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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/12/2013 6:24:35 PM

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David, are you looking for a business transaction? Does the thought of sending some woman money just get your juices flowing?

If the answer to both is "no" then do not send money.

If the answer is "yes" then all I can say is "Hey, whatever creams your twinkie"

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/15/2013 5:10:04 PM

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There are so many Dommes on CM that require a payment (paypal) before meeting them. I've never done this because on the top of the page is a WARNING not to give money to anyone for any reason. I was wondering if anyone has given them money before meeting, such as transferring money into their paypal account? If so, did she show up for the meeting?

You will NEVER meet them this way ... some on the boards will tell you it is a Fin-Domme way. Don't believe it.

It is a pure Con ... you will pay, pay pay ...

Just take Otters advice ... that will pay far bigger dividends. Even if it is only a Pro Domme where thing ...

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/15/2013 5:25:48 PM

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David, you seem like a very nice gentleman. Plus you are polite, articulate, and not bad on the eyes, either

If you weren't way the hell over on the left coast I'd at least chat you up to see if we had anything in common.

Please take others advice and get involved in your local community. I know that first step is hard, but it can reap great results.

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/20/2013 10:59:13 PM

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If you really want to pay money then just go out with a gold digger, or a prostitute, same thing in my opinion.

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/21/2013 4:05:48 AM

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A true pro domme will not charge you just to speak with you, the buying of Yahoo IDs or Skype is crazy to me. I do charge for my services online and off, but I provide the service and do not flake off like most fakes would. If they are asking you for money just to have a conversation, most of the time you will not get one. I will talk to anyone that messages me, and I never ask for a tribute for a conversation. I am also not a prostitute, I provide a service that many enjoy. It is their choice to inquire about it.

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/21/2013 4:58:40 AM

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I hate to hijack the thread, but welcome to the forums, MissNatasha!

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/21/2013 5:45:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissNatasha313

A true pro domme will not charge you just to speak with you, the buying of Yahoo IDs or Skype is crazy to me. I do charge for my services online and off, but I provide the service and do not flake off like most fakes would. If they are asking you for money just to have a conversation, most of the time you will not get one. I will talk to anyone that messages me, and I never ask for a tribute for a conversation. I am also not a prostitute, I provide a service that many enjoy. It is their choice to inquire about it.

And what service do they enjoy from you?

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/21/2013 7:03:56 AM

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Whatever she feels the need and want to do to them. If she isn't accepting money for sex, then guess what cupcake..it ain't prostitution.

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/21/2013 2:40:17 PM

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Did someone mention .... floats your boat?

Water ... especially Great lakes water! Works wonders for me!

That said, to the OP .. my gosh there are a thousand variations to this theme (scheme).

All I can share is ... in my life, I have met Pro Dommes before for Dinner ... just to get to know each other and see if we have an interest. And years ago I was a personal slave of a Pro Domme. Although She would have been better described as both lifestyle and Pro ...

So I know money does change hands.

But heavens to Murgatroyd ... don't fall into this online only, pay first stuff!

You will spend lots of cash before you learn how dumb you are for doing it. That warning you mention is real.

If you are really interested in learning and/or exploring, Otter and LP pointed you in the right direction. I might add you will also meet Pro/Lifestyle Dommes there too.

Have at and enjoy .. but I hope you make sure your boat is floating on something real ... like, say .... water?

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/21/2013 2:45:11 PM

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Yup, I mentioned "float your boat". And you quoted "heavens to mugatroyd" which I remember being uttered by Snagglepuss . Le sigh. I really miss those cartoons.

Sorry about the off topic skid Mods. But it's Snagglepuss after all!!

Exit stage left....

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/21/2013 5:12:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: David92506

There are so many Dommes on CM that require a payment (paypal) before meeting them. I've never done this because on the top of the page is a WARNING not to give money to anyone for any reason. I was wondering if anyone has given them money before meeting, such as transferring money into their paypal account? If so, did she show up for the meeting?

I require a payment before I meet a Domme....no corporate signatures allowed.

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/22/2013 1:53:05 AM

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Payment and a blow job^^^

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/22/2013 7:59:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo

All I can share is ... in my life, I have met Pro Dommes before for Dinner ... just to get to know each other and see if we have an interest. And years ago I was a personal slave of a Pro Domme. Although She would have been better described as both lifestyle and Pro ...

So I know money does change hands.

But heavens to Murgatroyd ... don't fall into this online only, pay first stuff!

You will spend lots of cash before you learn how dumb you are for doing it. That warning you mention is real.

If you are really interested in learning and/or exploring, Otter and LP pointed you in the right direction. I might add you will also meet Pro/Lifestyle Dommes there too.

THIS ^^

Perhaps one of the best posts on the subject that I've seen to date -- perhaps because it's anecdotal and ths is oe of those situations where that carries some weightl

Words of wisdom..

The old "Good judgement comes from experience, and Experience comes from bad judgement" (that's one of my faves)

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RE: Dommes That Require Payment Before Meeting - 11/22/2013 5:58:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

Yup, I mentioned "float your boat". And you quoted "heavens to mugatroyd" which I remember being uttered by Snagglepuss . Le sigh. I really miss those cartoons.

Sorry about the off topic skid Mods. But it's Snagglepuss after all!! Exit stage left....

Yes, You did mention "float your boat" LOL ... and I could not resist that chance to create a smile.

Yet thanks for reminding us of who uttered those famous words .... "heavens to mugatroyd"

Was trying to remember myself, and could not!

Thank You very much!!!!

Now, I exit ... stage left!

Sorry mods, for the intrusion.

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