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sharing a slave - 7/2/2006 3:53:54 PM   
leChien


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Status: offline 		hi again to all. i was curious about this, are you Mistresses sharing your slaves with your Mistress friends? if you are, what do you think? why do you sharing your slave? what do you think your slave feels? at last, is this a punishment? thank you for reading these lines.
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RE: sharing a slave - 7/2/2006 4:25:14 PM   
jamesthehumanrug


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ORIGINAL: leChien

hi again to all. i was curious about this, are you Mistresses sharing your slaves with your Mistress friends? if you are, what do you think? why do you sharing your slave? what do you think your slave feels? at last, is this a punishment? thank you for reading these lines.

chien
....greetings ,le chien,
,of course its a share slave agenda sometimes;
what!?;....
the tops'"friends" are bottoms? and have no use for you(the slave) ;?
don't you share your possesions ,with your friends?

it's a given, but, i would'nt ask ,for anything, if i were you(or the slave in any matter) ...,cause, it seems to mean ,too much to you ....

< Message edited by jamesthehumanrug -- 7/2/2006 4:27:21 PM >

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/2/2006 5:13:49 PM   
Misstoyou


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ORIGINAL: leChien

are you Mistresses sharing your slaves with your Mistress friends?



No.

But "applicants" offer to do it all the time.


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RE: sharing a slave - 7/2/2006 5:23:14 PM   
HouseofBear


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Status: offline 		Actually, since I am one half of a dominant heterosexual couple, I only share with my partner chuckles.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/2/2006 5:34:45 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I dont share my pets.  I am in a poly relationship witha  fellow Dom, and he has considered sharing his with me... when he has them. However my boy is not community property. But, since neither of them are bi or curious... its never been much of an issue.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/2/2006 5:49:37 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		I share only with my girlfriend - just as she only shares with me.  We don't have any friends who would be interested, even if we were interested in sharing.  Like Marie though, we often have applicants offer

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 8:33:05 AM   
MsKatHouston


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quote:

hi again to all. i was curious about this, are you Mistresses sharing your slaves with your Mistress friends?


I occasionally share my submissives with trusted friends, yes. 

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if you are, what do you think?


About what?

quote:

why do you sharing your slave? 


Because a friend had a particular need that I was in a position to fulfill.  Just as if a friend needed to borrow an outfit or needed money.  I can be generous with those who are close to me and with whom I trust.

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what do you think your slave feels?


Thankful that he is so useful.  Honored to know that I think highly enough of him to share with friends, something I would not do if the slave would somehow not reflect well on ME.  Trusting that I would not loan him to someone who would abuse the exchange. 

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at last, is this a punishment?


Certainly not.  I am the only person who punishes my slave.  If someone else feels it is warranted, they can discuss it with me and I will decide on any action and it is a private issue between me and my slave.  If I share my slave, it's an honor and both the slave and other Dominant are generally appreciative of that.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 8:58:08 AM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: leChien

hi again to all. i was curious about this, are you Mistresses sharing your slaves with your Mistress friends? if you are, what do you think? why do you sharing your slave? what do you think your slave feels? at last, is this a punishment? thank you for reading these lines.


This assumes that I or anyone else has "mistress friends".

I have friends, male and female, kinky and not, but I don't have anyone I consider a "mistress friend" because I actually have very negative opinions of most of the female tops/doms in my immediate area after interacting with them for over six years.

There are a few female dominants that I respect and admire who do not live in my immediate area but because I cannot interact with them face-to-face, I do not consider them friends only acquaintances or colleagues. When I meet them at conventions and events though, I have no problem telling Fox to help them with things nor would I have a problem with him playing with them if that was a mutualy designed thing on his and their part.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 6:47:55 PM   
Evanesce


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quote:

hi again to all. i was curious about this, are you Mistresses sharing your slaves with your Mistress friends? if you are, what do you think? why do you sharing your slave? what do you think your slave feels? at last, is this a punishment? thank you for reading these lines.


I have two dominant female friends who fairly regularly hand me the leash to their slave/husbands.  Why?  Because they can.  Because their slave may have requested it.  Because I do things these women do not.  Because we're at a party and they may be too tired to do more but their slave is still craving more play time and I'm available.  Because their slave has offended me in some way in the past and I am being given an opportunity to make them atone for their offense.  These are but a handful of perfectly valid reasons for handing one's slave to another.
 
As a slave, the reason my Master might hand me over to someone else is irrelevant to me.  How would it make me feel?  Since I know He would not  hand me over to someone He did not trust, I know I'm safe, so I'm free to revel in the feeling of objectification such a transaction creates in me. 

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 8:42:12 PM   
MaleModel


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Status: offline 		Being shared with Mistress's close friends is expected of me, and it is something I'm enthusiastic about.  At this point in my development, being shared with strangers, one of Mistress's fantasies, would be pushing my boundaries.......but this will probably happen sometime.
 
It IS an honor to serve Mistress's close friends.  I was a birthday present just a few nights ago, and I was so pleased when I returned to our house.......Mistress was so proud of me!

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 10:09:20 PM   
MistressWolfen


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Status: offline 		No dog, I do not...nor do many of my Domme friends. Having said that, many many male subs seem to obsess on this issue (bless their little misdirected selves) and it would appear that you are one collecting naughty stories, "tu devrais avoir honte". In english we call this wanking fodder *evil sideways grin*

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 10:13:31 PM   
MistressWolfen


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Status: offline 		ooo hurrah......and did you serve all the Mistresses in a noble fashion that was immediately honourific to your Mistress and just a wee bit self satisfying to yourself?

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 10:52:43 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear leChien, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Sharing is broad in it's application.
 
Most Masters and Mistresses don't share slaves however, at times loan them within the full view and knowledge of the owner, such as sending the slave into the kitchen to help the other Mistress's slave with assembling a meal or to do tasks, like lifting heavy things as well as serving in different capacities. 
 
It is most rare that Mistresses and or Masters share slaves/submissives in a sexual manner.  I know I would not share my slaves in a sexual capacity nor would I ever dream of other Mistresses or Masters sharing their slaves with me in a sexual manner.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 
 
 
 

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 10:58:32 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I love sharing when it's someone else's slave who is being shared with me.  But I don't share my own.  What's mine is mine; others can find their own toys to play with.

quote:

ORIGINAL: leChien

hi again to all. i was curious about this, are you Mistresses sharing your slaves with your Mistress friends? if you are, what do you think? why do you sharing your slave? what do you think your slave feels? at last, is this a punishment? thank you for reading these lines.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 11:02:33 PM   
MaleModel


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ooo hurrah......and did you serve all the Mistresses in a noble fashion that was immediately honourific to your Mistress and just a wee bit self satisfying to yourself?


They are not all Mistresses.......just friends of my Mistress who already had, or developed, a liking for submissive males.
 
If I didn't serve them in a satisfying manner, then I would have done my Mistress and myself a disservice.
 
Yes, it was very satisfying to me to be objectified in this way......it's a characteristic that Mistress and I share and play on frequently >>>>> thank goodness <<<<<

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/3/2006 11:22:15 PM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: leChien

hi again to all. i was curious about this, are you Mistresses sharing your slaves with your Mistress friends? if you are, what do you think? why do you sharing your slave? what do you think your slave feels? at last, is this a punishment? thank you for reading these lines.


I get a great deal of pleasure out of sharing a man with girlfriends or "vanilla curious" friends so long as the entire episode is not a self indulgent wank fest for the guy who happens to have a huge fetish for objectification. 

This is one of those hot areas where I've found that the men I want to do this most with consider it a pretty hard limit, one that has to be slowly stripped away through the building of trust and friendships, a level of comfort and a lot of guts on the part of the man. Those subs that immediately want to jump into it and volunteer readily don't view it as any challenge, surrender or sacrifice for me; it's just a hot wank fantasy coming true.

Actually, I may one day have a rule that any guy I "allow" to submit to my pretty girlfriends or groups of women as part of a humiliation fantasy of mine must also be willing to do it to a group of MEN.  That will reduce the numbers dramatically.

Akasha


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RE: sharing a slave - 7/4/2006 7:09:08 AM   
TrustLoveAlways


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Status: offline 		I have shared my boy in the past with those that I trust a great deal.  In fact, I let my mother-in-law borrow my boy to have him clean her house.  And my mother has joked about borrowing him for the same purpose.  However, I am usually present when anyone borrows my boy.  :)

Mz. Patti

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/4/2006 3:29:14 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		First, I will share onlty with a friend Mistress.  and only if he is agreeable. 
Sometimes he makes mention that he would like to serve one of my friends.  He is not too approach them.. if I think my friend would be interested, I'll ask her.

The only time it would be punishement, would be if he didn't WANT to :)  And I do avoid that scenario.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/4/2006 3:39:47 PM   
WhiteRadiance


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Actually, I may one day have a rule that any guy I "allow" to submit to my pretty girlfriends or groups of women as part of a humiliation fantasy of mine must also be willing to do it to a group of MEN.  That will reduce the numbers dramatically.

Akasha

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This is an excellent idea and I hope you do not mind if I borrow it and put it to good use! 

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/4/2006 6:13:09 PM   
leChien


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Status: offline 		first thank you very much for answering my questions, i've learned much from this answers ( everyone has her/his own way). i really appreciate your answers. i love to answer some questions of you
-MsKatHouston said "about what?" i think i should write "how do you feel?" instead of "what do you think?". thank you again for answering my questions one by one.

- another question (if it was a one) some of you think that slaves enjoy and desire to be shared, but i do not. i love to serve just to my Goddess, which i also wish i could be her one slave. but it is hard i think for a slave to be sufficient to a Master/Mistress on her/his own.  

if i missed a question please notify me. and again thank you all.

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