DsCouple23
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ORIGINAL: nomorefindommes To the OP-- give up. It's not worth it. No one cares. Read into what this "community" has to say. There is a refrain if you read enough of these type of threads. Here is a quick breakdown to save you some time. (I am the crusader of thoughtless research!) Don't think the brainiacs around here missed your point that people are misrepresenting themselves. They know, they just don't care. 1. Most of the people here are here for the forums and have very little connection to the "other side". You know way over there on collarme.com. Most already have their own situations and if you weren't smart enough to find your mates like that you will be ridiculed. 2. The general consensus here for anything that doesn't apply to this "side" is apathy. This is a pretty unique from what I have seen. Most communities try to police their sites, and do so pretty successfully. Here though caring about the "other" side is seen as a weakness. 3. Anyone who repeats themselves or a topic on this 'side' is anathema. Don't try to argue or reason with them it won't get you anywhere. You are person number 9000 to come through here and complain about a growing number of problems on the other side. 4.The people on here for the most part get off on ridiculing those who have an interest in the other side. This goes for the moderators as well. At least the moderators on this side, whether directly or indirectly. So I say give up. Don't lose too much sleep over it though. The group in question is about 50 strong and most of them live on here. Give up on the other side as well. It may seem odd that the people in this forum are more vested in the competition (another well known site), but it is true. The inmates in this case do run the asylum, and the guards work for them. Wow, that couldn't be more spot on. Here's how i combat the other side "hide profile" button works wonders. Any sub who has a colored backround =99% fake, also if they have their ymsngr i insta-delete them, thats also about a 75% fake. No writing on their profile, i hide them as well. "taken"? of course i hide them as well. By then i at least have a few profiles to go through. Then, i probably have a 40% chance of response. Out of those responses, probably 5% will be a serious candidate... i estimate it will take 6 months at this rate. I have gotten better results off Craigslist LOL J and K
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