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BrooklinePrisone -> How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 10:34:22 AM)
I am desperate to be tied up naked. That is all I personally want. What happens after that I do not care. I am sorry if this sounds like a personal ad but I have tried may personals and I have no luck. I am pathetic, crazy, stupid and passive. I try to offer everything to my body. I offer NO LIMITS. I accept Sadists to be as cruel and evil and they can torture me any what they want. I am not a masochist that loves pain. I don't like pain but I understand others like to inflict incredible pain to others so I made a custom gag that fills my mouth so I can bite down and muffle my screams. I especially expect cock and ball and nipple torture. With no limits I understand that could inflict castration but I just hope that my genitals were kept so I can be continuous torture. Same with snuff. I can be killed only once. Other than that I can not think any other restrictions I could hope for. I understand when I submit and be bound those two are on the table. I accept anything but I do have a couple things I can hope for. First I should be bound with my legs wide. This is to leave my private parts open for business so anyone can torture my cock and balls as severe as anyone can imagine something to me. I expect guys but I also think that when I am helpless and gender, age or race and participate. I know women do not have cock and balls and the can be fascinated to play with these. And as they do not have any themselves they never have the concept what torture there is like so they can inflict pain so hard and they have no concept the feeling pain there is done. Women can be empowered and torture males for fun or for revenge if they were raped themselves. With a strap on they can rape a male's hole and be much satisfaction for Female Power against males. again, I am pathetic and they can do anything they want to do to me. I am mature so I am not longer young and cute. I am tall and HWP so I am not overweight. I am mostly smooth except some light hair on my legs, I have pubic hair, an average cock and balls, I have some hair around my nipple and the rest are mainly smooth. I do not describe my face as I have hoods to cover my head except my mouth. I should be bound with my legs wide so my private pparts are open for business. I was assaulted and I have Traumatic Brain Injury so I lost my emotions and many other problems so I feel pathetic and a loser and I do not work so I have lots of free time. I lost my apartment after 16 years and I am just in a small studio for Section 8 so I can not host and have to go out somewhere. I can not relocation because it is very hard to find the right kind of place I live but I can be bound for almost all year round I can stay away but I just have some things I have to do to maintain my housing. I have minimum income so I can not really afford traveling too much. For that I think of an owner keep me bound and available and my owner can invite others can use and abuse me for my owner's benefits. but I am stupid enough that I can submit for anything for free. I have collected lots of BDSM equipment small enough to put in a backpack. I can not afford large devices like a fuck machine if I was kept bound and the machine is kept running in my hole for days if I am not being used for other things. I can bring cages or suspension equipment or other furniture in good situations. Many are discreet but I expect to be exposed in filthy pictures taken of me in action. And record videos of me in extreme torture scenes that could me taboo so adult shops can not handle scenes that extreme. Then my pictures and videos can be uploaded so the world can see how pathetic I am and expose me to the public. I think of a dungeon with webcams in many angles so a slave/prisoner can be broadcast live shows. Maybe a website with Sadist members to watch live actions and they can suggest situations they want to watch and I can be suffering they can enjoy. I am sorry for writing so much but I have to show how desperate and need to submit and I have no luck so I ask for advice so I can be submit to things I fear but expect. I can imagine many things that would cause my post deleted. So please help me how I can submit more and get tied up that is all I need but what others will do to me much more. Thank you very much everyone.

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 10:39:20 AM)
Just keep posting the same lengthy fantasy with slight variations in wording, over and over to the same audience, despite the fact that it has been received very poorly just a day or two before, and repeatedly removed from the forums. Dominants love people who are so busy thinking about their own sexual gratification that they totally ignore everyone else's preferences. That's hot in a sub.

MsLadySue -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 10:47:41 AM)
How many times do you have to be told that CollarChat is NOT the place for your desperate personal ad? CollarChat is just what it states, a chat forum.

DarkSteven -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 10:57:13 AM)
The definition of insanity is trying the same thing repeatedly and hoping for different results.

Apocalypso -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 11:19:40 AM)
Do we think he's actually reading the replies in between masturbating?

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 11:44:28 AM)
I'm sure he's scanning on the offchance that one of us wants to do what he wants.

OsideGirl -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 11:45:31 AM)
I'll be blunt. You bring nothing to the table. Why would someone want to be with someone that is basically a black hole?

BrooklinePrisone -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 1:08:02 PM)
Thank you very much everyone. Yes I did post a couple similar messages and I each are removed for some of the things I said that is against the rules that I was not aware. that is why I wrote this time i hoped this can stay and others can help me. No I am not just writing things so I can masturbate about this. I do not masturbate. Yes I understand this is not for personals. I am asking for help here. I wrote that sound like a personals or a fantasy dream land but I just need to explain what I feel I am a loser and pathetic. Yes I am crazy. I have previously mistakenly mention my age history since and each time it is quickly removed. That is why I tried to write one that is proper and will stay and replied. I am not trying to be a pest and keep writing here but I ruins the message with against the rule. So I keep writing a message that will stay and others will reply so I can understand what I am doing wrong. I try to write to my own journey so others will contact me that way. This is a place to Ask a Master and I ask for help. I do absolutely read all replies so I can find some help. If I just want to write fantasies I can write those to my journal. I am sorry if my post is too long. I just try to write honestly, explain my problem and hope for help. I know one problem is I write too long messages and ads. But I want others to know what I am and what I deserve. I am not looking for things that are just fun. I am very serious. And yes before others suggest I seek professional help I have mental help but my physical brain can not be repaired. I have many doctors I see very often. Four or five monthly. Most are not related to this issue except my psychiatrist and she is mostly concerned that I am not suicidal. I do not want to die. But it is on the table of NO LIMITS if I am helpless. I want to have a long life as my dad is in his 90's and he is still going. I should be as old and being bound and tortured that long. I should stop writing now so others can reply and help me without the criticism. Or maybe that is what I need. It is up to you.

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 1:21:19 PM)
While it's sad that you're not getting what you want, this isn't something we can help you with. As the others have said, you are bringing nothing to the table. In your various threads you have told us you have elaborate fantasies, no limits (this is a bad thing), mental illness, no job, not willing to travel etc etc. In short you are far too unhealthy to sustain a relationship and no one wants to act out your fantasies as a charitable act. In fact, even if what you were offering was attractive, many people would question your ability to give informed consent and/or carry out basic personal safety. The type of person who would do what you want right now, are exactly the type of people you do NOT want to be involved with. If your team of doctors can't fix these massive issues, why do you think strangers on a kinky website would be able to help you? This isn't snark, this is honesty. No matter how many times you post it, you're not going to get your answers here, you need much more personalised and in-depth support than a message board.

LadyPact -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 1:27:11 PM)
OP, I think the reason that you are not finding people who are willing to engage with you is because if you are crazy like you say, that means you don't have the mental capacity of consent. Perhaps now that you've removed the references in your post that violate ToS, this one will remain and it won't be permitted to be posted again.

angelikaJ -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 1:53:52 PM)
I am not sure if I am understanding what you actually want: You say that what you want is to be tied helpless. Many people desire that. Many people experience that. But you add in that when you are being tied helpless you have "no limits". Is that because you are actually craving the things that are most often on people's list of limits, or is it because you are so desperate to be tied helpless that you don't care what the cost is? If you want to be just tied helpless, if you are patient enough, you will probably find somebody...eventually If you want the items that are on most people's list of hard limits, then that is another issue. In either case, it is something that you should be discussing with one of your mental health professionals, both to help with the obsessive quality and the issue that you basically have no sense of self-preservation. edit: clarity

MistressDarkArt -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 2:27:54 PM)
Dude, you have a boatload of issues that overposting on the message boards won't fix so stop repeating every single gruesome detail over and over hoping THIS time will be different. One little tip: YOU may feel desperate, but well-balanced folks won't find that attractive or want to have anything to do with it. Get a handle on your problems before you get yourself into real trouble you might not be able to get out of. Best of luck.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 2:34:31 PM)
BrooklinePrisone, You come across as dick-centric and, yes, all about you and no one else. I'm not your target audience, I realize that, but I don't know of any Dominants you'd appeal to. You come across as all about you and your dick, totally uninterested in what you can do for a prospective Dom or what you can bring to a dynamic or relationship. Those are not really attractive qualities in anyone. Good luck with your endeavors, but I don't see you hitting pay dirt any time soon. NBMG

SeekingTrinity -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 2:55:24 PM)
All I want to know is... How in the hell did you manage typing ALL of that with only one hand? [8\|] You seriously need to find yourself a hobby. Dominants are not really interested in Do-Me submissives. And you are, without a doubt, the KING of Do-Me subs. Not a title you want if you are serious. This comes off as needy and rather sad. You may want to consider hiring a professional dominant who will do you your way. Just how many of these ads disguised as forum discussions are you planning on posting per week anyway? You just did this shit on the 22nd

punisher440 -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 3:19:47 PM)
Dear OP...please for the love of God, stop [image]local://upfiles/1191351/AECB83C297054643B1FDE5FE78A62F88.gif[/image]

BrooklinePrisone -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 3:29:09 PM)
Thank you everyone. It does give me things to think of. I am sorry if I write too much gruesome things. Health issues I am dealing well with many of my specialists. I have almost a dozen operations this summer just for Melanoma I was diagnosed. I have an upcoming operation for a hernia, I have to see a specialist for cataracts and in a second hospital a specialist check regularly just for my rectum and I am regularly see infection disease to keep me in good shape. So my health is well taken care of. Thank you for the concerns. I never say I am unwilling to travel. on the contrary, I am willing for anywhere. it is the financial issue that keep me from traveling as often as I can. I do not have a passport so I can not leave the country and I do not like to travel by plane due to security check ins and bringing my toys and explaining about things. I already accept the fate if I find myself in situations I can not escape about. I already had one person here in a different country that will torture me and could kill me if it was just not the one time and it can not be done again. So that it is not very helpful. I should be kept alive. I do admit honestly that I do not care what happens to me. And no I do not crave what could happen. I am very nervous what could be done to me. You say it perfect that I basically have no sense of self-preservation. There is nothing I can do to help that. I can not have emotions to care. I just have to accept that situation. I do not know if I have the mental capacity to consent. People think I am normal enough to be aware to be independent. Why are no limits a bad thing? I am curious about far too unhealthy to sustain a relationship. What is unhealthy and isn't a relationship is for people and not just the thing I am? people can very happy having just things with no relationships. Does everyone have to consider a body a person and not just a thing to be used? This is very useful here and i appreciate all of your comments. I pay much attention what other say to me. It is very important to me. Thank you all.

kitzune -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 3:33:28 PM)
Oftentimes a person who displays a desire to be used, and treated like they are nothing, communicates that they have a deep feeling of self loathing. This might not be you I am describing, but it was me... about three years ago. Just please please know that you do not have to be nothing "before" you can be something. I cannot address your "being tied up" needs, sorry, it's not my thing.

MasterCaneman -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 3:41:19 PM)
OP, seriously, there is nothing that anyone here can do for you other than what the above posters already said. What you may not be seeing is that your desperation for what you desire is precisely what is keeping you from achieving it. That, and some pretty deep-seated mental issues that you HAVE to address if you're to ever come close to your goal. You need to find another outlet for this energy, something productive, that can balance your desire with the means to achieve it. A couple days back, another person gave a reply to a gentleman in a similar quandary, and it went something like 'getting control of your internal motivations', or something like that. For what it's worth, in order to achieve your goal: fix your head, heal your body, find an external locus to expend your nervous energy on, and stabilize your life. Once you don't "need" to have this, your chances of finding it will increase. Good luck.

Missokyst -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 4:50:36 PM)
Why don't you help yourself and hire a professional? Seriously, if you want fetish delivery on demand it is far easier to pay for the pleasure. Save up your money and just make it happen. quote: ORIGINAL: BrooklinePrisone that is why I wrote this time i hoped this can stay and others can help me.

fetisheden -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 5:25:05 PM)
lol.stop it with all this common sense & good advice.he should just keep doing what he's doing & one day he'll run into his dream fetish delivery system all for free. quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Why don't you help yourself and hire a professional? Seriously, if you want fetish delivery on demand it is far easier to pay for the pleasure. Save up your money and just make it happen. quote: ORIGINAL: BrooklinePrisone that is why I wrote this time i hoped this can stay and others can help me.

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