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RE: sharing a slave - 7/4/2006 6:18:20 PM

leChien

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong...........
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"If you want to know what lies on the road ahead, ask those coming back"

thats what i am searching for. experience...thank you for your answer.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/10/2006 2:48:08 AM

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greeting to all

this is a dream of many submissives and slaves the one slave i had when he was coming he would beg to have another domme to serve tea or food or even oral service to all of the women. he wants to do this in his mind and also in real life but he would not dare knowing i would beat his ass for thinking like this i do let him fansty about it. but i do not share anything. I kknow many dommes who will have their slave do many thing with other but many do not they love and care for them to me if you love and care for you slave i would not let him orally serve someone std's
so that is my answer

good post dear
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RE: sharing a slave - 7/10/2006 3:05:17 AM

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I have in the past shared my slaves with My friends..... but never sexually.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/10/2006 4:25:55 AM

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hi i am a slave who doesnt mind being loaned outto another Mistress so long as the Mistress im with has the upmost and a lot of Confidence inme and my actions , she after all knows its her that i will be coming home to when the evening is finished .

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/10/2006 6:02:37 AM

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I have only shared my boys/gurls when I have been present. I only share with my best friend and she with me. We have a bond between us and full knowledge of each others needs, desires, limits. My boys/gurls have always considered it an honor that I offer to share them. It is limited to s/m play and/or strapons, neither of us has an interest in using the others slave sexually.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/11/2006 12:02:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: mons

greeting to all

this is a dream of many submissives and slaves the one slave i had when he was coming he would beg to have another domme to serve tea or food or even oral service to all of the women. he wants to do this in his mind and also in real life but he would not dare knowing i would beat his ass for thinking like this i do let him fansty about it. but i do not share anything. I kknow many dommes who will have their slave do many thing with other but many do not they love and care for them to me if you love and care for you slave i would not let him orally serve someone std's
so that is my answer

good post dear
mons

this is really important. can we say a sharing mistress does not loves/cares for her slave?

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/11/2006 12:10:25 PM

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hello everyone.i have a slave in collarme that serves me as my slave.she is bi-sexual also and has wanted to feal what it is like to serve a Mistress .i do wish to give her the chance.if there is any Mistresses who would be willing to help.please message me here on collarme,my name here is MasterTim2001.or you can talk to me at yahoo my name there is MasterTim51.

thank you and hope to hear from someone.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/12/2006 1:58:56 PM

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As a male slave i would like very much to be shared with my owners friends and loaned out to do menial housework. This is not something i would ask my owner to do however. It would have to be for her benefit and/or amusement.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/12/2006 3:18:06 PM

Vendaval

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Since My boy is a manly-man-body-builder-type, I frequently have
him assist with set-up and tear town at local play parties and
social dinners. He enjoys the attention and being able to help
the other Dom/mes, some of whom have physical mobility
limitations.

I am willing to have him play with others provided that I am
present for the negotiation and the Scene.

Sexual sharing would require safer sex and a high level of
trust and communication between all parties.

And no, punishment is not part of the equation.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/12/2006 6:24:34 PM

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I kknow many dommes who will have their slave do many thing with other but many do not they love and care for them to me if you love and care for you slave i would not let him orally serve someone std's
so that is my answer

good post dear
mons
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this is really important. can we say a sharing mistress does not loves/cares for her slave?
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Le chien:

A sharing Mistress can most definitely be a caring Mistress.

Ms. L and I are in a loving relationship. She gradually pushed me to where I pleasure her best friend orally and let her do what she wants with me--but no intercourse or strap-on play. Ms. L sets up the playdates, I comply, but always come back to bed with my lover.

The 3 of us are on very good terms, but the love flows only between Ms. L and me. Ms.L made it so comfortable for me to be the sex toy that I've now done 2 of her other friends as well.

I don't see any contradication between being used by Mistress' close friends and being in love with Mistress only. More complicated? Yes, but not a contradiction as everyone knows their role.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/12/2006 7:01:24 PM

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Have I ever shared My sub/slaves?
Yes, but only with those Dominants I respected and could be confident in their level of experience and expertise.

Why did I share?
To enrich My sub/slaves experiences by giving them the opportunity to taste differing Domination styles. To offer a Dominant friend the opportunity to play with someone who they could be confident was properly trained. Occasionally I offered up My sub/slave for use to another Dominant for the sheer indulgence of My voyueristic nature.

How do I think the sub/slave felt?
I make it a habit of mentioning this possibility very early in any relationship so it is known to be something that could concievably happen at any given time. As I promote open communication with all My sub/slaves I have never recieved any negative feedback on their experiences. Though I often hear " it was nice, but not like when You do it Mistress." Which I have to admit strokes My ego.

Sharing as a punishment?
I have never considered this a punishment, I view it as a reward, because I would not think of sharing someone who was less than worthy of My high standards with anyone I respected. Though in one instance I had a boy who insulted a close Domme friend of Mine at a party and I turned him over to Her for punishment. He recieved two punishments that night, one from the Domme he insulted, and one from Me for being an embarassment.

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RE: sharing a slave - 7/12/2006 9:12:19 PM

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Flame73:

You present very good reasons for sharing your subs. And limiting it essentially to Dominants you know well, and communicating it to the sub clearly, are sure to make it a more positive experience for all involved.

But what about emotional ties? Has sharing ever interfered with those, or produced jealousy? Just curious, since your views are so close to those of my Mistress.

MM

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