muddying the waters'. Also, some people are actually into other things you might not be into, such as professional domination, and that doesn't mean they are fake or something either. For example, there could be someone who is truly dominant and has been for years and then found that subs were very willing and wanting to pay for her to spank them or something. In this example, does that mean the Domme or the sub is being fake or are not 'really into bdsm?' It seems they are both happy so what's the problem? Or how about the times I visited Tokyo and hung out in fetish bars through the night, talking with others about kinky interests, getting tied with rope or playing in other ways ;), and sometimes even getting partially nude or changing into a sexy outfit... But when I got on the subway the next morning or went other places, of course I wore clothes and no one knew where I had been or what I was into. Does that mean I'm fake or don't belong here?
Everyone has their own kinks, and yes some people are even into financial domination or enjoy going to the local club on Saturday and getting a nice spanking or chatting with others before going back to their own personal life/work the next week.

This is also just my opinion, but I think the "true" way in this lifestyle is to be true to yourself.

Welcome to the forums and good luck with what you are looking for.

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